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Contents:
- GAY MEN USED TO EARN LS THAN STRAIGHT MEN; NOW THEY EARN MORE
- HOW TO BE GAY AT WORK
- STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
- LIFTG THE GAY GYM STEREOTYPE
- WORKG WH GAY MALE CLIENTS
- GAY MEN AND THE MENTAL HEALTH ASPECTS OF WORKG OM HOME
- HOW GAY MEN NAVIGATE THE CORPORATE WORLD
GAY MEN USED TO EARN LS THAN STRAIGHT MEN; NOW THEY EARN MORE
For 20 years, nearly all the studi on gay men the workplace have found an intil rult: parg the earngs of two men wh siar tn profil, years of experience, skills, and job rponsibili, gay men nsistently earns ls than straight men (between 5% and 10% ls). The stabily of this fdg has been remarkable: has been replited across numero datasets several different untri. Until now. In a recent paper, rearchers om Vanrbilt analyzed data om a major feral survey the Uned Stat that had not prevly been ed this lerature – prumably bee only recently began to ask about sexual orientatn – and found that the gay male earngs penalty had disappeared. * gay men working *
For 20 years, nearly all the studi on gay men the workplace have found an intil rult: parg the earngs of two men wh siar tn profil, years of experience, skills, and job rponsibili, gay men nsistently earns ls than straight men (between 5% and 10% ls). In a recent paper, rearchers om Vanrbilt analyzed data om a major feral survey the Uned Stat that had not prevly been ed this lerature – prumably bee only recently began to ask about sexual orientatn – and found that the gay male earngs penalty had disappeared.
A recent Pew Rearch Foundatn study reported that 92% of all LGBTQ adults felt that society is more acceptg of them than a ago, and 87% of adults report personally knowg someone who is gay or lbian (up om 61% 1993).
HOW TO BE GAY AT WORK
Learn how to approach and flirt wh gay guys at clubs, bars, or other venuMeetg gay guys is hard. First you have to terme if the guy you're terted is gay or straight. Then you have to approach him and strike up a... * gay men working *
Trans people face pecially sharp barriers to advancement the workplace, and their experience is distct om that of cisgenr people who also intify as lbian, gay, bisexual, or queer. " Dolly, bab, we n Dolly's office polics bop don't offer any sight to one particular profsnal dilemma: how do you navigate beg gay the workplace?
I've been a wrer and edor for around a and never really experienced any overt homophobia at work. A few years ago, an edor missned me to wre a profile of a gay male pop star whose mic I loved and knew si out. “I didn't jt ask you to wre this feature bee you're gay…”My God, was awkward.
Wh that md, here's a handy gui to beg gay and happy the 't e out if you don't want toFundamentally, g out at work is exactly like g out to iends and fay. It's not a hard and fast cisn, but a personal journey that tak longer for some gay people than others. You'll know when 's right to nfi workers, and you'll probably know the most appropriate way to do a worker actually asks, "Are you gay?
STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
* gay men working *
" It's also perfectly ol to reply, "Y, but not que as gay as Cher's wig-maker. When I was stgglg to e out at school, nothg ma me more nervo than an olr gay stunt boastg about his wild sexual pas that weekend. Jt grabbg happy hour drks every uple of weeks wh the other workplace gays n be a galvanizg experience.
It's also a great place to bch about (and brastorm solutns to) any heteronormative pany-wi 't put up wh low-key homophobic languageIn 2018, most of are lucky enough not to work wh outright bigots. In celebratn of Gay Pri the Kilted Coach have jt released a new vio of love and support for their avid viewers, men who love men. This is an update to our prevly tled “Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgenr Workplace Issu” Quick Take.
LIFTG THE GAY GYM STEREOTYPE
Unrstand health ncerns for gay men and other men who have sex wh men, and learn how to promote good health. * gay men working *
9% of gay women are out to all workers, pared to 19. 3% of gay and lbian employe said they changed the way they prent themselv at work (cludg their physil appearance, how they drs, and their voice or mannerisms).
0% of gay men reported they avoid social events or talkg about their fai and liv at work, pared to 63. In 2018, Beth Ford beme the CEO of Land O’Lak and the first openly gay woman to n a Fortune 500 pany.
Tim Cook (Apple), Jim Fterlg (Dow), and Jefey Gente (Macy’s) are also openly gay Fortune 500 CEOs. DEFINITION: LGBTQ+ is an abbreviatn for the muny of people who intify as lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, queer or qutng, pl any other sexual or genr mory. State-sponsored homophobia: Global legislatn overview update.
WORKG WH GAY MALE CLIENTS
In this DVD, Douglas C. Halman monstrat his eclectic, relatnship-foced approach to therapy wh gay men. * gay men working *
Learn how to approach and flirt wh gay guys at clubs, bars, or other venu. First you have to terme if the guy you're terted is gay or straight.
We’ve veloped a handy gui to walk you through pickg up gay men at clubs, bars, or other venu where you’re likely to meet them.
GAY MEN AND THE MENTAL HEALTH ASPECTS OF WORKG OM HOME
While is possible to meet and pick up gay men at any old bar, you'll have more luck if you go to a gay bar. Not every guy the place will be gay, but the numbers are your favor. There are also loads of apps for meetg gay guys nowadays.
HOW GAY MEN NAVIGATE THE CORPORATE WORLD
Try Grdr, Adult Friend Fr, or Tr to meet gay or bi people lookg to hook up, or OK Cupid or Hge if you’re terted makg a eper nnectn.
If you have iends who are gay, turn to them for support. Article SummaryXPickg up a gay man n be timidatg, but if you play ol, act nfint, and be yourself, you've fely got this! For 22-year-old Leo, a gay prostute Strasbourg, France, turng tricks is more than a job.
The htler, played by BPM alum Felix Mard, has unrequed feelgs for Ahd (Eric Bernard), a fellow sex worker who sists he's jt gay for pay. How did playg this role change your perceptns of gay sex workers?