the AM I GAY tt (MEN ONLY!) | Rum and Monkey

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• STRAIGHTTOBEGAY
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• GAY CONVERSN: I SLEPT WH OVER 200 MEN, NOW I'M A HAPPILY MARRIED HETEROSEXUAL DAD
• ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?
• THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT
• STRAIGHT TO GAYSUBSCRIBESIGN HOMESTRAIGHT TO GAY PODSTARCHIVEABOUT{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"WEBSE","NAME":"STRAIGHT TO GAY","PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"STRAIGHT TO GAY","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":"},"SAMEAS":["]},"URL":","MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","URL":"},"SCRIPTN":"ACTIVIST AND THOR AMY SISKD SHAR STORI AND LSONS OM HER MISADVENTUR AS A GENERATN X LBIAN. ","POTENTIALACTN":{"@TYPE":"SEARCHACTN","NAME":"SEARCH STRAIGHT TO GAY","TARGET":"SEARCH_TERM_STRG}","QUERY-PUT":"REQUIRED NAME=SEARCH_TERM_STRG"}}ABOUT "STRAIGHT TO GAY"WELE TO MY NEWSLETTERDEC 5, 2021 • AMY SISKD35SHARE THIS POSTABOUT "STRAIGHT TO GAY"COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER2NEWTOPCOMMUNYA NOTE ABOUT THIS SUMMER...GIVEN RECENT EVENTS, THIS SEEMS LIKE A GOOD TIME TO PUT ON A TEMPORARY PSE. THE NEWS OF ROE BEG OVERTURNED IS HEARTBREAKG, AND POSSIBLY A…JUN 27, 2022 • AMY SISKD26SHARE THIS POSTA NOTE ABOUT THIS SUMMER...COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER10#26) A FAY OF CHOICETHE FAL STORY THE SERI ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF G OUTJUN 19, 2022 • AMY SISKD8SHARE THIS POST#26) A FAY OF COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER3#25) ORGANIZED RELIGN AND LGBTQ FAIWE NTUE OUR SERI ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF G OUTJUN 12, 2022 • AMY SISKD10SHARE THIS POST#25) ORGANIZED RELIGN AND LGBTQ COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER3#24) CTODY THE WILD WT OF WTCHTERNEXT, A SERI OF STORI ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF G OUTJUN 5, 2022 • AMY SISKD6SHARE THIS POST#24) CTODY THE WILD WT OF COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER6#23) IS GAY MARRIAGE AT RISK?ARE OBERGEFELL AND OTHER LGBTQ LANDMARK S AT RISK IF ROE IS OVERTURNED?MAY 22, 2022 • AMY SISKD12SHARE THIS POST#23) IS GAY MARRIAGE AT RISK?COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER4#22) TO THE WOMEN WHO SHOW UPAN UNEXPECTED SHOULR:  CELEBRATG A WOMAN HALF MY AGE WHO SHOWED UP A TIME OF NEED.MAY 15, 2022 • AMY SISKD22SHARE THIS POST#22) TO THE WOMEN WHO SHOW COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER2#21) SERENDIPY?AT FIRST I WASN’T SURE WAS REALLY HER, HOW ULD THIS POSSIBLY BE? I LGHED AT THE PUTER SCREEN, NO WAY!—I MEAN, WHAT WERE THE CHANC? THEN I…MAY 8, 2022 • AMY SISKD13SHARE THIS POST#21) SERENDIPY?COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER2SEE ALLSTRAIGHT TO GAYACTIVIST AND THOR AMY SISKD SHAR STORI AND LSONS OM HER MISADVENTUR AS A GENERATN X LBIAN. SUBSCRIBESTRAIGHT TO GAYSUBSCRIBEABOUTARCHIVESEMAPSHARE THIS PUBLITNSTRAIGHT TO COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHERSTRAIGHT TO GAY
• SOME GAYS CAN GO STRAIGHT, STUDY SAYS
• CAN SCTN MAKE STRAIGHT MEN GAY?
• TWO BURGLARS SODOMIZED FOR FIVE DAYS STRAIGHT AFTER BREAKG INTO THE HOE OF NOTOR GAY RAPIST
• THE AM I GAY TT (MEN ONLY!)

