A Closer Look at Gay Rights Cha – The Diplomat

Contents:

• FOUR YEARS, TWO NTENTS: A GAY CHE UPLE'S JOURNEY FOR A SURROGATE SON
• CHE COURT RUL AGAST GAY COUPLE SEEKG TO GET MARRIED
• CHE UPLE LOSE FIGHT FOR GAY MARRIAGE REGNN
• IN CHA, GAY MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN
• BANNED OM MARRYG CHA, GAY UPL TURN TO UTAH’S ZOOM WEDDGS
• LEGAL QUIRK ALLOWS GAY UPL CHA TO GET MARRIED ONLE NSERVATIVE UTAH
• A CLOSER LOOK AT GAY RIGHTS CHA

FOUR YEARS, TWO NTENTS: A GAY CHE UPLE'S JOURNEY FOR A SURROGATE SON

Li and Xu, a gay uple who have been together sce 2007, would walk out of the airport, get married two days later Los Angel, and, more important, start their journey toward 2015 to 2018, Li and Xu ma four transpacific trips as part of their gtatnal surrogacy procs.

They traveled nearly 50, 000 , spent more than $200, 000, and went through untls days of distrs, all to fulfill the dream of havg their own creasg number of Che gay men, like Li and Xu, are travelg thoands of and spendg hundreds of thoands of dollars to pursue a dream that is impossible at home. Bee gay upl are not allowed to marry or adopt Cha, they started thkg about surrogacy.

Photograph: Courty Quiguang Li and Wei XuFor this story, I spoke to a dozen gay Che men who have begun or pleted surrogacy the Uned Stat. Li says that for many gay men, the strong ph for babi om the elr generatn.

CHE COURT RUL AGAST GAY COUPLE SEEKG TO GET MARRIED

Although this ia is unr fierce attack om some Cha’s younger generatn, still ronat wh many young Che people, cludg some gay men who are asked, or volunteer, to have a child to protect the mianzi of their parents and some of the parents, that means gog as far as phg their sons to the surrogacy journey. David Wang, a sgle, gay man of 28, livg the south-wtern provce of Sichuan, says took years for his parents to accept his sexualy after he me out 2013. His patients clu one of the untry’s most fluential gay figur, Ma Baoli, founr of the world’s biggt gay datg app, Blued.

“I have several patients who told me that they me out to their parents after their baby was born, ” says Rgler, who is a gay dad through surrogacy himself. Surrogacy was still a total mystery to most of the Che gay muny when Xu and Li started their journey 2014.

On the Che msagg app WeChat, groups for gay dads and future dads have mhroomed. Several Amerin surrogacy agenci and fertily clics told me that they’d seen a surge Che clients, startg around 2013, wh gay people makg up a signifint portn of the clientele.

CHE UPLE LOSE FIGHT FOR GAY MARRIAGE REGNN

Photograph: Courty Quiguang Li and Wei Xu“Enomic velopment Cha … has created a number of middle-class people, cludg those who are homosexual, ” observ Zhijun Hu, who, unr the noted alias “Ah Qiang”, has been workg as an LGBTQ+ activist Cha for more than 20 years. Havg an Amerin baby through surrogacy has now bee a popular and accsible life goal for urban gay men day after they ma through ctoms, Xu and Li went to the HRC Fertily Clic Pasana center for sperm llectn. Most gay upl don’t have this ncern and, sometim, even like the ia of havg mixed-race babi, whose looks are often appreciated Cha.

IN CHA, GAY MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN

885 – for every 1, 000 male newborns, there are only 885 femal – rankg last among all 153 untri US agenci and clics nfirm that gay Che tend parents have a noticeable preference for sons, though some note that they see the same preference across gay men of all wanted a son. Diego tomatilly obtaed US cizenship, and Xu wants him to learn English se he wants to go back at some pot his nsult wh other gay dads about how to look after and te a child.

In the Group for Dads of Amerin Babi chat group, they ask qutns about practil thgs like supplements and discs the challeng of parentg, which is still generally viewed as a woman’s duty Zhou, a member of the chat group who is expectg his baby to be born through surrogacy 2020, says that most gay Che parents are particularly eager for rmatn about how to parent. For example, we still don’t have the right to raise children, ” he activy between members of the same sex was illegal Cha until 1997 and homosexualy was officially classified as a mental illns until ’s ristance to gay relatnships and surrogate births, seen through a filmmaker’s own fayWang Yue, who appoted his partner as his guardian and had notarised Xiangyang, a cy Hubei provce, last year, said acquirg guardianship was currently the bt way for Che LGBT upl to protect their rights. “My parents have both passed away, and me and my partner are both so happy that he n be my guardian, ” he, who said he had not even unrstood what the word homosexual meant until he was 21, said Che society was beg more tolerant, “but some LGBT people fear to adm who they are and that mak thgs plited”.

BANNED OM MARRYG CHA, GAY UPL TURN TO UTAH’S ZOOM WEDDGS

A urt central Cha has led agast a gay uple seekg to register for marriage. The se has energized supporters of LGBT rights Cha, acrdg to The Associated Prs: "Though was dismissed by the urt Changsha, Cha's first legal challenge to a law limg marriage to oppose-sex upl has galvanized many of the hundreds of young Che gay rights supporters who gathered at the urthoe, some of them wavg small rabow flags.

LEGAL QUIRK ALLOWS GAY UPL CHA TO GET MARRIED ONLE NSERVATIVE UTAH

" The wire service adds that "Che society and the ernment have generally owned on nontradnal exprsns of genr and sexualy, but awarens of lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr issu is risg.

Homosexualy was classified as a mental disorr by the Che Psychiatric Associatn until 2001. Durg this year’s Pri Month, soccer star Li Yg ma history as Cha’s first female athlete to e out publicly as gay, a ndid seri of celebratory photos posted on social media, showg her posg happily alongsi her partner.

And while much of the reactn was posive, wh people sendg their ngratulatns, Li’s acunt was also undated wh a wave of homophobic abe.

A CLOSER LOOK AT GAY RIGHTS CHA

In years past, June was filled wh LGBTQ (lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and queer) events major ci such as Shanghai and Beijg, durg which Cha’s sexual mori uld semi-openly celebrate their inty. Cha crimalized homosexualy 1997 and removed om s official list of mental disorrs 2001.

Some LGBTQ people have blamed the crackdown on the rrect imprsn that homosexualy is a Wtern import to Cha, and groups supportg gay rights are liable to filtratn by foreign forc. Some also spect a more direct lk between the crackdown on LGBTQ rights and top officials’ worldviews, which for many were shaped durg the Cultural Revolutn the 1960s and ’70s, when thori attempted to purge any “non-socialist” elements — cludg homosexualy — om Che society. In the end, neher explicly said he was gay or fed the nature of their relatnship.

So far, the clip has been viewed more than 23 ln tim, wh several upvoted ments showg support for “the first gay uple to e out” maland Cha’s entertament dtry.