Grey's Anatomy Character Laments Years 'Wasted' to Gay Shame

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• JAKE BORELLI ON WHY GREY'S ANATOMY'S GAY BLOOD BAN STORY IS PERSONAL
• MEET ALEX LANDI, THE ACTOR PLAYG GREY'S ANATOMY'S FIRST GAY MALE SURGEON
• 'GREY'S ANATOMY' ACTOR JAKE BORELLI'S CHARACTER ME OUT AS GAY. THEN HE DID TOO.
• 'GREY'S ANATOMY' ACTOR OUT AS GAY
• GREY'S ANATOMY CHARACTER LAMENTS YEARS 'WASTED' TO GAY SHAME
• GREY'S ANATOMY ADDS A GAY MALE SURGEON: WHY IT'S ABOUT TIME
• OPEN MENUVIOSHOPWELLNSFOODCULTUREFAYLIVGSTYLETRAVELNEWSBOOK CLUBGMA3: WYNTKNEWSLETTERPRIVACY POLICY — YOUR US STATE PRIVACY RIGHTS — CHILDREN'S ONLE PRIVACY POLICY — INTERT-BASED ADS — TERMS OF USE — DO NOT SELL MY INFO — CONTACT USCOPYRIGHT © 2023 ABC NEWS INTER VENTUR. ALL RIGHTS RERVED.SEARCH'GMA' DEALS & STEALS ON WHEELS: PHILALPHIACULTUREOCTOBER 27, 2021'GREY'S ANATOMY' SEASON 18 TRODUC 1ST NONBARY DOCTOR SHOW'S HISTORY27:00BONNIE OSBORNE/ABC'GREY'S ANATOMY' ST MEMBERS ON WHAT MEANS TO BE BLACK WOMEN HOLLYWOODBY CARSON BLACKWELRVIO BY BRTANY BERKOWZSHARE —SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTERS TO GET GMA LIVERED TO YOUR BOX EVERY MORNG!E.R. FIGHTMASTER IS MAKG HISTORY ON "GREY'S ANATOMY" AS DR. KAI BARTLEY.THE ACTOR, WHO IS NONBARY AND PLAYS THE SHOW'S FIRST NONBARY DOCTOR, HAS BEEN UPPED TO A RECURRG CHARACTER FOR THE SERI' 18TH SEASON. FIGHTMASTER WAS FIRST TRODUCED AS KAI THE OCT. 7 EPISO.MORE: KATE WALSH TALKS HER 'GREY'S ANATOMY' RETURN AND THE FUTURE OF HER CHARACTERKAI IS A NROSCIENTIST ON THE REARCH TEAM DR. DAVID HATON (PETER GALLAGHER) PUT TOGETHER TO FD THE CURE TO PARKSON'S DISEASE. DR. MEREDH GREY (ELLEN POMPEO) AND DR. AMELIA SHEPHERD (CATERA SRSONE) HAVE JOED THE TEAM, AND WILL SPL THEIR TIME BETWEEN MNOTA AND GREY SLOAN MEMORIAL HOSPAL.BONNIE OSBORNE/ABCE.R. FIGHTMASTER ON "GREY'S ANATOMY.""THEY ARE DITED TO THEIR CRAFT AND EXTREMELY TALENTED AT WHAT THEY DO," READS ABC'S CHARACTER SCRIPTN FOR KAI. "CONFINT AS HELL AND ABLE TO MAKE EVEN THE MOST TAILED AND MUNDANE SCIENCE SEEM EXCG AND OL, KAI AND AMELIA BOND OVER THEIR SHARED LOVE OF MEDICE AND THE BRA."WHILE MEREDH WAS CLEARLY FAIAR WH KAI'S WORK, WAS AMELIA WHO WAS ENTHIASTIC GETTG TO WORK WH THEM. THERE WAS EVEN A SPARK OF CHEMISTRY BETWEEN AMELIA AND KAI THE OCT. 14 EPISO.MORE: CHANDRA WILSON TALKS 'GREY'S ANATOMY' SEASON 18: COVID, KATE WALSH'S RETURN AND MOREFIGHTMASTER, WHO GOT THEIR START AT CHIGO'S SEND CY THEATRE, IS BT KNOWN FOR THEIR ROLE ON HULU'S "SHRILL." AS A MICIAN, THEY ARE HALF OF THE DUO TW.THEY WILL NEXT APPEAR AS BARTLEY WHEN "GREY'S ANATOMY" RETURNS ON NOV. 11.SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTERS TO GET GMA LIVERED TO YOUR BOX EVERY MORNG!UP NEXT CULTURESEE ADAM SANDLER STAR ALONGSI DGHTERS, WIFE NEW FILM
• 'GREY'S ANATOMY' STAR JSE WILLIAMS MAK A SE FOR WHY STRAIGHT ACTORS N PLAY GAY ROL HIS BROADWAY BUT, 'TAKE ME OUT'