STRAIGHTTOBEGAY

• Could a straight guy get dnk enough to fool around wh another guy jt bee “felt good”, or is more likely that he has some gay/bi/cur feelgs that perhaps he’s been reprsg? Even acuntg for the fact that he might remember some of what happened, don't mean he's bisexual, secretly gay, or that you're his magil "exceptn." He was dnk out of his md.

I don't know many gay men (myself clud) who hasn't veloped a csh or had feelgs for a straight guy - cludg straight iends. They are not terted a romantic relatnship wh you; if they were they'd e out as bisexual or gay. I've seen other gay guys that fell for a straight guy (typilly a iend) and wanted to lu themselv to believg that a relatnship was possible.

It don't bother me that I fooled around wh another guy (other than the fact I enabled him to cheat); I'm gay after all.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

Ok, you experienced your straight csh g te, so now back off and al wh the 100 percent gays or bis that are sgle. Apparently I'm gay too and sce we're bt buds, let's date and live happily ever after"? if there weren't all the societal taboos aga homosexualy that would probably happen a lot.

The guy happened wh is gay and is one of my clost iends and we have known each other for years. You know your iend is gay, so your bra now se that as an opportuny to have that physil need fulfilled. I’ve told you that I don’t thk this mak you gay or even bi, but ’s not like you n jt prt off this post and show to your girliend as proof.

GAY CONVERSN: I SLEPT WH OVER 200 MEN, NOW I'M A HAPPILY MARRIED HETEROSEXUAL DAD

So until they fd themselv a siar suatn, they don’t see how n be possible for a straight person to have a sexual experience wh a person of the same sex and not be gay or at least bisexual. I read this thread earlier and told one of my very few gay iends about and he said the same thg had happened to him.

Sadly for him he is one of those gay guys who is attracted to very straight guys. Wh this tt, you n fd out where you lie on the spectm of heterosexual, homosexual, allosexual, and asexual.

ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?

Jt for funI'm spic that I may be gayI've never had a csh on anyone, and am unsure where I lie on the spectm of sexualyWhat would your ial partner be if you two are gog to spend a week on an island? Havg sex wh the person I love mostCuddlg wh the person I love mostJt beg next to the person I love mostHangg out wh iends / beg aloneHow would you feel if your bt iend me out as gay?

THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT

For starters, the ia fli the face of false narrativ that have been promulgated by gay activists sce the 1950s, which claim that sexual orientatn is geilly fixed and therefore unchangeable.

