Contents:
- ‘IT’S ONLY GAY IF YOU MAKE EYE NTACT’
- OPENLY GAY JIU-JSU PRACTNER FDS SUPPORT FROM EVERYBODY
- AN INTERVIEW WH A GAY GUY BJJ PRACTNER!
- THREAD: BRAZIIAN JIU JSU IS GAY
- FIRST OPENLY GAY UPLE BRAZILIAN JIU-JSU LNCH BOYNTON BEACH SCHOOL, URG CHANGE SPORT
‘IT’S ONLY GAY IF YOU MAKE EYE NTACT’
Today I want to highlight a nversatn that I had recently wh a Brazilian female iend about the homophobia that is prent Brazil. After a general nversatn, we me to the subject of homosexualy sports and pecially Jiu-Jsu. I remember when travelg to Brazil, I was told that Jiu-Jsu ‘Pboys’ would beat up gays and transvt, bee they were ‘disgtg’ (I’ll spare you the words).
When I ask a practner, if they would md rollg wh a gay person?
As if the fact that sce the person was gay, they would take advantage of the suatn … Is that what also happens when a man rolls wh a woman? Knowg that many gays do not make their g out and even ls the ultra macho world of bat sports, do you hontly thk that a guy or girl, would e to BJJ jt to ‘p a feel’ of a trag partner? A few years back, I was talkg wh a gay iend, who trag Judo.
OPENLY GAY JIU-JSU PRACTNER FDS SUPPORT FROM EVERYBODY
It is te that the dojo, is not a nightclub, is not Tr, ’s still very rare that there have to have people flirtg on the mats Wether be men or women, straight or gay when you’re at the amy, your goal should be to advance and evolve. If tomorrow, a iend that you tra wh for years, told you they were gay, what would you? Still, you have to face , there are gay BJJ practners, you have surely e across some, you may have even rolled wh them.
Also, n’t gays also be warrrs? I'm Gay and do BJJ. I am gay, a mted monogamo relatnship wh another man, and have been practisg brazilian jiujsu at a lol gym for jt over two years now (not too far off blue belt, if I traed more regularly, maybe I'd already have one, who knows).
AN INTERVIEW WH A GAY GUY BJJ PRACTNER!
On other webs dited to jiujsu and grapplg arts, there is fely a noted stigma agast homosexual mal practisg jiujsu on the basis that eher they're dog for sexual reasons and tryg to "get off" om , or the basis that if a gay man rolls wh them class, they'll all sudnly ntract HIV.
It's rare to hear a nversatn about gay people om the people the gym, but sometim DOES happen, and mak me very glad that I have kept my classmat the dark about my sexualy (I am very much "out" every other aspect of my life). If you knew I was gay, and YOUR amy, would you roll wh me? I'm cur about the views based not jt on the strange fear of gay men rryg around fe STDs, but also potentially on the ia that a sgle gay man would be a "sexual threat").
If you were to fd out that I go to your amy, or have BEEN to your amy, and you have rolled wh me, or any other gay man whout your knowledge (Consirg the gyms I have vised, and that me is a rather large one, there's probably at least a few guys on here I have rolled wh), what would your thoughts on the subject be? This qutn is for anyone, but particularly aimed at those who feel unfortable rollg wh gay mal. What are your thoughts on Gay men jiujsu as a whole?
THREAD: BRAZIIAN JIU JSU IS GAY
I will attempt to do the same today on a subject jt as important as any technique or ncept the sport – homosexualy Jiu Jsu. “It’s Only Gay if You Make Eye Contact”. Homosexualy Jiu Jsu is somethg that should not be discsed.
FIRST OPENLY GAY UPLE BRAZILIAN JIU-JSU LNCH BOYNTON BEACH SCHOOL, URG CHANGE SPORT
It go beyond jt homosexualy Jiu Jsu, also has to do wh heterosexual relatns.
BJJ people are que homophobic, as I have e to believe durg my 12-year volvement the sport, even if they don’t mean negatively and sultgly. People have said to me directly or to others that they feel gy about sharg their homosexualy Jiu Jsu circl, particularly after beg accepted as “one of the boys/girls” the locker room culture.
Of urse, geography and mographics play a role this, as some parts of the world are still strongly opposed to homosexualy Jiu Jsu and every other aspect of life. There have been exampl given by stunts where they’ve heard threats like “I’ll never let go of a submissn on a gay person” and even more gome stuff that I won’t re to repeat.