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class="byle-name"><a href=">Brooke Sopelsa</a></span></div></sectn><div class="article-body__ntent article-body-font--loadg"><p class="">The young adult adaptatn of Chasten Buttigieg’s 2020 New York Tim btsellg memoir, “I Have Somethg to Tell You,” buted Tuday, but the hband of Transportatn Secretary Pete Buttigieg is worried the book — about growg up gay a small Midwtern town — won’t “get to the hands of the people that need most.”</p><p class="">“I’m a dad and I tght middle school, so I wrote a pletely age-appropriate book,” the 33-year-old said an terview wh MSNBC’s Stephanie Ruhle. “So, if ’s banned, ’s jt polics.”</p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_small__5hUB_ styl_portra__NRWbO"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1240px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source media="(m-width: 758px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img src=" alt="Chasten Buttigieg holds his book, "I Have Somethg to Tell You: For Young Adults" New York" height="2500" width="1667"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer">Chasten Buttigieg holds his book, "I Have Somethg to Tell You: For Young Adults," New York on Monday.</span><span class="ptn__source">Craig Barrt / Getty Imag for GLSEN</span></figptn></figure><p class="">His fear amid <a href=">rerd stanc of book censorship the Uned Stat</a> and <a href=">state efforts to ban lsons about LGBTQ issu</a> the classroom.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100"></div></div><div id="taboolaReadMoreBelow"></div><p class="">In s latt annual <a href=">book censorship report</a>, the Amerin Library Associatn documented 1,269 challeng to more than 2,500 books last year, the hight number of attempted book bans sce began trackg such efforts 2001. Of the 13 books that ma the associatn’s list of most challenged books last year, seven tl — cludg three of the top four — were <a href=" target="_blank">challenged for havg LGBTQ ntent</a>, found. </p><p class="">Buttigieg, who grew up Traverse Cy, Michigan, said his young adult memoir is the book he wish he had when he was a stunt. </p><p class="">“When I was growg up northern Michigan, at the time, I thought I was the only gay person the world. I thought somethg was wrong wh me,” he said. </p><p class="">Buttigieg said ’s “a ltle b of both” when asked if he thks ’s easier or more difficult to e out now — a polil environment that has spawned hundreds of anti-LGBTQ bills stateho across the U.S. — than was when he me out.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100"></div></div><p class="">“I remember growg up and everyone kept sayg, ‘It gets better, gets better,’ and did some ways,” he said, cg his abily to <a href=">get married and bee a dad</a>. “But bee was gettg better, I thk some people are now foced on makg worse.”</p><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend"></div><p class="">Buttigieg said the current polil environment means ’s time for “active allyship,” and he enuraged LGBTQ alli to “get off the uch and fd a way to e your posns of power or privilege or money or time to help.”</p><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend"></div><p class="">“Helpg n look like a myriad of thgs for everyone, but ask yourself: Have I earned the tle of ally? Or have I jt given to myself?” he said. </p><sectn class="le-vio le-vio---body"><div class="le-vio__background"><div class="le-vio__player"><div class="vioPlayer styl_vioPlayer__bL8AJ styl_adNotPlayg__Q51_C styl_alignDktopBottom__4cHaO styl_alignMobileBottom__bhgkQ"><div class="vioSlate"><a href=" class="allowClicksOnPreview"><picture class=""><source media="(m-width: 1240px)" srcSet="><source media="(m-width: 758px)" srcSet="><img loadg="lazy" src=" height="1080" width="1920"/></picture></a><div class="playButtonOuter absolute absolute-fill w100 dn-prt"><div class="absolute absolute-fill w100 df ems-center ems-center-m jtify-center jtify-center-m"><div class="play le-vio__play-button"><svg class="play--in" xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 15 15" prerveAspectRat="xMidYMid" style="max-width:30px"><path d="M0 0v15l15-7.41z" fill-le="evenodd"></path></svg></div></div></div></div><div id="174520901510"></div></div></div></div><div class="le-vio__"><h2 class="le-vio__tle"><a href=">Chasten Buttigieg hop his new YA book will help fai, parents and young people</a></h2><span