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• YOUNG SONS OF GAY DAD SHARE THEIR POWERFUL BSH WH ANTIGAY BULLYG
• GAY DADS AND A SON WHO THOUGHT HE WAS GAY
• FLORIDA MAN LEFT SON AT SI OF HIGHWAY BEE HE MIGHT BE GAY: POLICE
• FATHER LEFT YOUNG SON AT SI OF HIGHWAY BEE HE MIGHT BE GAY: POLICE
• FATHER LEFT YOUNG SON AT SI OF HIGHWAY BEE HE MIGHT BE GAY: POLICE PUBLISHED DECEMBER 3, 2019 NEWS FOX NEWS SHARE COPY LK EMAIL FACEBOOK TWTER LKEDIN REDD ARTICLE EVEND JULMS, 30, OF HA CY, FLA., DROPPED OFF HIS SON ONT OF A CLOSED POLICE PARTMENT, ACRDG TO AN AFFIDAV. (HA CY POLICE DEPARTMENT) HAINES CITY, FLA. - A FLORIDA FATHER LEFT HIS JUVENILE SON ON THE SI OF THE ROAD BEE HE THKS HIS SON MIGHT BE GAY, ACRDG TO POLICE. EVEND JULMS, 30, OF HA CY, FLA., DROPPED THE BOY OFF ONT OF A CLOSED POLICE PARTMENT, ACRDG TO AN AFFIDAV, WHICH STATED THAT THE CHILD HAD A SMALL DUFFEL BAG WH SEVERAL ARTICL OF CLOTHG BUT DID NOT HAVE ANY FOOD, WATER OR MONEY. THE BOY ALSO DID NOT HAVE A PHONE WH HIM, POLICE SAID. JULMS TOLD HIS SON, WHOSE AGE WAS REDACTED THE AFFIDAV, TO PACK A DUFFEL BAG AFTER HE ALLEGEDLY FOUND MALE PORNOGRAPHY VIOS ON HIS CELL PHONE, ACRDG TO WHAT THE AFFIDAV SAID THE VICTIM TOLD POLICE. COURT RERDS SAID JULMS “BEME VERY UPSET” AFTER HE FOUND THE VIOS. HA CY POLICE TOLD FOX NEWS THE BOY IS A PRE-TEEN. A BYSTANR WHO WNSED THE EVENT LLED POLICE. AN OFFICER DISPATCHED TO THE LOTN SAID THE VICTIM WAS VERY UPSET AND CRYG, ACRDG TO URT RERDS. THE VICTIM TOLD POLICE THAT HIS FATHER TOLD HIM TO PACK A BAG AND THAT HE WAS TAKG HIM TO THE POLICE PARTMENT WHERE THEY WOULD FD HIM A NEW HOME, URT RERDS SAID. JULMS MA HIS SON GET OUT OF THE VEHICLE WHILE STG A TURN LANE ON A FLORIDA HIGHWAY AND THEN DROVE OFF, ACRDG TO URT RERDS, WHICH ADD THAT HIS FATHER DID NOT TRY TO NTACT LAW ENFORCEMENT TO TELL THEM HE HAD DROPPED OFF HIS SON. AFTER LEARNG ABOUT WHAT HAD HAPPENED, THE BOY’S MOTHER WENT TO GO LOOK FOR HIM AT THE POLICE STATN, LEAVG HER OTHER TWO YOUNG CHILDREN WH JULMS, THE AFFIDAV SAID. JULMS HAD FLED THE HOME BEFORE POLICE ARRIVED, LEAVG THE TWO CHILDREN ALONE, ACRDG TO URT RERDS. JULMS LEFT HIS JUVENILE SON AT “A CLOSED POLICE PARTMENT WH NO ONE AROUND, FAILG OR OMTG TO PROVI THE VICTIM WH RE, SUPERVISN AND SERVIC NECSARY TO MATA PHYSIL OR MENTAL HEALTH WHILE ALSO FAILG TO MAKE A REASONABLE EFFORT TO PROTECT THE VICTIM OM ABE, NEGLECT OR EXPLOATN OF OTHERS,” THE AFFIDAV SAID. HE ALSO ALLEGEDLY NEGLECTED HIS TWO OTHER CHILDREN BY LEAVG THEM ALONE AT THEIR HOME WH NO ADULT SUPERVISN OR RE, URT RERDS ADD. JULMS HAS BEEN CHARGED WH THREE UNTS OF NEGLIGENT CHILD ABE WHOUT BODILY HARM AND TURNED HIMSELF , POLICE SAID, ADDG THAT HE IS STILL CTODY. GET MORE UPDAT ON THIS STORY OM .  BREAKING NEWS
• IS YOUR CHILD GAY?
• FATHER SHOT SON, 14, BEE HE THOUGHT HE WAS GAY, FORMER FOSTER MOM SAYS
• COMG OUT: A PARENTS GUI TO SUPPORTG YOUR GAY TEEN

YOUNG SONS OF GAY DAD SHARE THEIR POWERFUL BSH WH ANTIGAY BULLYG

YouTuber Kamaka Alameda, a gay father of two Puna, Hawaii recently posted a vio which he openly engag his young sons about the homophobia they face school. “I was bullied bee people would ask me about my father — if he was gay.

