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Contents:

• 5 REASONS GAY-STRAIGHT MARRIAG CAN WORK
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• GAY PEOPLE WHO WERE IN HETEROSEXUAL MARRIAG ARE SHARG THEIR STORI, AND THEY WERE INCREDIBLY HONT
• HETEROSEXUAL AND HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAG – ARE STRAIGHT AND GAY MARRIAG INTIL?
• STRAIGHT UPL GET MARRIED EARLIER THAN GAY UPL. HERE'S A LOOK AT WHY.
• LEGIMACY OF ‘CTOMER’ SUPREME COURT GAY RIGHTS SE RAIS ETHIL AND LEGAL FLAGS
• KEV SPACEY: I N’T TELL WHETHER MEN ARE GAY JT BY LOOKG AT THEM
• MANY BRONS HAVE CHANGED THEIR MDS ON GAY MARRIAGE
• I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
• CALIFORNIA VOTERS WILL BE ASKED TO REAFFIRM GAY MARRIAGE PROTECTNS ON 2024 BALLOT
• WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY
• CALIFORNIA STILL HAS AN ANTI-GAY MARRIAGE LAW ON THE BOOKS. VOTERS ULD REMOVE NEXT YEAR
• DIPLOMATIC TENSN REPORTEDLY RISG BETWEEN UNED STAT AND JAMAI OVER GAY AMERIN DIPLOMAT
• TEXAS JUDGE WHO DON’T WANT TO PERFORM GAY MARRIAGE CEREMONI HOP WEB SIGNER’S SUPREME COURT SE HELPS HER FIGHT
• LATVIA BE 7TH NATN TO BE LED BY AN OPENLY GAY HEAD OF STATE

5 REASONS GAY-STRAIGHT MARRIAG CAN WORK

Most people thk that divorce is a foregone ncln when one spoe out of the closet as gay a marriage. Sce the overall statistic for divorce approach 50%, one n extrapolate that about 30% of MOM's end divorce primarily bee of the homosexual issue. The more problems there are addn to one spoe beg gay, the more likely the marriage will not be able to survive.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

If the overwhelmg issue is that a spoe is gay, but the marriage has few other problems, the marriage is more likely to survive. This aspect may seem a b nfg, sce the gay spoe is naturally romantilly attracted to the same how uld they profs love for their spoe?

GAY PEOPLE WHO WERE IN HETEROSEXUAL MARRIAG ARE SHARG THEIR STORI, AND THEY WERE INCREDIBLY HONT

First, although a gay person may be predomantly attracted to the same sex, is entirely possible to be ocsnally attracted to the oppose sex. There is a theory that attractns occur on a ntuum and that very few people are strictly 100% gay or 100% heterosexual. When prsed, many gay spo will adm to beg lovg toward their spoe rather than beg love.

Of urse, beg gay is not jt about sex, but rather the romantic emotnal attachments rived om a same sex partner. So, even wh low sex drive acunted for, the gay partner may experience a sire to form an emotnal relatnship outsi the marriage. In some s gay spo are able to nnect wh others the same circumstance and form non-sexual emotnal relatnships.

A danger to avoid is tryg to change the gay spoe's orientatn to straight.

HETEROSEXUAL AND HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAG – ARE STRAIGHT AND GAY MARRIAG INTIL?

A much better optn is to acknowledge the gay spoe and to try and acmodate their needs. Relig beliefs n work agast the uple if the gay spoe to experience guilt and you are a spoe a mixed orientatn marriage, you owe to yourself to give reful nsiratn to the cisn to divorce or stay together. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay?

STRAIGHT UPL GET MARRIED EARLIER THAN GAY UPL. HERE'S A LOOK AT WHY.

" Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men. If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well.

LEGIMACY OF ‘CTOMER’ SUPREME COURT GAY RIGHTS SE RAIS ETHIL AND LEGAL FLAGS

If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay? Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own.

In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved.

But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye.

KEV SPACEY: I N’T TELL WHETHER MEN ARE GAY JT BY LOOKG AT THEM

Kaye has veloped the Official Gay Hband Checklist to help women know if their hbands are gay. You fd pop-ups of gay pornography on the puter while he claims they are not his. A hband may be gay and display none of those signs or a hband may display the signs and not be gay.

MANY BRONS HAVE CHANGED THEIR MDS ON GAY MARRIAGE

Kaye advis that women "follow their stcts" when cidg whether their hband may be gay. If turns out that a hband is, fact, gay, the fallout n be difficult to al wh, particularly for the straight partner.

I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN

(If you're thkg that you n cure the gay by havg your hband go to gay nversn therapy, read this. What's important to remember is that the hband's homosexualy is entirely his rponsibily and has nothg to do wh the wife. The wife has not been aquate any way and likely the gay hband married her bee he tly red about her.

We recently asked the gay members of the BuzzFeed Communy to share their stori about g out after they'd been a heterosexual marriage.

CALIFORNIA VOTERS WILL BE ASKED TO REAFFIRM GAY MARRIAGE PROTECTNS ON 2024 BALLOT

"I knew I was gay, but where I grew up was not OK to be gay, so I hid my imagary closet too sred to e out for fear that I would be beaten up and rejected. My two children om my first marriage, who happened to be gay, were both very supportive and are thrilled that I’m fally happy. I got sober and started EMDR therapy and eventually me to terms that my sexualy was the reason for a lot of drkg, anger, and ternalized homophobia.

WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY

His marriage fell apart shortly after my dad was born, partly bee of him beg gay and partly bee of other unrelated issu.

CALIFORNIA STILL HAS AN ANTI-GAY MARRIAGE LAW ON THE BOOKS. VOTERS ULD REMOVE NEXT YEAR

Not to be rny, but I’m gay myself and to see someone my fay that was gay and end up happy was amazg.

I always knew I was gay, but I grew up the '80s and lived fear of beg kicked out and rejected.

DIPLOMATIC TENSN REPORTEDLY RISG BETWEEN UNED STAT AND JAMAI OVER GAY AMERIN DIPLOMAT

It was vastatg to my mom bee she had no ia about him beg gay until he lled her to tell her before he told kids. I ed to try and hi as a kid bee I didn’t know anyone else who had a gay parent, but now I see how fortunate I am to have divorced parents who lgh and joke and enjoy each other's pany whout any bterns or jealoy.

If you me out as gay durg or after you were a heterosexual marriage, tell your story (or e this Google Form if you want to be anonymo). Although Kerby wrote this article before same-sex marriage was legalized, his asssment of homosexual relatnships has not changed bee the trsilly disorred nature of same-sex relatnships has not changed.

TEXAS JUDGE WHO DON’T WANT TO PERFORM GAY MARRIAGE CEREMONI HOP WEB SIGNER’S SUPREME COURT SE HELPS HER FIGHT

Then he nsirs the difficulti troduced by homosexual marriage obtag the same benefs. Is there any difference between heterosexual marriage and homosexual marriage?

LATVIA BE 7TH NATN TO BE LED BY AN OPENLY GAY HEAD OF STATE

This is not te (as I discs more tail my book A Biblil Pot of View on Homosexualy{1}). So before we even nsir the impact of homosexualy, same-sex marriage, and other alternative liftyl, we should nsir the benefs of tradnal marriage to society.