class="le-vio__tail"><span>May 16, 2023</span><span>04:13</span></span><div class="styl_share__n3Syu le-vio__share dn-prt"><div class="styl_shareExpanr__hVk8d le-vio__share-expanr styl_hoverEffect___Dj4s"><span class="styl_shareDot__9pfRZ le-vio__share-dot"></span><svg class="styl_shareClose__6BZxR le-vio__share-close" viewBox="0 0 15 15"><le class="styl_shareLe__EJUjO" x1="0" x2="15" y1="0" y2="15"></le><le class="styl_shareLe__EJUjO" x1="0" x2="15" y1="15" y2="0"></le></svg></div><div class="styl_shareList___M8wC le-vio__share-list"><a href=" class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-facebook styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a><a href=" class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-twter styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a><a href="mailto:?subject=Chasten Buttigieg hop his new YA book will help fai, parents and young people& class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-email styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a></div></div></div></sectn><p class="">When asked what story or anecdote his young adult memoir would have had the biggt impact on him as an eighth grar, Buttigieg said he would have “benefed om a 10-send nversatn wh my parents when I was younger.”</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100"></div></div><p class="">“What if they sat me down and said, ‘We jt want you to know that you are loved, no matter what, unndnally. If you’re gay, straight, no matter what, you will always have a roof over your head and you will always have two parents who love you.’ Image if I uld have heard that, and then poured myself to everythg else that young people should be payg attentn to: sports, amics. But for 18 years, I hated myself bee I was nvced that my parents would hate me and then I would lose everythg.”</p><p class="endmark">He add that the No. 1 thg he wants young people to take away om his memoir is: “There is goodns out here this world. People do love you. 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The hband of Transportatn Secretary and former a2020 printial ndidate Pete Buttigieg is speakg about the young adult adaptatn of his memoir, cludg his experience g out as gay.

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U.S. Transportatn Secretary Pete Buttigieg's hband, Chasten, leads children a pledge of allegiance to the rabow flag at a "not-so-typil gay mp" a viral social media vio. * chasten buttigieg gay *

Chasten Buttigieg, the hband of Democratic printial ndidate Pete Buttigieg, opened up this week about the stggl he faced after g out as gay, tellg The Washgton Post about his fay’s stggle wh his sexual orientatn.

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class="byle-name"><a href=">Brooke Sopelsa</a></span></div></sectn><div class="article-body__ntent article-body-font--loadg"><p class="">The young adult adaptatn of Chasten Buttigieg’s 2020 New York Tim btsellg memoir, “I Have Somethg to Tell You,” buted Tuday, but the hband of Transportatn Secretary Pete Buttigieg is worried the book — about growg up gay a small Midwtern town — won’t “get to the hands of the people that need most.”</p><p class="">“I’m a dad and I tght middle school, so I wrote a pletely age-appropriate book,” the 33-year-old said an terview wh MSNBC’s Stephanie Ruhle. “So, if ’s banned, ’s jt polics.”</p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_small__5hUB_ styl_portra__NRWbO"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1240px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source media="(m-width: 758px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img src=" alt="Chasten Buttigieg holds his book, "I Have Somethg to Tell You: For Young Adults" New York" height="2500" width="1667"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer">Chasten Buttigieg holds his book, "I Have Somethg to Tell You: For Young Adults," New York on Monday.</span><span class="ptn__source">Craig Barrt / Getty Imag for GLSEN</span></figptn></figure><p class="">His fear amid <a href=">rerd stanc of book censorship the Uned Stat</a> and <a href=">state efforts to ban lsons about LGBTQ issu</a> the classroom.