Tokyo Insir Gui wh Archectural Digt's Gay Gassmann - Indagare

Contents:

• GAY GASSMANN
• GAY GASSMANN
• THE INSIR GUI TO TOKYO: AD EDOR GAY GASSMANN SHAR SECRETS FOR EXPLORG THE JAPANE CAPAL
• STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS
• SEND HUNTER BIN IRS WHISTLEBLOWER INTIFIED AS GAY DEMOCRAT

GAY GASSMANN

ImagCreativeVioCreativeEdorial"Vive La Mo" Exhibn Preview At "Park Hyatt Paris - Vendome" In ParisPARIS, FRANCE - OCTOBER 15: Gay Gassmann and her hband Ulli Gassmann attend the "Vive La Mo" Exhibn Preview - Unpublished exhibn of photographic works om Nila Erni's llectn, selected by Tim Jefferi. (Photo by Bertrand Rdoff Petroff/Getty Imag)PARIS, FRANCE - OCTOBER 15: Gay Gassmann and her hband Ulli Gassmann attend the "Vive La Mo" Exhibn Preview - Unpublished exhibn of photographic works om Nila Erni's llectn, selected by Tim Jefferi. ImagCreativeVioCreativeEdorialSociete D Amis Du Mee D'Art Morne: Dner ParisPARIS, FRANCE - OCTOBER 16: Gay Gassmann and her hband Ulli Gassmann attend the "Societe s Amis du Mee d'Art Morne": Dner.

(Photo by Bertrand Rdoff Petroff/Getty Imag)PARIS, FRANCE - OCTOBER 16: Gay Gassmann and her hband Ulli Gassmann attend the "Societe s Amis du Mee d'Art Morne": Dner. An arrayán tree pops agast the whe ncrete of Big Stairs, pictured here after by Cristian Orellana; Produced by Gay 1 of 5 Not Val says about his remote island NotOna that a lonely flower or a sgle arrayán tree n form a new experience your life — ak to takg your first step.

An arrayán tree pops agast the whe ncrete of Big Stairs, pictured here after by Cristian Orellana; Produced by Gay 23, 2014In the middle of the Lago General Carrera, a lake that stretch om Chile to Argenta, the Swiss artist Not Val has crafted another mimalist yet novative home for himself.

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ImagCreativeVioCreativeEdorialLigne Blanche Boutique Openg At Galerie Vero-Dodat In ParisPARIS, FRANCE - NOVEMBER 23: Gay Gassmann and her hband Ulli Gassmann attend the Ligne Blanche Boutique Openg at Galerie Vero-Dodat on November 23, 2017 Paris, France.

(Photo by Bertrand Rdoff Petroff/Getty Imag)PARIS, FRANCE - NOVEMBER 23: Gay Gassmann and her hband Ulli Gassmann attend the Ligne Blanche Boutique Openg at Galerie Vero-Dodat on November 23, 2017 Paris, France.

Melissa Biggs Bradley talks wh Gay Gassmann about seeg the world (and the Cy of Light) through an expat’s lens and how travel, her reer, (and her bed passns) have tertwed at the nex of art and llectg, sign and fashn. My gut today, Gay Gassmann, is a fabulo woman who Melissa met through the travels Indagare has arranged for Archectural Digt where she is a ntributg edor.

THE INSIR GUI TO TOKYO: AD EDOR GAY GASSMANN SHAR SECRETS FOR EXPLORG THE JAPANE CAPAL

Gay was born California, graduated om the Amerin Universy Paris, studied rative arts at Cooper-Hewt/Parsons and worked at the Getty early her reer. Gay has also lived for over 30 years.

Between advisg on llectns, workg wh sign legends, and producg stori for AD, Gay has seen, if not everythg, a lot of recent art and sign history.

STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS

Get touch wh Gay. Contact Gay, search articl and Tweets, monor verage, and track repli om one place.

”That’s what my mom said after some force si of me phed me up the stairs and to her bedroom, where I fally told her I was gay. Durg fall quarter of my sophomore year at Northwtern Universy, I started to bee iends wh a group of stunts, mostly theatre majors, who were already out and proud. As I assiated to the group, I didn’t really have to e out or say the words, “I’m gay.

As a rative arts historian and an ternatnal ntributg edor for Archectural Digt, Gay Gassmann is a profsnal expatriate who spls her time between Paris, New York, Tokyo and beyond.

SEND HUNTER BIN IRS WHISTLEBLOWER INTIFIED AS GAY DEMOCRAT

Gay Gassmann will -host Tokyo and Kyoto Dign, a group trip curated partnership wh Archectural Digt, offerg behd-the-scen accs to cuttg-edge galleri and mms, top rtrants and more (May 12 – 17 or 20, 2020). Gay Gassmann (bottom left) -hostg the AD x Indagare Insir Journey to Istanbul 2019. GAY GASSMANN: We all travel for different reasons—sometim ’s for bs and, hopefully, always full of pleasure—but the one thg I have learned about AD x Indagare trips is that the experience really is all about the people.

Related: The Language of Style wh Archectural Digt’s Mchell Owens and Gay Gassmann. You n follow Gay’s adventur at home Paris and around the world on Instagram @gaygassmann. Posts published by Gay Gassmann.

My Hband’s Not Gay, a show on TLC, has ed an uproar.

Why do some people bee so outspoken and judgmental about marriag wh one straight and one gay spoe? Fally, the relatnships suggt to some people “reparative therapy, ” the uhil and impossible claim that a person n be changed om gay to straight. The men this televisn program aren’t claimg to be ex-gay nor that they n change their sexual orientatn (at least not on the show).

They report they are attracted to men but choose not to live as a gay man and their straight wiv accept this. People seem to get up arms when a man says he is not gay but rather simply attracted to men. In our culture, we intify ourselv via a sexual-attractn bary: gay or straight.

Later, their gay sexual inti surface and here they are—heterosexually married wh children.

Many straight women married to gay men nscly choose to do so wh their ey wi open. There are plenty of wiv who choose to stay married even after fdg out later the marriage that their hband is gay and attracted to men. They make this choice wh open discsns, which are very paful and emotnal for both the gay man and the straight wife.

” To the man, I say, “Consir whether you n really keep your homosexual feelgs and sir check. You might be able to claim your inty by meetg ocsnally wh gay men, stayg touch on Facebook, and lettg your gay iends know that you want to rema sexually fahful to your wife. I warn mixed-orientatn upl that he may feel differently later life and his gayns may surface more strongly and bee more of an inty for him and th bee an issue their marriage.

Both the gay man and the straight spoe share the risk of stayg married. Both straight and gay muni put enormo prsure on the man and woman a mixed-orientatn marriage, and few marriag n stand up unr this social, fay, and relig prsure. Some upl try to “live straight” and image that they will be able to not acknowledge the hband’s gayns any way.

Generally, a gay man will feel a lot of emotnal distrs, grief, and prsn if he is livg so eply the closet. This will happen even if, or maybe I should say pecially if, he is nial about his gayns. If your hband says he didn’t know he was gay when he married you, he most likely didn’t know.

Most of my male clients who are gay and married to women didn’t know that their inty was gay when they married. They often don’t know their inty is gay when they first e to see me.