STRAIGHT TO GAYSUBSCRIBESIGN HOMESTRAIGHT TO GAY PODSTARCHIVEABOUT{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"WEBSE","NAME":"STRAIGHT TO GAY","PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"STRAIGHT TO GAY","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":"},"SAMEAS":["]},"URL":","MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","URL":"},"SCRIPTN":"ACTIVIST AND THOR AMY SISKD SHAR STORI AND LSONS OM HER MISADVENTUR AS A GENERATN X LBIAN. ","POTENTIALACTN":{"@TYPE":"SEARCHACTN","NAME":"SEARCH STRAIGHT TO GAY","TARGET":"SEARCH_TERM_STRG}","QUERY-PUT":"REQUIRED NAME=SEARCH_TERM_STRG"}}ABOUT "STRAIGHT TO GAY"WELE TO MY NEWSLETTERDEC 5, 2021 • AMY SISKD35SHARE THIS POSTABOUT "STRAIGHT TO GAY"COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER2NEWTOPCOMMUNYA NOTE ABOUT THIS SUMMER...GIVEN RECENT EVENTS, THIS SEEMS LIKE A GOOD TIME TO PUT ON A TEMPORARY PSE. THE NEWS OF ROE BEG OVERTURNED IS HEARTBREAKG, AND POSSIBLY A…JUN 27, 2022 • AMY SISKD26SHARE THIS POSTA NOTE ABOUT THIS SUMMER...COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER10#26) A FAY OF CHOICETHE FAL STORY THE SERI ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF G OUTJUN 19, 2022 • AMY SISKD8SHARE THIS POST#26) A FAY OF COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER3#25) ORGANIZED RELIGN AND LGBTQ FAIWE NTUE OUR SERI ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF G OUTJUN 12, 2022 • AMY SISKD10SHARE THIS POST#25) ORGANIZED RELIGN AND LGBTQ COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER3#24) CTODY THE WILD WT OF WTCHTERNEXT, A SERI OF STORI ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF G OUTJUN 5, 2022 • AMY SISKD6SHARE THIS POST#24) CTODY THE WILD WT OF COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER6#23) IS GAY MARRIAGE AT RISK?ARE OBERGEFELL AND OTHER LGBTQ LANDMARK S AT RISK IF ROE IS OVERTURNED?MAY 22, 2022 • AMY SISKD12SHARE THIS POST#23) IS GAY MARRIAGE AT RISK?COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER4#22) TO THE WOMEN WHO SHOW UPAN UNEXPECTED SHOULR:  CELEBRATG A WOMAN HALF MY AGE WHO SHOWED UP A TIME OF NEED.MAY 15, 2022 • AMY SISKD22SHARE THIS POST#22) TO THE WOMEN WHO SHOW COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER2#21) SERENDIPY?AT FIRST I WASN’T SURE WAS REALLY HER, HOW ULD THIS POSSIBLY BE? I LGHED AT THE PUTER SCREEN, NO WAY!—I MEAN, WHAT WERE THE CHANC? THEN I…MAY 8, 2022 • AMY SISKD13SHARE THIS POST#21) SERENDIPY?COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHER2SEE ALLSTRAIGHT TO GAYACTIVIST AND THOR AMY SISKD SHAR STORI AND LSONS OM HER MISADVENTUR AS A GENERATN X LBIAN. SUBSCRIBESTRAIGHT TO GAYSUBSCRIBEABOUTARCHIVESEMAPSHARE THIS PUBLITNSTRAIGHT TO COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHERSTRAIGHT TO GAY

The big secret that the public is not supposed to know is that gay people n fd healg for the of their homosexual nfn and velop some gree of heterosexual attractn. This is a well-tablished fact, proven study after study and the liv of untls former homosexuals. Sce young, attractive femal no longer found them attractive, they rorted to the only sexual activy left to them – young, homosexual boys.

As a rult, their origal heterosexual attractns gradually morphed to homosexual on. That is why activist attempts to get young people to experiment wh homosexual experienc should ighten all. At first, they fd plac where homosexuals are willg to service them whout any reciprotn.

A third group of formerly straight, now gay clients was men who had grown up as broken, suggtible adolcents wh ltle ego strength. Such men would enter to same-sex activi as a rponse to beg regularly approached by strong-willed homosexuals who uld nvce them that they were really gay.

SOME GAYS CAN GO STRAIGHT, STUDY SAYS

In beg wanted so tensely and often by homosexuals, they uld receive a much-need ego boost while pg the dread rejectn of women. As such, is no small step for him to eventually move to homosexual experimentatn while searchg for his sexual Shangri-La.

However, once they fd a safe, sensive male, (and once they have worked through their aversn to or fear of men), is much easier for them to rega their former heterosexual clatns - ergo, the unsurprisg movement om straight-to-gay-to-straight that was seen the Anne Heche/Ellen Degener saga. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay?

" Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men.

CAN SCTN MAKE STRAIGHT MEN GAY?

If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well. If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay? Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own.

TWO BURGLARS SODOMIZED FOR FIVE DAYS STRAIGHT AFTER BREAKG INTO THE HOE OF NOTOR GAY RAPIST

In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved. But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye. Kaye has veloped the Official Gay Hband Checklist to help women know if their hbands are gay.

A hband may be gay and display none of those signs or a hband may display the signs and not be gay. Kaye advis that women "follow their stcts" when cidg whether their hband may be gay.

THE AM I GAY TT (MEN ONLY!)

If turns out that a hband is, fact, gay, the fallout n be difficult to al wh, particularly for the straight partner. (If you're thkg that you n cure the gay by havg your hband go to gay nversn therapy, read this.

What's important to remember is that the hband's homosexualy is entirely his rponsibily and has nothg to do wh the wife. The wife has not been aquate any way and likely the gay hband married her bee he tly red about her.

In an effort to prent both sis of the gay nversn bate, IBT ved a man whose sexualy changed through therapy to tell his story.