How to Pick Up Gay Men: Buildg Confince & Makg a Move

Contents:

• CLOSG TIME FOR GAY PUBS – A NEW VICTIM OF LONDON’S SOARG PROPERTY PRIC
• GAY BARS REMA CLOSED BALTIMORE JT AS LGBTQ MUNY NEEDS THEM MOST
• CLOSG TIME: THE LOSS OF INIC GAY VENU IS A NASTY SI-EFFECT OF LONDON’S SANISATN
• FLORIDA'S 'DON'T SAY GAY' BILL IS PART OF THE STATE'S LONG, SHAMEFUL HISTORY
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• WHAT DO TOWN’S CLOSG MEAN FOR THE FUTURE OF GAY NIGHTLIFE D.C.?
• STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS

CLOSG TIME FOR GAY PUBS – A NEW VICTIM OF LONDON’S SOARG PROPERTY PRIC

As bt anyone n tell, the number of lbian bars peaked the 1980s, toppg out around 200 bs, acrdg to Greggor Mattson, an associate profsor of soclogy at Oberl College & Conservatory, who rearch LGBTQ+ muni, gay bars, equaly, and gentrifitn. But the most mon reasons ced by the operators of the dozen lbian bars terviewed by CNN Bs are the wage gap and fancial dispari of queer women and genr mori, as pared to their straight and cisgenr unterparts, as well as gay men. LBQ women tend to have lower e, lower spendg abily, and higher rat of poverty than gay men, straight women and straight men, said Bian Wilson, a senr scholar of public policy at The Williams Instute at the UCLA School of Law.

“We always say, ‘gay is so rilient, ’ … for the most part, ” said Moe Girton, owner of lbian-centric bar Gossip Grill San Diego, California. Gossip Grill saw a sal cle of 80% durg the panmic; however, gay club unterpart Urban Mo’s saw sal cle 40%. And Yenia Gaan’s Saturday “Taboo Nights” was billed as the bt mil show downtown Los New Jalis Bar weled people jt as they were — homosexual, transgeneros, s papel, drsed as vaqueros and old enough to feel out of place dancg to hoe mic Wt Hollywood.

’s only queer-foced ffee shop; Rage nightclub Wt Hollywood; San Francis’s olst gay bar, The Stud; Ltle Jim’s, the send-olst gay bar cle of gay bars started well before the panmic, part bee creased acceptance of queer people has lsened the need for bars as plac of refuge. Mattson said bars servg workg-class queer people are more likely to be phed out by gentrifitn than those terg to middle-class and whe gay men, he said. “The irony is that jt as gay bars have bee more clive, they’re startg to go away, ” he owners of Jalis are stgglg to ensure their closure isn’t Rosa Garcia, 53, started as a bartenr there 1992.

GAY BARS REMA CLOSED BALTIMORE JT AS LGBTQ MUNY NEEDS THEM MOST

Garcia, outgog and iendly, often threw back a beer or two wh patrons as they exchanged stori and the time, there was only one gay bar downtown: The Sre.

Then-Print Clton unveiled the “Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy, which prevented service members om beg openly gay, lbian or bisexual whout the threat of beg discharged. “Gay bars have survived polil opprsn, the AIDS crisis, prev recsns, so they will survive this panmic, ” he said. ”Cliff Joannou, who eds London gay listgs magaze QX, timat that 25% of LGBT venu have closed the pal sce the recsn.

CLOSG TIME: THE LOSS OF INIC GAY VENU IS A NASTY SI-EFFECT OF LONDON’S SANISATN

“We shouldn’t jt give to the market, but nor n we hang on to a mol of gay bars om the 90s, bee that might not be what we need now, ” says Matt Cook, senr lecturer history and genr studi at Birkbeck College, Universy of London, and thor of A Gay History of Bra. Many LGBT stunts Brighton, for example, appear to be ls enamoured of the bar scene than olr LGBT Brighton, for example, where hoe pric have risen steeply new LGBT homeowners often work and socialise London, leavg the cy’s gay bars stgglg – not least bee, at the same time, the tradnal annual flux of gay stunts is dryg up.

Acrdg to lol gay bs lear Jackie Crozier, “Manchter’s stunt populatn often prefer to drk at home as opposed to bars to save on money, so whilst many of the clubs don’t suffer, the bars which close earlier do. ” He is openg a new rtrant-bar-performance space Southwark, lled Atmos, but scrib as “gay-iendly” rather than as an LGBT, the appeal of the old-school gay bar may be more robt than seems. “As a young gay boy, I still feel the need to nnect wh other people who unrstand where I’m g om, ” he says.