And I would say ‘yeah, there’s nothg wrong wh that…’ I tried to walk away om this kid — he jumped on me and he slammed my face agast a pole and gave me a black eye…They would ll me gay, they would ll me stupid, retard. “Is OK I’m not gay? Gay partners, life partners, bs partners.

A Florida father left his juvenile son on the si of the road bee he thks his son might be gay, acrdg to police. (Ha Cy Police Department) A Florida father left his juvenile son on the si of the road bee he thks his son might be gay, acrdg to police.

GAY DADS AND A SON WHO THOUGHT HE WAS GAY

Both lbians and gay men often have a history of cross-sex-typed behavrs: ltle boys beg fatuated wh their mother's makp k; ltle girls enamored of field hockey or profsnal wrtlg. Prehomosexual boys tend to be more attracted to solary sports such as swimmg, cyclg and tennis than they are to rougher ntact sports such as football and soccer. Children who show pronounced sex-atypil behavrs may have more of a geic loadg to their homosexualy.

FLORIDA MAN LEFT SON AT SI OF HIGHWAY BEE HE MIGHT BE GAY: POLICE

The behavral patterns are feared, loathed and often spoken of directly as harbgers of adult homosexualy. It is only relatively recently, however, that velopmental scientists have nducted ntrolled studi to intify the earlit and most reliable signs of adult homosexualy.

In lookg refully at the childhoods of gay adults, rearchers are fdg an trigug set of behavral ditors that homosexuals seem to have mon.

FATHER LEFT YOUNG SON AT SI OF HIGHWAY BEE HE MIGHT BE GAY: POLICE

Curly enough, the age-old homophobic fears of many parents reflect some genue predictive currency. Zucker, both psychologists, published a semal paper on childhood markers of homosexualy 1995.

So on the basis of some earlier, shakier rearch, along wh a good dose of mon sense, Bailey and Zucker hypothized that homosexuals would show an verted pattern of sex-typed childhood behavrs—ltle boys preferrg girls as playmat and beg fatuated wh their mother's makp k; ltle girls strangely enamored of field hockey or profsnal wrtlg—that sort of thg.

Given that a small proportn of the populatn is homosexual, prospective studi require a large number of children. Although only 12 percent of the women grew up to be genr dysphoric (the unfortable sense that your blogil sex do not match your genr), the odds of the women reportg a bisexual or homosexual orientatn were up to 23 tim higher than would occur a general sample of young women. And the same holds for gay men.

