Four years, two ntents: a gay Che uple's journey for a surrogate son | Parents and parentg | The Guardian

Contents:

• BEG GAY CHA HAS GOTTEN HARR UNR XI JPG
• FOR CHA’S GAY MEN, DONGDAN PARK BEIJG OFFERS HAVEN
• GAY CHE MEN STOCK PHOTOS AND IMAG
• THE HIDN LIV OF GAY MEN CHA
• FOUR YEARS, TWO NTENTS: A GAY CHE UPLE'S JOURNEY FOR A SURROGATE SON
• GAY M/M CHA - (MOVI & DRAMAS)
• BEG GAY CHA HAS GOTTEN HARR UNR XI JPG

BEG GAY CHA HAS GOTTEN HARR UNR XI JPG

Durg this year’s Pri Month, soccer star Li Yg ma history as Cha’s first female athlete to e out publicly as gay, a ndid seri of celebratory photos posted on social media, showg her posg happily alongsi her partner. And while much of the reactn was posive, wh people sendg their ngratulatns, Li’s acunt was also undated wh a wave of homophobic abe.

FOR CHA’S GAY MEN, DONGDAN PARK BEIJG OFFERS HAVEN

In years past, June was filled wh LGBTQ (lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and queer) events major ci such as Shanghai and Beijg, durg which Cha’s sexual mori uld semi-openly celebrate their inty.

GAY CHE MEN STOCK PHOTOS AND IMAG

Cha crimalized homosexualy 1997 and removed om s official list of mental disorrs 2001. Some LGBTQ people have blamed the crackdown on the rrect imprsn that homosexualy is a Wtern import to Cha, and groups supportg gay rights are liable to filtratn by foreign forc.

Some also spect a more direct lk between the crackdown on LGBTQ rights and top officials’ worldviews, which for many were shaped durg the Cultural Revolutn the 1960s and ’70s, when thori attempted to purge any “non-socialist” elements — cludg homosexualy — om Che society. A more assertive, self-reliant Cha has rulted  a subtle but nstant narrowg of gay spacPhotographer: GREG BAKER/AFPHello, I’m Colum Murphy, a reporter on our Cha ernment team based Beijg, wh a look at the steady erosn of gay life Cha.

THE HIDN LIV OF GAY MEN CHA

First, here are your headl: This week’s top stori:Up NextBeg Gay Cha Has Gotten Harr Unr Xi Jpg.

I’ll take you to see the place where the gays go to play mahjong.

FOUR YEARS, TWO NTENTS: A GAY CHE UPLE'S JOURNEY FOR A SURROGATE SON

I’m here to take a tour of s gay scene and 29-year-old Ah Tao is my gui.

GAY M/M CHA - (MOVI & DRAMAS)

There has been some excellent rearch to the emergence of gay and lbian inti Cha, cludg how the have been shaped by ro-Amerin ias of “gay sensibily” and characterised by “dividualy, difference, sophistitn, liberatn and morny”. One 2018 study tailed gay bars Shanghai that rivalled those of any wtern pal, the anisatn of “pri” events and the tense ntexts which “queer” film ftivals and wir cultural productn and activism occur the face of ntued regulatn by the thorarian state.

Back 2009-10, I spent 12 months studyg Mandar Che Haan and ma iends lol gay muni. Inspired by those experienc, for the past eight years, I have been rryg out rearch wh gay men the regn and, 2018, pleted a PhD this explorg gay liv Haan. I wanted to fd out how gay liv are lived on the margs of global LGBT polics and activism, away om ci imaged as smopolan centr of morny.

My rearch explor how gay men Haan unrstand themselv, build muni and negotiate the prsur to nform to the heterosexual life script of marriage and reproductn. I looked to how gay liv are figured out everyday teractns, how they are shaped by the spac which they unfold and how this plays out over time. Hidn gay spac.

BEG GAY CHA HAS GOTTEN HARR UNR XI JPG

“When we get there, don’t say any gay stuff, ” Ah Tao warns me as we approach a shop the cut-out rner of a buildg at an tersectn wh an even narrower alley. When I first beme volved gay muni Haan back 2009, I was taken by iends to the sole gay bar Haikou, the provcial pal.

I later learned that the petg dynamics of centraly and obscury are characteristic of gay spac Haan. This abandoned hotel Sanya was the former lotn of a gay bar.

In the island’s biggt ci, Haikou and Sanya, there are gay bars and tablished cisg areas certa parks, centrally loted yet variably beyond the view of the wir public. Haikou’s current gay bar is accsed by climbg through a wdow on the fifth floor of an ageg tower block, out onto a balny, past a long dried-up swimmg pool and down a stg stairse. In Sanya, the well trodn pathways that criss-cross a bamboo grove where the edge of a park meets a riverbank are a by gay meetg spot, while the cy’s gay bar, durg the time of my fieldwork, was aga loted a dised hotel.

Wdow leadg to the gay bar Haikou. To anyone not faiar wh gay works the ci, the plac are visible and often impossible to fd.

As Xiaomai, a 19-year-old gay man Sanya, put :. Bee there really aren’t that many of gays … It’s good that we have the kds of plac. Outsi of the island’s ma ci, gay spac take a different form.

There are no gay bars or dark rners of parks ed exclively by gay men (or at least I have never found such plac). Instead, Haan’s smaller ci and towns, gay men meet teaho, nvenience stor and park spac shared wh other visors. In the spac, fears of beg “outed” and the possible damage this uld do to fay and profsnal relatnships, mean that, as I was warned by Ah Tao, is bt not to “say any gay stuff”.

Standg by my si, he nudg me wh his elbow and whispers my ear: “All the men here are gay. Careful regulatn of the language and knowledge that is allowed to circulate the spac ensur that gay men are only visible as gay men to one another.

Non-metropolan gay spac Haan are therefore characterised by dualy – they are both gay and straight spac. Spendg time the spac is a val way which gay men experience forms of llective belongg. Yet, the time spent the spac is marked by anxieti that, at any moment, cracks might appear the barrier between parallel gay and straight worlds.

In distct ways, gay spac Haan’s ci and towns are characterised by juxtaposns of visibily and visibily, centraly and margaly, prence and absence. In Haikou and Sanya, gay men are occupyg spac the heart of the ci. Here gay men meet one another pla sight, but their visibily as gay men is refully managed.

Gay spac Haan are a physil maniftatn of the muni, inti and liv they sta. Such patterns of juxtaposn and dualy speak volum about the possibili for livg gay liv.