Men on r/AskGaybrosOver30 have been sharg stori of how they me out later life and what was the turng pot for them.
Contents:
- "I REALIZED I WAS GAY": MEN WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE ARE SHARG WHAT IT WAS LIKE FOR THEM TO REVEAL THAT TTH AND LIVE AUTHENTILLY
- “I REALIZED I WAS GAY”: 29 MEN IN THIS ONLE GROUP WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE SHARE WHAT WAS THEIR TURNG POT
- ‘I AM GAY – BUT I WASN’T BORN THIS WAY’
- I WAS MARRIED WH 2 KIDS WHEN I REALIZED I’M GAY
- GAY PEOPLE WHO E OUT LATER LIFE FACE UNIQUE OBSTACL
- THREE INSIGHTS OM PEOPLE WHO REALIZED THEY WERE GAY LATER LIFE
"I REALIZED I WAS GAY": MEN WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE ARE SHARG WHAT IT WAS LIKE FOR THEM TO REVEAL THAT TTH AND LIVE AUTHENTILLY
Celebri who me out as lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, or queer later life: Jena Malone, Rebel Wilson, Alison Brie, and more. * gay later in life *
When I found out earlier this month, along wh the rt of the world, that one of my favore actors, Kal Penn, is a fellow gay man and now engaged to his long-time partner, I was so happy that he was openly livg his tth.
“I REALIZED I WAS GAY”: 29 MEN IN THIS ONLE GROUP WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE SHARE WHAT WAS THEIR TURNG POT
A support and discsn fom for olr members who are lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr etc. * gay later in life *
I have a lot of stori about folks who were homophobic but me around to acceptg me and honorg me for beg a gay man, once they got to know me beyond what I do bed. After spendg years dog all the manly thgs that were supposed to straighten me out, I had a particular weekend — a men-only whewater raftg trip — when I realized I did all the thgs I was aimg for that were supposed to change me, and I was still 100% gay.
Once I knew the gay wasn't gog anywhere, I figured I wanted to be open and hont wh people om then on, regardls of how the rt of my life went. My wife and I are gog to unselg together to work through thgs and while ‘’ has a shelf life, I'm foced on figurg out what beg gay means to me.
After a few months of experiencg very novel and tense sexual feelgs, I overme my fear of masturbatn and started dog to var kds of straight and gay porn. As the gay marriage movement gas momentum and even the Print is on board wh the ia of , more and more people are able to walk proudly to their sexual out happens no matter your age, race or cultural herage.
‘I AM GAY – BUT I WASN’T BORN THIS WAY’
* gay later in life *
Now that I'm 50 and encroachg 51 jt a few weeks, I n't help but wonr what would have happened if I'd waed even longer to stake my claim and live my tth as a gay than drown myself prsg thoughts about what uld have been, I'd rather share what I see happeng wh men my practice who are 50+; men jt begng their trek out of the and foremost, I appld the men. Anyone n fd sex for a night, but tak a termed gay man to fd love that lasts longer than a sgle often than not, gay men who e out later life are leavg behd a wife, kids, grandkids, gaful employment and stabily. If you allow assumptns about your worth on the gay market to monopolize your thoughts then you'll fall to the GGWDID Syndrome: Good Grief What Did I Do!
I WAS MARRIED WH 2 KIDS WHEN I REALIZED I’M GAY
Howard Selekman knew he had been attracted to men sce he was 8, but his 20s he still planned to marry a woman and have children wh her. When he brought his fiancee to see his psychiatrist, the young woman was optimistic, even though she knew Selekman was gay. * gay later in life *
In today’s pop culture landspe, we have spirg LGBTQ celebri who are g out at younger and younger ag — like YouTube sensatn JoJo Siwa who me out as gay 2021 at age 17, or Zaya Wa, the transgenr dghter of Shvghn Funch and Dwyane Wa, who me out to her parents at age 12 but (acrdg to dad) has known her genr inty sce she was 3 years old. Our current climate has by no means eradited the homophobia that jt a few s back was as monplace to s- TV as a lgh track, but the progrs is unniable, as we remember the generatns of LGBTQ stars who hid their te inty for fear of beg blacklisted om the bs, jeered the prs, or alienated om their loved on.
GAY PEOPLE WHO E OUT LATER LIFE FACE UNIQUE OBSTACL
A lot n be hidn behd a marriage. For Brad and Cyndi Marler, was that they are both gay. * gay later in life *
Rairs fensive leman Carl Nassib beme the first openly gay active NFL player history when he me out on Instagram June 2021: “I jt want to take a quick moment to say that I’m gay, ” he said a vio.
Colton Unrwood me out as a gay man on Good Morng Ameri two years after appearg as the lead of The Bachelor, openg up about how his relig upbrgg had prevented him om acceptg his own sexualy. Sir Ian McKellen me out as a gay man at 48 years old when he went on BBC 3 to prott the passg of a bill that prohibed lol thori om engagg anythg that uld be nsired a “promotn of homosexualy, ” argug: “I certaly would [like to see repealed].
At age 45, Sex and the Cy star Cynthia Nixon clarified to the world via a letter to The Advote that she intifi as bisexual after ntroversially mentg to the New York Tim that she was “choosg” to be gay. In 1997, Ellen DeGener me out as a gay woman at the age of 39 wh a one-two punch of a Time magaze ver announcg her sexualy and a special episo of TV show Ellen which her s character out as gay, after which DeGener herself nfirmed her own sexualy. But Diamond and other rearchers have piled numero se studi of gay men who spent years feelg (and actg) fully and fortably homosexual, only then to fall unexpectedly love wh a heterosexual woman.
THREE INSIGHTS OM PEOPLE WHO REALIZED THEY WERE GAY LATER LIFE
) Vlet loved San wh all her heart, but she did not fe herself as gay the wake of the affair — nor has she bee volved another same-sex relatnship sce.