Contents:
- MY SON IS GAY
- PARENT SPECTS THAT CHILD MIGHT BE GAY
- MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
- IS YOUR CHILD GAY?
MY SON IS GAY
They immediately clocked as gay, while we immediately clocked them as we warmed up to another, one mom anxly said: "I have a qutn: I am pretty sure my son is gay, but I don't know what to do. "For example, if someone the word "gay" place of "stupid, " remd them that the two are not terchangeable, and suggt they should say what they actually mean stead.
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Jordan's story is rerd a Christiany Today feature article, "Hope for the Gay Unrgrad. In our discsns about Jordan, she has been very firm her belief that the Bible says homosexualy is a choice. As I listened to them dialogue about that, I started to see that "choice" is probably not the bt word to e when talkg wh those stgglg wh homosexualy.
PARENT SPECTS THAT CHILD MIGHT BE GAY
Statg that homosexualy is a choice n make perfect sense to those of not alg wh the issue, but for those the church today who are tryg to figure out why they are havg same-sex attractns, I n see how uld be hugely trimental and create far more pa than hope and healg. If our words are drivg our sons and dghters toward those the gay muny who "better unrstand" their stggl, then I believe we are also beg ceived about the way God would sire we share the gospel. I feel like many dividuals the church who are stgglg wh homosexualy tend to feel that their only optns are to hi the tense battle they're wagg ternally, move to the gay muny for acceptance, or m suici.
From what I'm told, there are many the church, like my son, who say they have homosexual attractns, but are choosg not to act on that s and stead, to live a chaste life servg the Lord.
Jordan has shared several horrible stori about stunts he has known om Christian hom—some wh parents mistry—who have been beaten and abed by their parents when they tried to talk wh them about beg gay.
MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
Here are a few thgs I've learned on how to cultivate a healthy rponse to my son's nfsn of homosexualy:. My hband wisely unseled me to only share Jordan's revelatn wh a tsted and select few, so that if his homosexualy ed others to treat him differently, me om him sayg somethg and not .
If they see firsthand how the Lord giv the power and abily to rpond to their homosexualy wh passn and love, rather than anger and abe as they may have expected, then maybe that example will empower them to believe that he n help them change as well. For more rmatn about homosexualy and Christiany, download TCW rource "Homosexualy: Balancg Tth and Grace. " To read more about Rachel and Jordan's journey, read CT article "Hope for the Gay Unrgrad, " and for the story of one lbian's life-changg transformatn, "My Tra-Wreck Conversn.
IS YOUR CHILD GAY?
Perhaps you asked yourself, “Is my son gay? ” Maybe you thought, “My son is gay. ” Or maybe the thought never crossed your md before he me and told you, “Mom, Dad, I’m gay.
Is It My Flt That My Son Is Gay? When I found out my son is gay I wonred if was flt. I “knew” wasn’t te but the recs of my heart I wonred, “My son is gay – is my flt?
In years past there was a stereotype that homosexualy was ed by strong mothers and absent fathers. Even though I knew wasn’t te, when I found out my son is gay, I didn’t want anyone sayg that might be the reason bee I wasn’t sure wasn’t my flt. Several years after I found out my son is gay, I read an article the paper about a study that showed that a part of the bra is smaller gay men than straight men.