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Contents:

• GAY LEATHER GEAR
• GAY LEATHER SCENE TON DOWN FROM HARD-CORE TO DRS-UP
• KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY
• GAY LEATHER UNIFORM
• ABOUT SMLSEATTLE MEN LEATHER IS A SOCIAL GROUP DITED TO SEATTLE'S GAY MEN'S LEATHER MUNY. SML PUTS ON REGULAR SOCIALS AND CREATIVE EVENTS. WE HOST SPEAKERS AND PUT ON CLASS ON ALL MANNER OF SUBJECTS RELATED TO LEATHER AND KK. WE ARE FOCED ON GIVG PEOPLE AN OPPORTUNY TO MEET REAL LIFE AND VELOP THE IENDSHIPS AND RELATNSHIPS THAT THE LEATHER MUNY HAS ALWAYS BEEN BUILT ON.THE GROUP ALSO FOSTERS RELATNSHIPS WH OTHER LEATHER AND KK GROUPS AND WORKS TOGETHER TO SUPPORT WHICH ARE IMPORTANT TO MEMBERS. SML AIMS TO BE A PLACE WHERE THE NOVICE TO THE OLD PRO ARE WELE AND N FD A PLACE AMONG IENDS.”CO OF CONDUCT

GAY LEATHER GEAR

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GAY LEATHER SCENE TON DOWN FROM HARD-CORE TO DRS-UP

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KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY

Some of the first gay bars the Uned Stat were leather/kk-tered. The bartenr (or someone there) will be able to tell you where to go, what plac sell gear, what parti are happeng, where the guys cise, where the gayborhood is, and so on. You might say this is te of all gay bars -- not so.

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GAY LEATHER UNIFORM

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ABOUT SMLSEATTLE MEN LEATHER IS A SOCIAL GROUP DITED TO SEATTLE'S GAY MEN'S LEATHER MUNY. SML PUTS ON REGULAR SOCIALS AND CREATIVE EVENTS. WE HOST SPEAKERS AND PUT ON CLASS ON ALL MANNER OF SUBJECTS RELATED TO LEATHER AND KK. WE ARE FOCED ON GIVG PEOPLE AN OPPORTUNY TO MEET REAL LIFE AND VELOP THE IENDSHIPS AND RELATNSHIPS THAT THE LEATHER MUNY HAS ALWAYS BEEN BUILT ON.THE GROUP ALSO FOSTERS RELATNSHIPS WH OTHER LEATHER AND KK GROUPS AND WORKS TOGETHER TO SUPPORT WHICH ARE IMPORTANT TO MEMBERS. SML AIMS TO BE A PLACE WHERE THE NOVICE TO THE OLD PRO ARE WELE AND N FD A PLACE AMONG IENDS.”CO OF CONDUCT

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