JAKE BORELLI ON WHY GREY'S ANATOMY'S GAY BLOOD BAN STORY IS PERSONAL

It's rare to see a gay relatnship between men shown on a televisn show of Grey's liber, and the normalcy and emotns showg the two's love for one another are rehg. Callie Torr' father to Seattle Grace wh the pastor of their church and a plan to nvce his dghter she isn't gay this emotnal episo that shows a real look at how people of the LGBTQ+ muny n be treated by their own loved on. After she shouts at her father that he n't "pray away the gay, " Callie tells Arizona she don't need a fay who's not gog to accept her for who she is.

MEET ALEX LANDI, THE ACTOR PLAYG GREY'S ANATOMY'S FIRST GAY MALE SURGEON

" Kyle explas to Callie how all he wanted was to make the day feel special, as the state of Washgton didn't regnize gay marriage as a real marriage. Gay marriage fally beme legal jt 10 years ago Washgton, 2012, one year after this episo aired. Dpe beg troduced send to Levi, Ni is ially the first openly gay male surgeon Grey’s Anatomy.

'GREY'S ANATOMY' ACTOR JAKE BORELLI'S CHARACTER ME OUT AS GAY. THEN HE DID TOO.

Schmt is signifint for beg one of the first openly gay ma characters and the first gay seri regular the show. The beloved character, who me out as gay at the same time Jake Borelli, who portrays him, me out publicly, worked amid the trma of early COVID-19 last season, and suffered full-on burnout after losg his first patient unr the hospal's new trag method this season. But for Borelli, a gay blood ban story that volv Levi Grey's Anatomy's 18th season fale (also the show's whoppg 400th episo), is eply personal.

"In preparg for the episo and talkg to people about this, I found that pecially om the straight muny, that there's this ia that oh, well, the blood ban is now no longer a lifetime blood ban for gay men, " he adds.

"You're fe as long as you don't have sex, as long as you don't partake sodomy, or if you don't get married, " Borelli says of ndnal acceptance of gay and bi men. "Borelli, 31, joed ABC's long-nng medil drama 2018, g out publicly as his character's gay storyle unfold not long after. I uldn't bee I knew that I was gay, " Borelli says.

'GREY'S ANATOMY' ACTOR OUT AS GAY

Here, the actor and those who know him reveal the story of the man behd Grey's Anatomy's first openly gay male surgeon.

Actor Jake Borelli remembers that when he was a kid growg up Oh, he sperately wanted to see gay characters on Thursday’s episo of Grey’s Anatomy, he was one of the actors featured the show’s first gay male romance, between his character, tern Dr. The two shared a kiss, and Schmt me out as gay.

“As a gay guy myself, tonight’s episo was so special to me. This is exactly the kd of story I craved as a young gay kid growg up Oh, and blows my md that I’m able to brg life to Dr. “As a lbian myself, you have no ia how much means that gay people are out there reprentg gay characters, ” add another.

GREY'S ANATOMY CHARACTER LAMENTS YEARS 'WASTED' TO GAY SHAME

“This is hontly such an amazg thg, ” he wrote, “As a gay man myself, is so great to see you be able to be yourself real life and on tv.

When shownner Krista Vernoff lled this summer to say Levi would be part of the first gay male romance on the ABC h drama, he didn't expect to fd himself facg his own life-alterg cisn.

" On Thursday night, immediately followg the Wt Coast airg of Grey's and Levi's own g out, Borelli took to Instagram to tell the world he is gay. He wrote, "As a gay guy myself, tonight's episo was so special to me.

GREY'S ANATOMY ADDS A GAY MALE SURGEON: WHY IT'S ABOUT TIME

Vernoff tells EW that the ia for this storyle actually me not om a place of wantg to do a gay romance, but rather tryg to fd a new, pellg arc for Borelli. "I've known that I was gay sce I was very young, 8th or 9th gra, and I me out to myself around that time.

"In his own way, 's how he feels fortable sayg, 'I'm gay, '" says Borelli.

Knight me out unr tense media scty and prsure the wake of a sndal volvg -star Isaiah Washgton g a gay slur on set.