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100"></div></div><div id="taboolaReadMoreBelow"></div><p class="">In s latt annual <a href=">book censorship report</a>, the Amerin Library Associatn documented 1,269 challeng to more than 2,500 books last year, the hight number of attempted book bans sce began trackg such efforts 2001. Of the 13 books that ma the associatn’s list of most challenged books last year, seven tl — cludg three of the top four — were <a href=" target="_blank">challenged for havg LGBTQ ntent</a>, found. </p><p class="">Buttigieg, who grew up Traverse Cy, Michigan, said his young adult memoir is the book he wish he had when he was a stunt. </p><p class="">“When I was growg up northern Michigan, at the time, I thought I was the only gay person the world. I thought somethg was wrong wh me,” he said. </p><p class="">Buttigieg said ’s “a ltle b of both” when asked if he thks ’s easier or more difficult to e out now — a polil environment that has spawned hundreds of anti-LGBTQ bills stateho across the U.S. — than was when he me out.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100"></div></div><p class="">“I remember growg up and everyone kept sayg, ‘It gets better, gets better,’ and did some ways,” he said, cg his abily to <a href=">get married and bee a dad</a>. “But bee was gettg better, I thk some people are now foced on makg worse.”</p><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend"></div><p class="">Buttigieg said the current polil environment means ’s time for “active allyship,” and he enuraged LGBTQ alli to “get off the uch and fd a way to e your posns of power or privilege or money or time to help.”</p><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend"></div><p class="">“Helpg n look like a myriad of thgs for everyone, but ask yourself: Have I earned the tle of ally? Or have I jt given to myself?” he said. </p><sectn class="le-vio le-vio---body"><div class="le-vio__background"><div class="le-vio__player"><div class="vioPlayer styl_vioPlayer__bL8AJ styl_adNotPlayg__Q51_C styl_alignDktopBottom__4cHaO styl_alignMobileBottom__bhgkQ"><div class="vioSlate"><a href=" class="allowClicksOnPreview"><picture class=""><source media="(m-width: 1240px)" srcSet="><source media="(m-width: 758px)" srcSet="><img loadg="lazy" src=" height="1080" width="1920"/></picture></a><div class="playButtonOuter absolute absolute-fill w100 dn-prt"><div class="absolute absolute-fill w100 df ems-center ems-center-m jtify-center jtify-center-m"><div class="play le-vio__play-button"><svg class="play--in" xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 15 15" prerveAspectRat="xMidYMid" style="max-width:30px"><path d="M0 0v15l15-7.41z" fill-le="evenodd"></path></svg></div></div></div></div><div id="174520901510"></div></div></div></div><div class="le-vio__"><h2 class="le-vio__tle"><a href=">Chasten Buttigieg hop his new YA book will help fai, parents and young people</a></h2><span class="le-vio__tail"><span>May 16, 2023</span><span>04:13</span></span><div class="styl_share__n3Syu le-vio__share dn-prt"><div class="styl_shareExpanr__hVk8d le-vio__share-expanr styl_hoverEffect___Dj4s"><span class="styl_shareDot__9pfRZ le-vio__share-dot"></span><svg class="styl_shareClose__6BZxR le-vio__share-close" viewBox="0 0 15 15"><le class="styl_shareLe__EJUjO" x1="0" x2="15" y1="0" y2="15"></le><le class="styl_shareLe__EJUjO" x1="0" x2="15" y1="15" y2="0"></le></svg></div><div class="styl_shareList___M8wC le-vio__share-list"><a href=" class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-facebook styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a><a href=" class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-twter styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a><a href="mailto:?subject=Chasten Buttigieg hop his new YA book will help fai, parents and young people& class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-email styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a></div></div></div></sectn><p class="">When asked what story or anecdote his young adult memoir would have had the biggt impact on him as an eighth grar, Buttigieg said he would have “benefed om a 10-send nversatn wh my parents when I was younger.”</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100"></div></div><p class="">“What if they sat me down and said, ‘We jt want you to know that you are loved, no matter what, unndnally. If you’re gay, straight, no matter what, you will always have a roof over your head and you will always have two parents who love you.’ Image if I uld have heard that, and then poured myself to everythg else that young people should be payg attentn to: sports, amics. But for 18 years, I hated myself bee I was nvced that my parents would hate me and then I would lose everythg.”</p><p class="endmark">He add that the No. 1 thg he wants young people to take away om his memoir is: “There is goodns out here this world. People do love you. People are fightg for you.”</p></div><div class="article-body__ntent article-body-font--loadg"><div class="expand-byle-ntributors articleByleContaer"><div class="expand-byle article-expand-byle" data-activy-map="expand-byle-article-bottom"><div class="byle-thumbnail byle-thumbnail--has-image expand-byle__thumbnail"><a href="><picture><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt="" height="48" width="48"/></picture></a></div><span class="byle-name expand-byle__name"><a href=">Brooke Sopelsa</a></span><span class="byle-social expand-byle__social"><a href=" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="byle-social--lk"><span class="in in-twter"></span></a><a href="" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="byle-social--lk"><span class="in in-email"></span></a></span><div class="expand-byle__b-wrapper"><p class="byle-b expand-byle__b">Brooke Sopelsa is the edorial director of NBC Out, NBC News' LGBTQ digal statn. </p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body--right-rail-ntaer"><div class="article-body__right-rail layout-grid-em grid-l-4_5-l grid-l-3_5-xl grid-l-ph-half-xl"><div class="ad article-body__right-rail--ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxrail" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[[300,250],[360,360]]],[[758,1],[]],[[0,0],[]]]" data-offset="10" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="body-bottom-remend"><div class="ad ad--midrponsive ad-ntaer dn-prt"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="midrponsive" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[[700,1],[5,5]]],[[758,1],[]],[[0,0],[]]]" data-offset="300" data-reh-terval="0" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te"></div></div></div></div></div></article></div></div><div id="hfs-footer" class="dn-prt" data-activy-map="hfs-footer"><footer class="hfsf" ><div class="ner"><div class="logo"><a href="><svg class="peack" viewBox="578 62 67 39" xmlns=" fill="currentColor"><g fill-le="evenodd"><path d="M579.074 90.58c1.717-4.494 6.472-6.08 10.697-3.37l18.29 12.754h-22.18c-4.62 0-8.252-4.23-6.8-9.385"></path><path class="feather" d="M579.074 90.58c1.717-4.494 6.472-6.08 10.697-3.37l18.29 12.754h-22.18c-4.62 0-8.252-4.23-6.8-9.385"></path><path class="feather" d="M597.563 75.863l9.442 21.613-19.478-13.35c-4.887-3.24-3.896-8.79-1.19-11.237 3.83-3.24 9.245-2.12 11.226 2.97"></path><path class="feather" d="M610.57 70.93l-3.433 24.19-9.772-23c-2.113-5.75 2.64-9.516 5.81-9.583 3.632-.396 8.188 2.38 7.396 8.394"></path><path class="feather" d="M625.494 72.103l-9.707 23.067-3.102-20.82c-.265-3.17 1.716-3.237 2.443-3.832-.133-.463-1.124-.463-1.124-.463h-1.848c-.198-5.42 4.028-7.8 7.462-7.535 3.697.132 7.856 4.428 5.876 9.583"></path><path class="feather" d="M635.338 84.167L615.86 97.584l9.177-21.348c2.775-6.742 9.245-5.42 11.556-2.842 2.51 2.51 3.235 7.6-1.255 10.773"></path><path class="feather" d="M637.448 99.9h-22.515l18.29-12.756c4.49-2.975 9.244-.266 10.498 3.635 1.327 4.36-1.65 9.12-6.27 9.12"></path></g></svg></a></div><nav class="lks"><ul class="lks__wrap" data-l-2="14" data-l-3=15><li><a href=" target="_self">About</a></li><li><a href=" target="_self">Contact</a></li><li><a href=">Help</a></li><li><a href=">Careers</a></li><li><a href=" target="_blank" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Ad Choic</a></li><li><a href=" target="_blank" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Privacy Policy</a></li><li><a href=" target="_blank" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Do Not Sell My Personal Informatn</a></li><li><a href=" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">CA Notice</a></li><li><a href=">Terms of Service (Updated JULY 7, 2023)</a></li><li><a href=">NBC News Semap</a></li><li><a href=">Advertise</a></li><li><a href=" target="_self">Select Shoppg</a></li><li><a href=" target="_self">Select Personal Fance</a></li></ul></nav><div class="py"><p>© 2023 NBC UNIVERSAL</p><div class="brands"><a href="><svg viewBox="0 0 120 20" fill="none" xmlns=" aria-labelledby="nbc_news_logo"><tle class="nbc_news_logo">NBC News Logo .

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