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THREE INSIGHTS OM PEOPLE WHO REALIZED THEY WERE GAY LATER LIFE

* realizing you re gay later in life *

What do feel like to realize you are gay at a later age? Perhaps you've heard of people who e out as gay late you might be ls faiar wh people who don't realize they are gay until well to spoke to three dividuals about their journey of disvery and gleaned three signifint sights to human sexualy. "The impulse and prsure to lean toward heterosexualy and away om homosexualy is what wrer Adrienne Rich lled "pulsory heterosexualy, " a term she popularized, which refers to the ia of heterosexualy as the flt sexual inty.

"I REALIZED I WAS GAY": MEN WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE ARE SHARG WHAT IT WAS LIKE FOR THEM TO REVEAL THAT TTH AND LIVE AUTHENTILLY

Social stigma n keep people om explorg homosexualy and journey to realize, accept, and e out wh a person's sexualy happens for some people  middle Hewt me out four years ago, at the age of 45, after two marriag to men and two children. "It was a batn of the time when I was born and raised and [the] msage I got as a child that [homosexualy] was not acceptable, even though my fay was fairly progrsive, " Hewt said. She add: "There's this ternalized homophobia you get om the culture — that beg gay is hard.

"Hewt said she feared discrimatn and remembered thkg, "I don't want to be gay, " mostly bee she, a mother of two teenagers, didn't want to re-orient her view of the tth h her durg a medatn ssn. "I opened myself up and heard, ‘Well, you're gay, ' and, ‘What are you gog to do about this? "Jillian is younger and grew up a time wh more gay people pop culture, but she found her role mols the queer muny, thanks to her girliend and iends.

I WAS MARRIED WH 2 KIDS WHEN I REALIZED I’M GAY

"*Jillian is a psdonym as this source requted to be your opnDo you know anyone who realized they were gay as an adult? When I found out earlier this month, along wh the rt of the world, that one of my favore actors, Kal Penn, is a fellow gay man and now engaged to his long-time partner, I was so happy that he was openly livg his tth.

7 PEOPLE SHARE THE MOMENT THEY REALIZED THEY WERE GAY

"I realized I was gay last year, after 36 years durg the lockdown.

After seeg a gay guy I uld see myself , I started to qutn myself more.

HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY

I me out as bisexual at 44 after my stepson me out as gay at 11 years old. "I moved to Ireland jt before the referendum that legalized gay marriage.

Once the untry around me changed and I started seeg more gays the muny, felt safer, and I felt more fortable to e out. I'd fantasize about men and watch gay porn.

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