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My body ursed wh adrenale and nervo energy I hadn’t felt on a first date sce I was a teenager. Now, my late 20s, this was a new kd of first date—one wh a uple. I had met them on an app where upl n seek a third partner, known as a “unirn” bee of our mythil rary. As I nervoly texted my clost iends (cludg screenshots of the uple’s profile, and dramatic goodby se I never returned), many of them surprised me their rpons. They said they were cur about threom, but had never tried bee navigatg the world of polyamory felt like a mefield.</p><p>As a person wh a illy massive rerve of anxiety, I too fear uncharted terrory. Paradoxilly, though, this don’t stop me om feelg tensely drawn to new experienc. Throughout my life, this gnive dissonance was only further plited by external judgment I received for my impuls to try unnventnal thgs. I now unrstand that my cursy, open-mdns, and sense of adventure are three nonnegotiable, fg elements of my inty. But wasn’t until I started sleepg wh upl that I shed my shame about those quali, let alone embraced them all areas of my life. Fdg the strength to explore the more plited, passnate aspects of my personaly beme the key to harnsg my voice and creative spark, which turn helped me better pe wh prsn, anxiety, and the lgerg gnive effects of adolcent anorexia.</p><p class="paywall">Why did the revelatns dawn on me between two sweaty bodi and the energy of someone else’s romantic unn? When people thk about three-ways, timacy may not be the first thg to e to md. “Kky,” “dirty,” and “taboo” are probably top of the list. It n certaly be all of those thgs (she says wh a nghty se), but when a uple v me to their bed, I not only get weled to the midst of their preexistg nnectn, but also get to fe a new one wh them based on their tst that I will rpect the boundari of their relatnship. This is a vulnerable posn all around: for the uple openg their nnectn to a newer, and for the unirn enterg a power dynamic where they are the only one whout an tablished teammate.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p class="paywall">But let’s back up briefly. Before disverg the world of ethil non-monogamy, known to some as “the Liftyle,” I was a long-term, lovg, monogamo relatnship that my body begged me to end before progrsed to an engagement. At the time, I didn’t fully unrstand what was missg om that relatnship, but I did know that my partner loved me <em>spe</em> my weird wildns, while I yearned to be wh someone who loved me <em>bee</em> of . To further nfe matters, I didn’t even know exactly what my “weird wildns” entailed, partly bee I had spent so much time relatnships that were not nducive to personal and sexual growth.</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="rs96ug"></div></div><p class="paywall">Once I was sgle, I immediately began to make up for lost time. I took soul-nourishg psychelic trips to the sert wh iends. I broke my stals steel bed ame wh tons of great (and safe) sex. Of all of the variants of ecstasy I experienced durg that perd, the ecstasy of unbridled self-disvery was the most metamorphic. I had gone through var experimentatn phas throughout high school and llege, but those bold (sometim unwise) choic were extribly tertwed wh adolcent angst and rebelln. Fdg my wildns as an adult was much more peaceful— was not reactg or cryg out but tentnally searchg.</p><p class="paywall">Threom were at the center of a personal Venn diagram. I had known for some time that I was at least bisexual but had barely explored that si of my sexualy. I knew I wanted to experience new dynamics. And I knew the fearful charge around datg upl meant there was somethg to learn. So, as one do wh all of life’s burng qutns, I googled and disvered Feeld, an app where the sexually adventuro n go to fd one another. The terface was charmgly glchy, which ma me feel like they didn’t have enough ers to vt makg seamls. I appreciated the novelty and spected I had found a hidn gem.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p class="paywall">As I scrolled and chatted, I felt a mon vibe unifyg many of the profil, but the range of genr inti, sexual orientatns, and diverse terts ma difficult to articulate what that monaly was. Then dawned on me that this mon thread was not a certa kk or favore sex posn, was the mment to embracg one’s own nonnformy, the celebratn of dividualism and sexualy whout shame. Most people I talked to on the app would probably take beg labeled “weird” as a pliment; I always had, but many of my ex had not. It was rehg to be on a platform where radil open-mdns was the basele, and cemented how important that value is to me as I search for my own partner. Some dat I went on rulted sex, others didn’t. One date was even at Dave & Bter’s, and I’ll leave you to wonr what size prize that one culmated (mystery is important!). As wh any onle fom, I had to weed out the ocsnal creep, but general, the people I nnected wh were clear munitors and more transparent about difficult subjects like STD stat than I had ever enuntered before.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p class="paywall">One woman I chatted wh mentned that she was lookg for someone to domate her but be submissive to her boyiend. Let’s ll them Oliver and Isabella. I am typilly more sexually submissive, but as we were textg (which quickly turned to sextg), I tried on this thorative sexual persona. I was pleased to disver that, havg been a submissive myself, fdg the language to turn Isabella on me naturally to me. I was, turn, very turned on by turng her on. By the time I was wag for Isabella and Oliver at the bar wh those first-date jters, I wasn’t sure if our sexual preamble would make thgs awkward. I soon learned that tradnally awkward moments tend not to stay awkward between open and direct people.</p><p class="has-dropp paywall">From the moment I greeted the uple—and realized I need to ci whom to acknowledge first— beme clear how different this experience was gog to be om any prev date. On a two-person date (and certaly on a heteronormative one), there tends to be an unnsc blueprt of the basic orr of operatns: you s across om each other at the table, ask each other qutns, maybe argue over the check. Energetilly, ’s pg-pong. A date wh three people, however, is more like volleyg a beach ball wh no and no playbook.