How to tell your kids you're gay, om a dad who did | Life

Contents:

• HOW TO TELL YOUR KIDS YOU'RE GAY, OM A DAD WHO DID
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• HOW DO I TELL MY WIFE AND KIDS I’M GAY?
• HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
• IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
• AM I GAY?

HOW TO TELL YOUR KIDS YOU'RE GAY, OM A DAD WHO DID

But, divorce happens for far more reasons than fily – one of the may be that one of the pair are intifyg as homosexual. This Cape Town based dad shar his story of pa, patience and power…After 11 years and two kids his heterosexual marriage, Adam Morange fally accepted his homosexualy and me out to his wife and fay. ”“It was whout a doubt the most overwhelmg experience of my life; and ’s affected me on so many levels, ” he read: How to be a prent father after a divorceSurvivg the stigmaWhile South Ai has long regnised homosexual marriag as legal; beg gay a hetero-normative world still wh s challeng.

Acceptg the ongog procs is a necsary part of the dividual read: A mixed-race gay uple share their adoptn story2. “Societal norms and the opns of others driv a sense of shame around homosexualy.

People assume that bee you are gay, you’ll be leadg an irrponsible liftyle, and this shame n drive a fear of rejectn”, explas for the kids, they will unfortunately experience some difficulty as a rult of the separatn, but this is the se for all fai who go through divorce, the expert further explas.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

”“Should homosexual parents be ready to share more wh their kids is advised that they share only what they [the kids] need to know, a way that is age-appropriate for them. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay? " Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men.

If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well. Signs of a Gay Hband – Is My Man Gay? The cleart way to know if your hband is gay is if he tells you.

HOW DO I TELL MY WIFE AND KIDS I’M GAY?

If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay? Signs You Are Gay), that is when you n tly know that he is gay. Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own.

HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY

In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved. But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye.

Kaye has veloped the Official Gay Hband Checklist to help women know if their hbands are gay. Signs Your Hband or Man May Be Gay. You fd pop-ups of gay pornography on the puter while he claims they are not his.

He adms to havg a homosexual enunter the past. He viss gay bars claimg he's there only to hang out wh his gay iend(s). He watch porno movi wh gay male scen.

IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?

He mak ntual homophobic ments or he mak too many gay ments nversatns. His ego appears to be boosted by pliments om gay men.

AM I GAY?

The signs a hband is gay are not meant to be five. A hband may be gay and display none of those signs or a hband may display the signs and not be gay. The signs of a gay hband are signed as a startg pot.

Kaye advis that women "follow their stcts" when cidg whether their hband may be gay. What If My Hband is Gay? If turns out that a hband is, fact, gay, the fallout n be difficult to al wh, particularly for the straight partner.