"I'm OK - You're OK." That tchy tle is repeated oftentim to this day unselg parents how to handle a son or dghter revealg they are gay or lbian. "Don't be judgmental. Convey unndnal love. Accept them as they are. Realize they're born this way. Reassure them you're okay and they're okay whatever sexual inty they choose."
Contents:
- HOW CAN CHRISTIAN PARENTS RPOND TO THEIR GAY CHILD?
- HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS
- “MOM, DAD… I’M GAY.” A CHRISTIAN PARENT’S RPONSE
- I TRIED TO STOP MY SON OM BEG GAY. HERE’S WHAT I WISH I HAD KNOWN
- WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR CHILD SAID, 'I'M GAY'?
- I’M AAID MY SON IS GAY
- WHEN HIS SON CAME OUT AS GAY, THIS PASTOR DELIVERED A SERMON OF SUPPORT
- WHAT IF YOUR CHILD IS GAY?
- MY SON IS GAY
- HOW DO I LOVE MY GAY SON?
HOW CAN CHRISTIAN PARENTS RPOND TO THEIR GAY CHILD?
The Bible is not silent on parentg, and that clus when a child out as gay or lbian. Learn how to bt handle this hot topic God's way. * i am a christian and my son is gay *
Your child is gay. But for many Christian parents, nothg n prepare them to hear that their beloved child is gay. If you are a Christian parent, fay member or iend to whom your loved one has e out as gay or lbian, then this is for you.
HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS
When a child first out as eher beg gay or havg same-sex attractn their parents' ial rpons are ually the wrong on, says Chris Doyle, a psychotherapist who specializ SSA. * i am a christian and my son is gay *
They did not “choose gayns” to rebel agast you, get back at you or make your life miserable. As a younger Christian, tght that homosexualy is a s, I believed that trma somewhere someone’s past ed homosexualy, even if they didn’t remember .
To my surprise, God pletely shifted my unrstandg and revealed to me the many people who had a great childhood are still gay. Some gay teens have been shamed, banished, threatened, beaten, and shunned.
“MOM, DAD… I’M GAY.” A CHRISTIAN PARENT’S RPONSE
Read “Mom, Dad… I’m Gay.” A Christian Parent’s Rponse by David Murray and more articl about Christian Life and Wiki on * i am a christian and my son is gay *
If dog the thgs meant that homosexualy would not vis a Christian home, then we wouldn’t see croppg up so often.
But please unrstand that even if we disagree, nothg chang regardg our rponsibily, our blsg as a Mom or a Dad to unndnally love, accept and affirm our gay children – as God has done wh .
A Hot Topic Requirg Patience and LoveOf all of the trendg topics seen the media today, none is more emotnally charged or ntroversial than the topic of homosexualy or same-sex attractn. Christians are havg a difficult time articulatg a posn that is both biblilly fahful and grac/lovg to those wh a homosexual part of this discsn has to do wh should Christian parents do if their son or dghter “ out” and clar themselv to be gay? How n Christian parents rpond to their gay child?
I TRIED TO STOP MY SON OM BEG GAY. HERE’S WHAT I WISH I HAD KNOWN
* i am a christian and my son is gay *
Thankfully, Christians have a rich text that giv the words and heart of the Creator of the me give three practil prcipl that n help Christian parents rpond to their gay child. Reject Gay Therapy as an End GoalOver the past or longer, this seems to have been the prevalent Christian parental rponse for havg a gay child.
The goal of “gay therapy” is to reorient the sexual orientatn om homosexual feelgs to heterosexual feelgs.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR CHILD SAID, 'I'M GAY'?
Qutn: I sense my son is gay bee he has never had a girliend. And I have ught him watchg gay porn. I raised him the church, where is tght that that is a s. How do I talk to him about his stggl and that his liftyle is a s? A s… * i am a christian and my son is gay *
Parents should not have the goal of nvertg their child om homosexualy to heterosexualy. Parents of gay children mt pot their child here everyday!
We also need to extend grace to those children who have been abandoned or abed by their parents or fay who have mishandled the 1:16 – For om his fullns we have all received, grace upon is how parents should rpond to their gay child; grace upon grace.
I’M AAID MY SON IS GAY
Danny Cortez, once a Southern Baptist mister, did do more than accept his gay son: He cid to talk to his ngregatn about homosexualy, even though ultimately meant his leavg the church. * i am a christian and my son is gay *
When a child first out to their parents as eher beg gay or havg same-sex attractn, their ial rpons are ually the wrong on, says Chris Doyle, a psychotherapist who specializ York Cy gay pri para crowd this undated photo.
"Sce homosexualy is beg more wily accepted Amerin society, an creasg number of teens who experience SSA are intifyg as gay. They believe that if you experience same-sex attractns, then you're gay, " Doyle told the negative rpons parents have, acrdg to Doyle, are avoidg the issue by barrg their child om talkg about SSA or their gay inty; believg that 's a passg phase; or threateng to kick their olr teen or 20-somethg child out of the hoe.
He also emphasized that parents nnot talk their child out of beg gay or havg SSA. "We know, our clil rearch over the last 25 years, that fay culture, environment and other non-blogil factors play a signifint role the velopment of same-sex attractn, " he asserted, addg that parents shouldn't seek therapy as an attempt to change their the book, Gay Children, Straight Parents: A Plan for Fay Healg, wrten by Richard Cohen, executive director of IHF, Doyle said 12 prcipl are discsed to help fai navigate through SSA and s .
WHEN HIS SON CAME OUT AS GAY, THIS PASTOR DELIVERED A SERMON OF SUPPORT
"Regardg sleepovers and big life events such as parents' attendg a child's same-sex weddg ceremony, Doyle suggted that parents treat their homosexual child the same as they would their heterosexual the se of sleepovers, parents should mata the same standards for every child and not allow their gay intified or SSA child to have somone they're attracted to spend the night wh them.
WHAT IF YOUR CHILD IS GAY?
"The same l should apply to heterosexual upl and homosexual upl, " he when down to attendg a child's gay weddg ceremony, Doyle suggted that attendg the ceremony don't necsarily reflect that the parents agree wh same-sex marriage, their prence merely shows their love for their child.
MY SON IS GAY
Rachel Held Evans nclus her blog post If my son or dghter were gay wh this paragraph:. If God bls Dan and me wh a child who is gay, I would want that child to know whout a doubt that he or she is loved unndnally. I believe Rachel’s motivatn is to create a more welg and lovg environment the church for those who intify themselv as homosexuals, or who stggle wh homosexual sire.
HOW DO I LOVE MY GAY SON?
I admire and agree wh her motive, and mt say that I’ve learned om her this area of beg much more reful how I speak and wre about homosexualy. First, she don’t munite any ncern about the sfulns of homosexual sir nor the immoraly of homosexual actns. She seems to nvey that homosexual sir are not part of human brokenns, and that to pursue homosexual practic do not have any bearg on a person’s relatnship wh Christ.
” There is no ditn that she se anythg wrong or unbiblil about homosexualy. Send, Rachel seems to intify everyone who tak the view that homosexual sir are part of broken human sfulns, and that homosexual actns are s, as bulli. However, ’s irrponsible and unfair to group all who say that homosexualy is immoral as bulli of Christ’s ltle on.