OPEN MENUVIOSHOPWELLNSFOODCULTUREFAYLIVGSTYLETRAVELNEWSBOOK CLUBGMA3: WYNTKNEWSLETTERPRIVACY POLICY — YOUR US STATE PRIVACY RIGHTS — CHILDREN'S ONLE PRIVACY POLICY — INTERT-BASED ADS — TERMS OF USE — DO NOT SELL MY INFO — CONTACT USCOPYRIGHT © 2023 ABC NEWS INTER VENTUR. ALL RIGHTS RERVED.SEARCH'GMA' DEALS & STEALS ON WHEELS: PHILALPHIACULTUREOCTOBER 27, 2021'GREY'S ANATOMY' SEASON 18 TRODUC 1ST NONBARY DOCTOR SHOW'S HISTORY27:00BONNIE OSBORNE/ABC'GREY'S ANATOMY' ST MEMBERS ON WHAT MEANS TO BE BLACK WOMEN HOLLYWOODBY CARSON BLACKWELRVIO BY BRTANY BERKOWZSHARE —SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTERS TO GET GMA LIVERED TO YOUR BOX EVERY MORNG!E.R. FIGHTMASTER IS MAKG HISTORY ON "GREY'S ANATOMY" AS DR. KAI BARTLEY.THE ACTOR, WHO IS NONBARY AND PLAYS THE SHOW'S FIRST NONBARY DOCTOR, HAS BEEN UPPED TO A RECURRG CHARACTER FOR THE SERI' 18TH SEASON. FIGHTMASTER WAS FIRST TRODUCED AS KAI THE OCT. 7 EPISO.MORE: KATE WALSH TALKS HER 'GREY'S ANATOMY' RETURN AND THE FUTURE OF HER CHARACTERKAI IS A NROSCIENTIST ON THE REARCH TEAM DR. DAVID HATON (PETER GALLAGHER) PUT TOGETHER TO FD THE CURE TO PARKSON'S DISEASE. DR. MEREDH GREY (ELLEN POMPEO) AND DR. AMELIA SHEPHERD (CATERA SRSONE) HAVE JOED THE TEAM, AND WILL SPL THEIR TIME BETWEEN MNOTA AND GREY SLOAN MEMORIAL HOSPAL.BONNIE OSBORNE/ABCE.R. FIGHTMASTER ON "GREY'S ANATOMY.""THEY ARE DITED TO THEIR CRAFT AND EXTREMELY TALENTED AT WHAT THEY DO," READS ABC'S CHARACTER SCRIPTN FOR KAI. "CONFINT AS HELL AND ABLE TO MAKE EVEN THE MOST TAILED AND MUNDANE SCIENCE SEEM EXCG AND OL, KAI AND AMELIA BOND OVER THEIR SHARED LOVE OF MEDICE AND THE BRA."WHILE MEREDH WAS CLEARLY FAIAR WH KAI'S WORK, WAS AMELIA WHO WAS ENTHIASTIC GETTG TO WORK WH THEM. THERE WAS EVEN A SPARK OF CHEMISTRY BETWEEN AMELIA AND KAI THE OCT. 14 EPISO.MORE: CHANDRA WILSON TALKS 'GREY'S ANATOMY' SEASON 18: COVID, KATE WALSH'S RETURN AND MOREFIGHTMASTER, WHO GOT THEIR START AT CHIGO'S SEND CY THEATRE, IS BT KNOWN FOR THEIR ROLE ON HULU'S "SHRILL." AS A MICIAN, THEY ARE HALF OF THE DUO TW.THEY WILL NEXT APPEAR AS BARTLEY WHEN "GREY'S ANATOMY" RETURNS ON NOV. 11.SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTERS TO GET GMA LIVERED TO YOUR BOX EVERY MORNG!UP NEXT CULTURESEE ADAM SANDLER STAR ALONGSI DGHTERS, WIFE NEW FILM

"I had all the giant, inic televisn shows tellg me that 's ok to be gay, 's ok to be out, and growg up that environment for the last 10 years had ma a ltle b more of a welg environment for me to e out right now.

"As a gay guy, you have to e out all the time.

'GREY'S ANATOMY' STAR JSE WILLIAMS MAK A SE FOR WHY STRAIGHT ACTORS N PLAY GAY ROL HIS BROADWAY BUT, 'TAKE ME OUT'

People thk g out is the first time [someone] says they're gay when realy g out is a nstant procs, " he says.

It don't have to be about beg gay. Jake Borelli, the actor who plays him, did, Thursday, after the long-nng medil drama troduced s first-ever gay romance and male-on-male kiss between Schmt and new character Ni Kim (Alex Landi), Borelli celebrated the landmark moment on Instagram. “As a gay guy myself, tonight’s episo was so special to me, " the 27-year-old wrote.

"This is exactly the kd of story I craved as a young gay kid growg up Oh, and blows my md that I’m able to brg life to Dr. Shownner Krista Vernoff told Entertament Weekly that she was spired to wre the gay romance for Borelli's character bee Schmt remd her of a iend llege "who was sort of a clumsy, fumferg type who would trip over his own feet and would stutter, and then he me out toward the end of our hman year and emerged as a pletely different human beg bee he was livg his tth. But to be clear, there were many stumbl durg those early years, as gay TV characters were quietly weaved to stori and met wh cidly mixed rults.