FATHER LEFT YOUNG SON AT SI OF HIGHWAY BEE HE MIGHT BE GAY: POLICE PUBLISHED DECEMBER 3, 2019 NEWS FOX NEWS SHARE COPY LK EMAIL FACEBOOK TWTER LKEDIN REDD ARTICLE EVEND JULMS, 30, OF HA CY, FLA., DROPPED OFF HIS SON ONT OF A CLOSED POLICE PARTMENT, ACRDG TO AN AFFIDAV. (HA CY POLICE DEPARTMENT) HAINES CITY, FLA. - A FLORIDA FATHER LEFT HIS JUVENILE SON ON THE SI OF THE ROAD BEE HE THKS HIS SON MIGHT BE GAY, ACRDG TO POLICE. EVEND JULMS, 30, OF HA CY, FLA., DROPPED THE BOY OFF ONT OF A CLOSED POLICE PARTMENT, ACRDG TO AN AFFIDAV, WHICH STATED THAT THE CHILD HAD A SMALL DUFFEL BAG WH SEVERAL ARTICL OF CLOTHG BUT DID NOT HAVE ANY FOOD, WATER OR MONEY. THE BOY ALSO DID NOT HAVE A PHONE WH HIM, POLICE SAID. JULMS TOLD HIS SON, WHOSE AGE WAS REDACTED THE AFFIDAV, TO PACK A DUFFEL BAG AFTER HE ALLEGEDLY FOUND MALE PORNOGRAPHY VIOS ON HIS CELL PHONE, ACRDG TO WHAT THE AFFIDAV SAID THE VICTIM TOLD POLICE. COURT RERDS SAID JULMS “BEME VERY UPSET” AFTER HE FOUND THE VIOS. HA CY POLICE TOLD FOX NEWS THE BOY IS A PRE-TEEN. A BYSTANR WHO WNSED THE EVENT LLED POLICE. AN OFFICER DISPATCHED TO THE LOTN SAID THE VICTIM WAS VERY UPSET AND CRYG, ACRDG TO URT RERDS. THE VICTIM TOLD POLICE THAT HIS FATHER TOLD HIM TO PACK A BAG AND THAT HE WAS TAKG HIM TO THE POLICE PARTMENT WHERE THEY WOULD FD HIM A NEW HOME, URT RERDS SAID. JULMS MA HIS SON GET OUT OF THE VEHICLE WHILE STG A TURN LANE ON A FLORIDA HIGHWAY AND THEN DROVE OFF, ACRDG TO URT RERDS, WHICH ADD THAT HIS FATHER DID NOT TRY TO NTACT LAW ENFORCEMENT TO TELL THEM HE HAD DROPPED OFF HIS SON. AFTER LEARNG ABOUT WHAT HAD HAPPENED, THE BOY’S MOTHER WENT TO GO LOOK FOR HIM AT THE POLICE STATN, LEAVG HER OTHER TWO YOUNG CHILDREN WH JULMS, THE AFFIDAV SAID. JULMS HAD FLED THE HOME BEFORE POLICE ARRIVED, LEAVG THE TWO CHILDREN ALONE, ACRDG TO URT RERDS. JULMS LEFT HIS JUVENILE SON AT “A CLOSED POLICE PARTMENT WH NO ONE AROUND, FAILG OR OMTG TO PROVI THE VICTIM WH RE, SUPERVISN AND SERVIC NECSARY TO MATA PHYSIL OR MENTAL HEALTH WHILE ALSO FAILG TO MAKE A REASONABLE EFFORT TO PROTECT THE VICTIM OM ABE, NEGLECT OR EXPLOATN OF OTHERS,” THE AFFIDAV SAID. HE ALSO ALLEGEDLY NEGLECTED HIS TWO OTHER CHILDREN BY LEAVG THEM ALONE AT THEIR HOME WH NO ADULT SUPERVISN OR RE, URT RERDS ADD. JULMS HAS BEEN CHARGED WH THREE UNTS OF NEGLIGENT CHILD ABE WHOUT BODILY HARM AND TURNED HIMSELF , POLICE SAID, ADDG THAT HE IS STILL CTODY. GET MORE UPDAT ON THIS STORY OM .  BREAKING NEWS

Bailey and Zucker, who nducted a retrospective study which adults answered qutns about their past, revealed that 89 percent of randomly sampled gay men relled cross-sex-typed childhood behavrs exceedg the heterosexual median.

IS YOUR CHILD GAY?

The thors found that “those targets who, as adults, intified themselv as homosexual were judged to be genr nonnformg as children.

FATHER SHOT SON, 14, BEE HE THOUGHT HE WAS GAY, FORMER FOSTER MOM SAYS

There is also evince of a “dosage effect”: the more genr-nonnformg characteristics there are childhood, the more likely is that a homosexual or bisexual orientatn will be prent adulthood. Not all ltle boys who like to wear drs grow up to be gay, nor do all ltle girls who spise drs bee lbians.

I took to middle school wrtlg as a rather scrawny 80-pound eighth grar, and so dog, ironilly beme all too nsc of my homosexual orientatn. Cross-cultural data show that prehomosexual boys are more attracted to solary sports such as swimmg, cyclg and tennis than they are to rougher ntact sports such as football and soccer; they are also ls likely to be childhood bulli. Rearchers readily nce that there are que likely multiple—and no doubt extremely plited—velopmental rout to adult homosexualy.

Bee the data often reveal very early emergg tras prehomosexuals, children who show pronounced sex-atypil behavrs may have more of a geic loadg to their homosexualy, whereas gay adults who were sex-typil as children might trace their homosexualy more directly to particular childhood experienc.

COMG OUT: A PARENTS GUI TO SUPPORTG YOUR GAY TEEN

Why do parents worry so much about whether their child may or may not be gay? All else beg equal, I spect we would be hard-prsed to fd parents who would actually prefer their offsprg to be homosexual.

Evolutnarily, parental homophobia is a no-braer: gay sons and lbian dghters are not likely to reproduce (unls they get creative). Lang, Elton John and Rachel Maddow's close relativ, but I n only image that the straight k are far better off terms of their own reproductive opportuni than they would be whout a homosexual danglg so magnificently on their fay tre.

So cultivate your ltle prehomosexual's native talents, and your ultimate geic payoff uld, strangely enough, be even larger wh one very special gay child than would be if 10 medcre straight offsprg leaped om your los.