Fat Gay Men and Female Ex-Prisoners | Crimal Jtice Rearch Center

Contents:

• ‘DON’T SAY GAY’ IS HAPPENG CHA TOO. BUT IT CAN’T TURN BACK THE CLOCK.
• FAT GAY MEN AND FEMALE EX-PRISONERS
• CHINESE GAY BEAR MEN
• THIS FILM IS A TALE OF TWO OLR GAY MEN FDG LOVE HONG KONG
• 90-YEAR-OLD GRANDFATHER OUT AS GAY, SEARCH FOR LONG-LOST LOVE

‘DON’T SAY GAY’ IS HAPPENG CHA TOO. BUT IT CAN’T TURN BACK THE CLOCK.

Adam* said was dangero to e out as gay his home untry and feared beg forced to an arranged marriage wh a said he was "so lucky" to wed his soulmate, Ray, Manchter and wish everyone uld marry who they love. There are more than 60 untri wh laws that crimalise same-sex sexual acts acrdg to the Internatnal Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Associatn, cludg Sdi Arabia. 'Authentilly myself'Ray said he had also stggled growg up gay the 1970s and 80s England, which was "tough" said his relig school "dmmed to you, 'you are gog to hell'" Adam returned home to Sdi Arabia, spe beg more than 3, 000 apart and later rtricted by the Covid-19 panmic, they kept touch daily and the romance years ago, Ray proposed on a vio ll and after succsfully applyg for a UK fiancé visa, Adam moved to Manchter December 2022.

Adam said he had been aaid to even wear lours his home untry so the first thg he did when he moved was start to "grow my mullet, got my ears pierced and booked appotments for tattoos" relled how, ntrast, one of his gay iends Sdi had been forced to marry a woman, addg: "It has ed not only his life but the life of his wife.

FAT GAY MEN AND FEMALE EX-PRISONERS

The uple, who live London, said a "really betiful memory" was on the way home when one of their sons shouted out of the black b wdow to Trafalgar Square, "My dads jt got married" and cheered "Yay, gay marriage". Cred: DeposphotosIn Augt, shortly after arrivg at Yale as a visg scholar om Cha, I watched “Pray Away, ” a documentary about the “ex-gay” movement the Uned Stat.

CHINESE GAY BEAR MEN

In a clip om an old talk show, an “ex-gay” spokperson tells the dience, “We’re jt sayg that, if you want to change, there is a way to do .

”As a gay man and activist, this msage was eply faiar to me. Jt days before, a mother Cha had lled me distrs after fdg out her son was gay.

I have received numerable lls like hers sce 2008 when I found Cha’s Parents, Fai, and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG), an anizatn dited to helpg parents bee more affirmg of their LGBTQ children. Untentnally echog the “ex-gay” spokperson, she told me, “As long as one is termed, one n change. ”This episo and my time the Uned Stat has remd me that spe the many differenc between the Uned Stat and Cha, anti-LGBTQ rhetoric each follows a siar logic: Beg gay or trans is a “liftyle.

THIS FILM IS A TALE OF TWO OLR GAY MEN FDG LOVE HONG KONG

Unfortunately, this notn that beg gay or trans is like a ntagn that needs to be ntaed or cured, after years of retreat, has regrouped and is on the march aga.

We see this the rise of “Don’t Say Gay” the Uned Stat and the velopment of analogo — though more sweepg — polici Cha, new natnal standards classify onle ntent related to “sexual orientatns” and “genr inti” that are “different om most people” as “harmful” to youth. For example, last year, a lol tn bure southern Cha award a middle school guidance unselor for a se study about the treatment of a stunt who was “suatnally gay” (meang that the stunt was not “tly” gay but was only temporarily so due to social circumstanc). The unselor explaed that one reason for beg gay is “havg ntact wh gay groups while growg up.

90-YEAR-OLD GRANDFATHER OUT AS GAY, SEARCH FOR LONG-LOST LOVE

”In September, a gay llege stunt Shandong mted suici after beg bullied by a homophobic school admistrator.

They et loudly that gays weaken the natn bee they are not manly enough to fight agast foreign enemi.