Here's One Btal Tth Every Whe Gay Man Needs to Hear

Contents:

• SAVAGE LOVE: WHY ARE WHE GAY GUYS SO RACIST TOWARD ASIAN MEN?
• WHE GAY PRIVILEGE EXISTS ALL YEAR, BUT IS PARTICULARLY HURTFUL DURG PRI
• WHE GAY MEN ARE HRG OUR PROGRS AS A QUEER COMMUNY
• WONKY WEDNDAY: RACISM GAY ONLE DATG
• US WHE SUPREMACISTS FOUND GUILTY OF GAY PRI RT PLOT
• HERE'S ONE BTAL TTH EVERY WHE GAY MAN NEEDS TO HEAR
• THE TTH ABOUT RACISM THE GAY MUNY IS THAT 'S VERY TE
• OPN | WHE GAY CULTURE’S TOXICY REMBL RACISM

SAVAGE LOVE: WHY ARE WHE GAY GUYS SO RACIST TOWARD ASIAN MEN?

As a queer man of lor—I’m Asian—I feel wound whenever I am exposed to gay men New York Cy, Toronto or any cy where whe gay men domate. Gay men, mostly wh and Asians, reject me bee of my race, and no one adms to their sexual racism.

WHE GAY PRIVILEGE EXISTS ALL YEAR, BUT IS PARTICULARLY HURTFUL DURG PRI

But is unfair for a gay Asian like myself to be nstantly margalized and rejected. I fight for gay rights, too.

WHE GAY MEN ARE HRG OUR PROGRS AS A QUEER COMMUNY

I had the same pa of beg gay high school and the same fears when g out, too. Why is there no acceptance, no space, no wele for me this whe-pated gay muny?

“The double-edged sword of livg a cy wh a large gay muny is that the muny gets so large that we fally have the opportuny to margalize people wh .

Jeff Chu, a wrer who also liv Brooklyn, n relate: “Racism still thriv the gay muny, jt as broar society, ” said Chu.

WONKY WEDNDAY: RACISM GAY ONLE DATG

Many tim, I’d go to a gay bar and see guys playg out some gross terracial porno their heads—wh me playg the part of their Che pocket gay. “It’s the gay media, ” said Chu.

US WHE SUPREMACISTS FOUND GUILTY OF GAY PRI RT PLOT

Booster and Chu are right: Racism is a problem the gay muny; some people wh are unfairly and celly margalized; and we all need to nont our own prejudic.

HERE'S ONE BTAL TTH EVERY WHE GAY MAN NEEDS TO HEAR

“On paper, this is the gay ial! Booster, who somehow manag to have plenty of sex New York’s “whe-pated gay muny, ” had some practil tips for you. Jo a gay volleyball league—tly where gay Asian men thrive—or fd one of the many gay Asian nights at one of the gay bars around the cy.

A quick word to gay whe men: It’s fe to have “preferenc.

THE TTH ABOUT RACISM THE GAY MUNY IS THAT 'S VERY TE

And while preferenc are allowed (and gay men of lor have them, too), there’s no exce for lterg Grdr or Tr or Ren—or your nversatns bars—wh humanizg garbage like “no Asians, ” “no Blacks, ” “no femm, ” “no fatti, ” etc. : A Gay Christian’s Pilgrimage Search of God Ameri; follow him on Twter @jeffchu. Ugh, “jt my preference” gays.

And while you n fd exampl of whe gays their 30s and 40s (and olr) dog this kd of crap, sometim seems to be more prevalent among younger gay whe men. Other gay men … reformed JMPGs or never-ever-were JMPGs … start to get their fac about how unacceptable and harmful this sh is.

OPN | WHE GAY CULTURE’S TOXICY REMBL RACISM

Decent gay men of all ag and rac spair over this “jt my preference” crap, bee never seems to stop. After gay people who know better (and are better) get the face of a JMPG, his latent moral imagatn n kick to gear. On gay datg apps like Grdr, many ers have profil that nta phras like “I don’t date Black men, ” or that claim they are “not attracted to Latos.

Sce 2015 I’ve been studyg LGBTQ culture and gay life, and much of that time has been spent tryg to untangle and unrstand the tensns and prejudic wh gay culture. I’m seekg to move beyond simply scribg the problem and to better unrstand why some gay men behave this way.