” Brighton seems to bear this out – even as the bar scene stggl, the cy’s annual Pri event go om strength to strength and gay choirs and sports clubs attract hundreds of the rate at which existg venu are closg remas a ncern given how few new spac are takg their place.

FLORIDA'S 'DON'T SAY GAY' BILL IS PART OF THE STATE'S LONG, SHAMEFUL HISTORY

Wh Pri Month celebratns full swg, the fate of Baltimore’s gay bars and nightspots remas uncerta jt as the LGBTQ muny fac a myriad of mountg of the cy’s largt bars and venu — Central and The Manor — rema shuttered, wh no ditn that eher will be open for Pri Week activi this absence of what many ll “safe spac” for LGBTQ members occurs as they and their rights are unr attack by many nservative policians, activists and Knaff, a Harbor East rint and the longtime edor of The Washgton Bla, has been monorg the LGBTQ muny for the past two s. We’ve seen attacks on trans youth and drag queens, along wh book bans and even ‘Don’t say gay’ laws that are ripped om Vladimir Put’s playbook, ” Knaff strsed the sential nature of tablishments centered around LGBTQ clientele. “We need our own safe spac where we n be ourselv — gay bars are where I me out, where I met close iends and met my future hband.

No reopeng date has been Hay, Central’s owner, did not rpond to repeated msag om The Baltimore Manor’s fate also remas rtrant and nightclub has been “temporarily closed” sce shortly before Christmas due to damage om broken Up for AlertsGet notified of need-to-know om The Banner“At the current time, we do not have an exact reopeng date and we are at the mercy of ntractors, but we are hopeful won’t be much longer until we n reopen, ” said Josh Gay, who -owns the bs. Other plac — such as The Charl Feral Hill and The Brass Tap Statn North — have regular weekend drag shows, which are normally filled to plac like Guilford Brewery regularly offer LGBTQ-themed events, such as drag bnch, gay bgo and karaoke. ”In addn to providg a safe space for patrons, gay bars also offer employment opportuni for LGBTQ workers who might feel ls fortable workg heterosexual World War II, gay bars have served as “havens” for people such as drag performers and bartenrs lookg to make a livg the gay esystem, acrdg to Greggor Mattson, a soclogy profsor at Oberl College and thor of the 2023 book “Who Needs Gay Bars?

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”“For people who are very butch women or very femme mal or genr nonbary, gay clubs have been a key place of employment as well as for ctomers to fd ourselv, ” Mattson Beno, a bartenr at Leon’s Backroom, said his bar offers employment opportuni for all people, gay or straight.

”Gay bars fadg away BaltimoreWh the populary of datg apps and the growth of gay nights and clivy at straight tablishments, gay bars Baltimore were already a agile state before COVID-19.

(Kal Newman/The Baltimore Banner)On a random weekday night, you’ll be hard-prsed to fd an open, by gay bar Baltimore’s famed “gayborhood” of Mount addn to stapl such as The Manor and Central beg closed, The Drkery, a nearby longstandg gay dive bar that attracts a large Black clientele, is closed on Mondays.

WHAT DO TOWN’S CLOSG MEAN FOR THE FUTURE OF GAY NIGHTLIFE D.C.?

”The cle of gay bars Baltimore do not surprise Mattson, who spent time Charm Cy speakg wh ctomers at a handful of LGBTQ tablishments, many now closed, for his recently published book. Given that Baltimore don’t have a herent gayborhood as much as uld be, uld be losg s regnal tourism to Washgton, D. ”The viabily of gay bars has been a recurrg topic of nversatn the social circle of Karl Jabs, a gay bar patron.

STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS

Wh The Manor beg closed, there are no queer-owned bars left Mount Vernon, ” said Jabs, a 32-year-old neighborhood rint who has been gog to gay bars for the past two s. ”Brandon Gszczynski, manager of the Baltimore Eagle Bar & Nightclub, said he hop all the gay bars and tablishments rema open — particularly The Manor, which he said attracted “D. Baltimore Eagle, which tradnally has attracted members of the leather muny, has tried everythg n to keep patrons g out, addg go-go boy nights, bookg a slew of “RuPl’s Drag Race” nttants, and hostg parti for gay athletic teams, but ’s jt not drawg the same number of ctomers as a few years ago.