When I started wrg my new book, God and the Gay Christian, I was well aware that Christians who oppose same-sex marriage the church have long ed the Bible to fend their pot of view. As a gay Christian om an evangelil church Kansas, that stat quo has had a damagg impact on my life, which is one reason I'm settg out to change the flty perspective. Here are 10 reasons why God accepts gay Christians.
Contents:
- J AS AN OPENLY GAY MAN
- IS POSSIBLE TO BE A GAY CHRISTIAN?
- HOW TO BE AN OPENLY GAY CHRISTIAN
- ARE THERE REALLY “GAY CHRISTIANS”?
- CAN SOMEONE BE GAY AND CHRISTIAN? IS POSSIBLE TO BE A GAY CHRISTIAN?
- 10 REASONS GOD LOV GAY CHRISTIANS
- HOW TO RENCILE YOUR CHRISTIAN FAH WH YOUR GAY LIFE
J AS AN OPENLY GAY MAN
Is possible to be a gay Christian? Can a te Christian to be a practicg and unrepentant homosexual? * gay christ *
The most astoundg fdg om the newly disvered lead dic is that J Christ was unambiguoly and openly gay. It seems clear now that this is ls a negative repudiatn of fay and more a posive exhortatn to jo affirmatn of a gay liftyle and is at least one new parable, that of the two young men. Before, one might have thought that, given Mary's virgy, Joseph's attu was reflectg the ambigui of his stat the fay; but now seems more probable that we have here a classic example of the Frdian triangle: over-posssive mother, hostile father, gay have we known so ltle about all of this before?
The classilly ted Pl, who was himself gay, saw that same-sex activy was imil to the succs of Christiany the highly homophobic societi which he lived. Do not be ceived; neher fornitors, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effemate, nor homosexuals, nor thiev, nor the veto, nor dnkards, nor revilers, nor swdlers, will her the kgdom of God” (1 Corthians 6:9-10). While is unniable, biblilly speakg, that homosexualy is immoral and unnatural (Romans 1:26-27), no sense do the Bible scribe homosexualy as an unfivable s.
Perhaps that is the key phrase the qutn of whether is possible to be a gay Christian: “stggle agast. Some strongly heterosexual men and women have experienced a “spark” of homosexual tert at some pot their liv.
IS POSSIBLE TO BE A GAY CHRISTIAN?
Beg open about your sexual orientatn should be as easy as breathg, but realy, tak nsc effort and a ltle practice. First, nsir what the Bible says about gay love, and tly ci if that is the path you wish to... * gay christ *
It is nsistent, for example, to clare those guilty of pre-maral sex as “disobedient Christians, ” while clarg homosexuals fively non-Christians. If the phrase “gay Christian” refers to a person who stggl agast homosexual sir and temptatns – y, a “gay Christian” is possible. However, the scriptn “gay Christian” is not accurate for such a person, sce he/she do not sire to be gay, and is stgglg agast the temptatns.
Such a person is not a “gay Christian, ” but rather is simply a stgglg Christian, jt as there are Christians who stggle wh fornitn, lyg, and stealg. If the phrase “gay Christian” refers to a person who actively, perpetually, and unrepentantly liv a homosexual liftyle – no, is not possible for such a person to tly be a Christian.
HOW TO BE AN OPENLY GAY CHRISTIAN
Gay Lbian Bisexual Christian 101 - Accurate biblil and historil fendg LGB Christians om the anti-gay crowd. * gay christ *
First, nsir what the Bible says about gay love, and tly ci if that is the path you wish to fight for. Learn all you n om strong Christian teachers, and see how par to what the gay muny tells you about gay Christians.
There are ngregatns of even the most tradnally homophobic nomatns that clare themselv "Affirmg" or LGBTQ iendly. Most nomatns have gay-iendly church, but you might have luck wh a UCC, Quaker, or Unarian Universalist church. Look for church that have LGBTQ affy groups, Gay Straight Allianc, mentorg programs for queer youth, and diversy-affirmg mte.
If there are no ngregatns near where you live, nsir streamg onle church servic om a gay-affirmg church and participatg related msage boards. In the Uned Stat, almost half of gay and lbian people intify as Christian, while many more belong to other fah tradns.
ARE THERE REALLY “GAY CHRISTIANS”?
Can someone be gay and Christian? Is possible to be a gay Christian? Can you be a Christian and stggle wh homosexualy? * gay christ *
If you are livg an isolated area, or if you are unable or aaid to meet other gay Christians person, look onle.
Reassure them that you know what you are talkg about, that you have always been gay, and that you are still a Christian. If you live wh homophobic fay members, have a backup plan before you e out, or if you fear beg outed. If they say you're nfed, rebellg, or have "chosen" to intify as gay, all you n do is say that you unrstand why they thk that, but 's not te.
CAN SOMEONE BE GAY AND CHRISTIAN? IS POSSIBLE TO BE A GAY CHRISTIAN?
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If your fay is worried that gay love is a s, 's up to you how much you re to share wh them. Don't get sucked to endls arguments about the Bible and gay love wh anyone who harass you. While terpretatn of the Bible vari over time and between nomatns, many Christians rely on a few short passag to nmn gay people.
10 REASONS GOD LOV GAY CHRISTIANS
Remd them that Genis 19 is about the gang-rape of angels, and actual gay people are never mentned nnectn to Sodom. Pot out that Romans 1:26-27 and Levic 18:22 and 20:13 are about teachg agast worship of false gods, and that ntext may expla the language about gay sex. If they brg up I Corthians 6:9 or I Timothy 1:10, tell them the translatn of the Greek words "malakos" and "arsenoko" as "gay" is ntroversial, as that meang was rare when the words were most mon.
You may feel exclud om the broar LGBTQ muny, or like your ncerns aren't shared by many gay people. As a gay Christian, you unrstand that no sgle inty tegory suffic to fe one's posn the world.
HOW TO RENCILE YOUR CHRISTIAN FAH WH YOUR GAY LIFE
I'm startg to thk that I might be gay, if I actually volve myself gay sex wouldn't I be tentnally sng? In the Bible, I heard some passag that a male beg gay is abomatn; I'm actually gay and I'm not sure if I'm gonna go to heaven. "This helped show me that I'm not alone beg a gay Christian, and that there is a muny around me.
God and the Gay Christian is a book that seeks to teach rears that the Bible ndon livg a monogamo homosexual liftyle. 1 He garnered natnal attentn aga 2013 when he started his mistry The Reformatn Project and hosted a nference to teach people how to “reform” the church on the issue of homosexualy. 2 And April of this year, V ma news once aga wh the release of his new book God and the Gay Christian: The Biblil Case Support of Same-Sex Relatnships.