The Middle Ag - a gay men's group | Meetup

Contents:

• STIGMA AND FAY RELATNSHIPS OF MIDDLE-AGED GAY MEN REVERY
• MIDDLE-AGED GAY MEN, AGEG AND AGEISM
• THE MIDDLE AG - A GAY MEN'S GROUP
• THE CURSE OF AN ATTRACTN TO OLR GAY MEN
• THE ADULT LIFE URSE AND HOMOSEXUAL INTY MIDLIFE GAY MEN
• MIDDLE-AGED GAY MEN

STIGMA AND FAY RELATNSHIPS OF MIDDLE-AGED GAY MEN REVERY

Mrice by EM ForsterThe gay grand-daddy of them all, Forster’s elegant love story was wrten 1913, but – for fear of sndal – remaed unpublished until his ath 60 years later. Yet gay men may have a more difficult time accsg certa fay-level health rourc bee their fai of orig may stigmatize, reject or silence them on acunt of their sexual orientatn.

Future rearch should explore how to rporate faial support to gay men’s revery, addrs ongog ternalized stigma, and velop a social rponse to stigma, rather than leavg to dividuals to nont on their own. Keywords: Gay Men, Revery, Stigma, Mory Strs, Agg, Fay SupportIntroductnGay men often enter treatment wh more severe substance abe and mental health problems than heterosexual people (Butler Center for Rearch, 2013; Green & Feste, 2012).

MIDDLE-AGED GAY MEN, AGEG AND AGEISM

Yet gay men may have a more difficult time accsg certa fay-level health rourc bee their fai of orig may stigmatize, reject or silence them on acunt of their sexual orientatn (Diaz, 1998; Frost & Meyer, 2009). A fay’s stigmatizatn of gay sexual orientatn mak difficult for them to provi the type of emotnal support need by gay men men’s challenge wh stigma extends beyond faial relatnships. Some gay men experience stigma, discrimatn, and vlence (Instute of Medice [IOM], 2011), and hence experience more social strs than their heterosexual unterparts (Conron, Mimiaga, & Lanrs, 2010; Frost, Lehavot, & Meyer, 2015; Mays & Cochran, 2001; Meyer, 2003).

THE MIDDLE AG - A GAY MEN'S GROUP

This may expla part why studi show that gay men experience higher rat of psychiatric morbidy and poor or fair self-rated health than their heterosexual unterparts (McLghl, Hatzenbuehler, Xuan, & Conron, 2012; Meyer, Dietrich, & Schwartz, 2008; Wallace, Cochran, Durazo, & Ford, 2011). A recent study monstrated that gay youth raised highly stigmatizg environments had a blunted rtisol rponse to strs, leadg rearchers to nclu that social excln may exert blogil effects ak to trmatic life experienc (Hatzenbuehler & McLghl, 2014).

E., vigilance, chronilly activat a person’s psychologil strs rpons, which turn leads to negative health out (IOM, 2002; Meyer, 2003; Meyer et al., 2008) know that some gay men report abg alhol and other substanc to pe wh sexual stigma and fay rejectn, pecially their youth and as young adults (Author, 2014; Kertzner, 2001; K, 1991; McAdams-Mahmoud et al., 2014; Ryan, Huebner, Diaz, & Sanchez, 2009).

THE CURSE OF AN ATTRACTN TO OLR GAY MEN

Yet the lerature on pg among gay men tends to foc on younger men (McDavt et al., 2008) or clu participants whose average age is below middle age (Christman, 2012). Middle- aged gay men’s velopmental trajectory differs om that of younger horts terms of when they first regnized their same-sex attractn and then self-intified as gay (Floyd & Bakeman, 2006).

In the Uned Stat, their historil ntext also differs om that of younger horts: the men were adolcents and young adults the 1960s and 1970s and would have wnsed the birth of the gay rights movement, followed by the AIDS epimic of the 1980s as well as the peak of AIDS-related aths between 1987 and 1996 (Rosenfeld, Bartlam, & Smh, 2012). All the factors shaped middle-aged gay men’s experienc of stigma, fay relatnships, alhol and substance e, and how they thk about revery unrstand how middle-aged gay men revery experience and pe wh stigma, we terviewed a multiethnic hort of gay men and looked at the chang their pg skills as they transned om young adulthood to middle age and om alhol mise to revery. Gay inty is a stigmatized inty: gay men experience excs strs on acunt of their social posn as sexual mori and this strs is unique to them, chronic, and social gay dividuals who do experience stigma, mory strs typilly unfolds the followg manner: 1) there is a strsful event or ndn of a chronic nature such as relig nmnatn, fay rejectn, or ncealment of sexual orientatn; 2) those affected by this strs start to expect the events and therefore bee more vigilant; 3) over time, some of the negative attus bee ternalized (Meyer, 2003).

THE ADULT LIFE URSE AND HOMOSEXUAL INTY MIDLIFE GAY MEN

ParticipantsWe reced middle-aged gay men g a variety of methods such as postg flyers at 12-step centers, ntactg agenci throughout Los Angel County that serve gay men, and cha samplg (N = 30). We partnered wh a muny-based anizatn that operat three alhol and substance abe centers Los Angel County that clus programmg targetg gay, lbian, bisexual, and transgenr populatns.

Participants had to meet the followg cln creria: 1) self-intify as Ain Amerin/Black, Lato, or Whe men; 2) self-intify as gay; 3) aged 50–64; 4) self-report a history of alhol abe or pennce; 5) report beg sober for at least the last 30 days; and 6) have ntact wh fay and iends at least once per persons nductg the terviews had experience workg wh the populatn and nductg terviews wh them.

This ductive approach helps to unrstand what the participants’ experienc wh people and social stctur mean to them as middle-aged gay men revery, as opposed to what the experienc would mean to people who are neher stigmatized nor revery (Pudphat, 2006). ” He also reported more than one stigmatized inty: “I jt had this guilt… and shame bee of the way I was brought up, and the prejudic of beg, you know, my beg Lato and beg gay Pasana, California at that time.

MIDDLE-AGED GAY MEN

He said, “[Homosexualy] was always tght agast [ the church], so I figured one, beg prejudice agast for my lor and then another for my sexual orientatn was a b much, you know what I’m sayg? I abandoned the fay for a long time bee I jt didn’t wanna – well, first started off I didn’t wanna molt my brothers bee that’s what I was told – that’s what gay men do. Sometim you have to keep drkg and drkg to try to drown out the negativy and as a rult you actually [end up] highlight[g] the negativy bee now, not only are you gay, but you’re a dg addict [too].