In this DVD, Douglas C. Halman monstrat his eclectic, relatnship-foced approach to therapy wh gay men.
Contents:
- HOW TO BE GAY AT WORK
- GAY MEN USED TO EARN LS THAN STRAIGHT MEN; NOW THEY EARN MORE
- WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE A GAY MAN?
- HOW TO LOOK GREAT AS A GAY MAN
- WORKG WH GAY MALE CLIENTS
- STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
HOW TO BE GAY AT WORK
Stan's ia to work for a better future is gayer than actually beg gay. * working man gay *
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You'll know when 's right to nfi workers, and you'll probably know the most appropriate way to do a worker actually asks, "Are you gay? " It's also perfectly ol to reply, "Y, but not que as gay as Cher's wig-maker.
GAY MEN USED TO EARN LS THAN STRAIGHT MEN; NOW THEY EARN MORE
Two male sex workers—one straight, one gay—talked to about the stigma they face and what they’re dog to get rid of . * working man gay *
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WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE A GAY MAN?
For 20 years, nearly all the studi on gay men the workplace have found an intil rult: parg the earngs of two men wh siar tn profil, years of experience, skills, and job rponsibili, gay men nsistently earns ls than straight men (between 5% and 10% ls). The stabily of this fdg has been remarkable: has been replited across numero datasets several different untri. Until now. In a recent paper, rearchers om Vanrbilt analyzed data om a major feral survey the Uned Stat that had not prevly been ed this lerature – prumably bee only recently began to ask about sexual orientatn – and found that the gay male earngs penalty had disappeared. * working man gay *
Gay man liv a different life at work. In 29 stat, private pani n legally fire or not hire someone bee he/she is gay.
Sam is gay, and the closet. He has worked at the same place for 27 years, specializg highway nstctn, and while he knows that some of his lleagu spect he is gay, he has never revealed his sexualy at the office. Though he knows of other homosexuals his 4, 000-employee work force, he says no one is openly gay.
Jason works at a major rporatn one of the 29 stat where private pani n legally fire, or not hire, someone bee she or he is gay. “There is no protectn, ” said the gay rights activist, ncedg that there is some hypocrisy mpaigng for gay rights while ncealg his homosexualy. So they uld pot blank say I don’t want a gay person workg unr me.
HOW TO LOOK GREAT AS A GAY MAN
Straight Men & the Men Who Love Them: Directed by Javier Agirre, Je Ameer, Alequ Eerer, Stewart Wa. A llectn of shorts that explor the relatnships between gay men and straight men. The llectn clus Espac Dos (Spa) In the Name of the Father (Brazil), My Straight Boyiend (US), Tth or Consequenc (Brazil), Coffee Date (US), Poprn & Coke (UK), and Unhibed." data-id="ma * working man gay *
Another jot study by Delote, a nsultg and fancial servic firm, and New York Universy, found that 83% of lbian, gay and bisexual workers reported “verg” a part of their sexual inty at work. Apple CEO Tim Cook publicly acknowledged Thursday that he is gay, beg the only CEO of a Fortune 500 pany to announce his homosexualy while at the helm of a major pany. “So if hearg that the CEO of Apple is gay n help someone stgglg to e to terms wh who he or she is, or brg fort to anyone who feels alone, or spire people to sist on their equaly, then ’s worth the tra-off wh my own privacy.
WORKG WH GAY MALE CLIENTS
Unrstand health ncerns for gay men and other men who have sex wh men, and learn how to promote good health. * working man gay *
Cook’s announcement triggered Twter ers to make #proudtobegay a trendg topic for several hours.
“Proud of Tim Cook for g his voice and his fluence to help others, ” tennis legend and openly gay athlete Billie Jean Kg wrote. Knowg the apple CEO is gay will fort and spire so many young people who are aaid.
Brandon’s ncern was backed by a 2011 Harvard study that found some stat, there was signifint discrimatn agast openly gay applints, wh gay job applints approximately 40% ls likely to be offered a job terview than their heterosexual unterparts. For 22-year-old Leo, a gay prostute Strasbourg, France, turng tricks is more than a job. The htler, played by BPM alum Felix Mard, has unrequed feelgs for Ahd (Eric Bernard), a fellow sex worker who sists he's jt gay for pay.
STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
Men general are more visually-oriented than women. Partly bee of this, gay men often put more effort to their appearanc pared to their straight unterparts. Dpe stereotyp, however, there is no narrowly-fed way of... * working man gay *
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"Male sex workers, whether straight or gay, are not really talked about. Throughout history, gay and bisexual men have held a special place many ancient cultur.
In the Powers of Man vios, workshops, and class we will explore the important rol of gay and bisexual men the healthy functng of ancient cultur as a way to te and empower to re-embrace the rol our liv today. Through this work he hop to create a posive, creative, life-affirmg muny for gay and bisexual men through experienc that are warm, welg, and spirually charged.