Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- IS THERE SUCH A THG AS GAY (OR STRAIGHT) PORN?
- I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
- STUDY: YOU WILL BE SHOCKED TO KNOW THE NUMBER OF STRAIGHT MEN WHO WATCH GAY PORN!
- MY BOYIEND LIK SHEMAL DO THAT MAKE HIM GAY?
- HOMOPHOBIC MEN ARE AROED BY GAY MALE PORN
- HOW DO I STOP WATCHG GAY PORN
- AM I GAY IF I HAVE SAME SEX FANTASI?
- MY BOYIEND LOOKS AT GAY PORN. IS HE…?
- 25 BT GAY LIVE CAMS: GAY CAM S TO VIS INCLUDG 100 PERCENT FREE GAY CAMS
- DO HAVG GAY FANTASI OR WATCHG GAY PORN MEAN THAT I’M GAY?
IS THERE SUCH A THG AS GAY (OR STRAIGHT) PORN?
Is "gay porn" or porn featurg same-genr sex?Why do straight people watch? * are you gay if you watch gay porn *
A new study published the Archiv of Sexual Behavur, which examed the porn-viewg habs of 821 gay, straight, and bisexual men om around the untry, found a number of unexpected rults. Among them: that 55 percent of gay men watch straight porn, and 21 percent of straight men watch gay what giv?
I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.
* are you gay if you watch gay porn *
But when one out of five self-intified straight men reports watchg gay porn, prompts the further qutn: Are the men really straight, or are they down-low/straight-intified bisexual men?
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
Homophobia is associated wh sexual excement by gay male sex. * are you gay if you watch gay porn *
When his team looked at the data, they nfirmed that the straight men didn't report havg sex wh men, and the gay men (outsi of a very small actn) didn't report havg sex wh women. Meanwhile, bisexual men displayed porn-viewg habs that were que distct om those of their homo and hetero peers.
Bi men reported watchg guy-on-guy porn jt as much as gay men do, and they nsumed heterosexual porn (one male/one female) almost as much as heterosexual men. " "[Bisexual men] are more like heterosexual men some thgs, and more like gay men other thgs, but that's a reflectn of their own unique attractns. "For stance, both bi and heterosexual men reported viewg solo masturbatn material (the report did not dite the sex of the person picted) at about the same rate -- around 60 percent -- while ls than 50 percent of gay men did.
HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
9 percent) peers -- unls that kk volved fistg, felchg, or water sports, all activi gay men were far more likely to report 's unfortunately que rare for studi examg porn nsumptn men to get this level of group parison -- heterosexual, gay, and bisexual men, and enough participants to look at each group separately.
STUDY: YOU WILL BE SHOCKED TO KNOW THE NUMBER OF STRAIGHT MEN WHO WATCH GAY PORN!
The heterosexual porn lerature tends to be really specific to vlence agast women, wh the rt foced on the risks of ntractg HIV, ually lumpg gay and bisexual men together as "men who have sex wh men.
MY BOYIEND LIK SHEMAL DO THAT MAKE HIM GAY?
There are a few takeaways om this study: Our porn nsumptn is more eclectic than prevly spected, and bisexual men are distct om their straight and gay brothers their pornographic habs and clatns. Though not the study's foc, this further suggts that bisexualy isn't simply a way statn on the road to beg gay; bisexuals are bisexual.
"Sexually Explic Media Use by Sexual Inty: A Comparative Analysis of Gay, Bisexual, and Heterosexual Men the Uned Stat" By Mart J.
If you want to know if someone’s gay, straight, or bisexual, ask them who they have sex wh (and who they want to have sex wh real life), not what webs they like to watch.
HOMOPHOBIC MEN ARE AROED BY GAY MALE PORN
That’s why I disurage my straight patients om g the exprsn “gay fantasy, ” and disurage my gay patients om sayg “straight fantasy” (unls they’re fantasi ABOUT beg gay or straight, which is a different matter). Regardls, some straight people like porn that isn't straight (like some gay people like porn that isn't gay), and what we like fantasy or media isn't a sound way to try and figure out what our orientatn is or a place to look for a match wh what we like or want real life, even though for some folks, is some ways. It uld be g om homophobia your upbrgg, muny, om iends or fay, or jt out and about the world: there's a lot of , so 's mighty hard to miss.
That reactn uld be about genr: 's hard sometim to untangle homophobia om fears or securi about genr or genr inty. It uld e om a fear that you're gay or bisexual yourself, or that likg men sexually or romantilly, even fantasy, mak you ls of a man, fears that might be irratnal, but might also be ratnal. In se the term homophobia trips you up, UC Davis' Department of Psychology says: "The Amerin Herage Dictnary f homophobia as "aversn to gay or homosexual people or their liftyle or culture" and "behavr or an act based on this aversn.
HOW DO I STOP WATCHG GAY PORN
" AVERT gets more pth wh their fn: "Homophobia is generally fed as hostily towards or fear of gay people, but n also refer to social iologi which stigmatise homosexualy. Negative feelgs or attus towards non-heterosexual behavur, inty, relatnships and muny, n lead to homophobic behavur and is the root of the discrimatn experienced by many lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr (LGBT) people.
AM I GAY IF I HAVE SAME SEX FANTASI?
Homophobia manifts self different forms, for example homophobic jok, physil attacks, discrimatn the workplace and media reprentatn.
MY BOYIEND LOOKS AT GAY PORN. IS HE…?
Some studi, like one done at the Universy of Geia, reported the Journal of Abnormal Psychology (Augt, 1996) have lked greater sexual aroal to homosexual material to homophobia.
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In other words, 's entirely possible that your feelg so aroed by this might be bee of, or amplified by, homophobic feelgs or attus. Homophobia is somethg that is very often seen people who may be homosexual or bisexual themselv and are very aaid of those feelgs, or feel there is somethg terribly wrong wh them (even though there isn't).
DO HAVG GAY FANTASI OR WATCHG GAY PORN MEAN THAT I’M GAY?
I don't know if you've been payg attentn to the news lately, but if you have, I don't have to tell you that we've had a lot of tragedi lately that stemmed om homophobia. That's nothg new, as this has long been a very ser problem, but 's a major and horrible wake-up ll for anyone who had the ia homophobia wasn't still a big al. But homophobia has been very much associated wh some kds of vlence and aggrsn, as well as wh the high suici and prsn rat of queer people.
This is important for everyone to know whether they might be the person who hurts someone else wh their own homophobia, and/or who might be hurt themselv by someone else's. One example of stutnalized homophobia (and heterosexism and transphobia), for stance, is that very few people grow up a world or a culture which prents same-sex or same or siar-genr romantic and/or sexual relatnships as as normal, as acceptable, and as potentially wonrful as oppose-sex or genr relatnships.
A lot of lbian, gay, bisexual or other not-heterosexual folks have a hard time picturg themselv anythg but oppose-sex relatnships not bee they aren't really queer, but bee 's the only, or the most pervasive, picture they've seen, or the only way they have seen relatnships or fai prented posively. A Gui for Women Concerned About Their Men, but simply put, some men have no sire to be nnected wh gay culture, and scerely nsir themselv to not be gay or bisexual.