</p><p class="paywall">The fluidy of the suatn ma topilot impossible, which ma me realize how often I <em>do</em> go on topilot, datg and otherwise. I thought more nscly about what I wanted to do or say each moment. At whom did I want to bat my new eyelash extensns? Did I want to ask qutns about him, her, or their relatnship? Even small tails like the seatg arrangement required more active attentn. 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class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa jPgqnR body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p class="paywall">I’m not sure if Aristotle was a unirn, but the whole is fely greater than the sum of a uple’s parts. A unirn not only dat the dividuals, but also dat the relatnship. This third force to flirt wh is undoubtedly the most tertg one. My md beme a lens through which Isabella and Oliver got to know each other better. I got an unexpected sh om askg Isabella a qutn about her childhood that Oliver had never thought to ask her their years of datg. Isabella and I had stant chemistry. We were both directors preproductn on dark films about mental health, we both took pleasure munitg ankly around subjects that make most people unfortable, and we seemed to share that “weird wildns” gene.</p><p class="paywall">Oliver was nventnally attractive, but probably not someone I would’ve vibed wh non-platonilly unr other circumstanc. At one pot when Isabella was the bathroom, I told Oliver how hot she was, substantiatg my claim by scribg some of the nghty thgs I’d like to do to her. This disclosure l him up, which ma me want him a way I hadn’t before. For the rt of the night, as well as on future dat wh other upl, I found myself scg the nnectn between the partners more than eher of them dividually. Feelg my perspective stoke their attractn to one another was like takg a visceral tour of the ner workgs of their mutual magism, which was simultaneoly arog and fascatg.</p><p class="paywall">After the drks portn of the eveng, we went back to their place. At one pot, Oliver and I had sex while Isabella watched—actively. She was a “cuckqueen,” which is a woman who enjoys role-playg “huiatn” this way. Many aspects of the enunter were pleasurable and fun, but the most engrossg sensatn was feelg Oliver’s palpable love for Isabella flow through me. There was no doubt that his sire to fulfill her was the eper motivatn for fillg me. Textg wh Isabella a few weeks after our threome, I told her about feelg Oliver’s passn for her permeate me. Sharg this unique perspective on their relatnship was among our most timate moments. My heightened rponse to their energetic flow also started me on the path to intifyg as pansexual, which feels more precise than bisexualy. I am attracted to people based on their prence and energy regardls of their blogil sex, genr, or genr inty.</p><p class="has-dropp paywall">I want to live a world where we talk about sex as fortably as we talk about food or the weather. Bee of my openns on the subject, virtual strangers have often felt fortable nfsg burnsome secrets about their sexualy. I have always valued my abily to hold space for people to share their reprsed experienc bee I believe ’s an sential step batg the toxic shame our society perpetuat. Beg someone who people like Oliver and Isabella entst wh their most cherished relatnship fulfills me a siar way. It remds me of the specific bety herent my open way of beg—a way that has gotten me slut-shamed for most of my life (and still do).</p><p class="paywall">As I mentned earlier, I’ve battled ever-changg forms of anxiety and prsn my whole life, which means that my self-teem is often hidg out a fiery dumpster. Recently, one such dark spiral, my therapist asked me to name some quali I valued myself. My rponse was afeng silence. I uld thk of thgs that my mom and my iends said were special about me, but unr the veil of psychologil pa, I uldn’t thk of anythg I loved. Then, I relled lockg ey wh Isabella while lockg, well, everythg else wh Oliver. It might sound ridiculo, but that salac memory njured and crystalized a list of my unique characteristics that not only ma that night possible, but also ma a betiful experience for everyone volved. Maybe there are also non-sexual memori I uld’ve drawn upon to remember my favore parts of my inty, but this one was vibrant enough to pierce through the darkns, wh the help of my sparkly unirn horn.</p><p class="paywall">I know now that I am empathetic, radilly open-md, profoundly adventuro, and fiercely mted to tellg stori that rce the stigma surroundg sexualy and mental health—cludg this one, right now. Before I started livg the unirn life, I wouldn’t have had the nfince to list those quali or even feel certa that they are posive tras. Even now, I feel the urge to disclaim that I’m also excsively aware of my many flaws. But if you nnot intify and be proud of your strengths, ’s impossible to nurture them the face of self-doubt.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p class="paywall">In the sexually-limg panmic tim, relivg my spicy threome memori has been a much-need, COVID-ee ctch for a sgle gal and her vibrators. More notably, though, has ma me take stock of how many emotnally telligent iends I’ve ma via the Liftyle, probably bee of their willgns to navigate plited terpersonal issu. Regardls of sexual activy, I’m still iendly wh every sgle uple I’ve met through ethil non-monogamy. This sex-posive muny has emphasized for me that one size do not f all, which means I am also not tryg to disparage anyone who prefers plete monogamy. In fact, I hope to eventually fd a “monogamish” relatnship, like many of the upl I’ve dated have. I want a bond strong and tstg enough to experience threom om the uple’s perspective, but like unirns, such relatnships are rare. 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