Pastor John Pavlovz recently ed a stir wh a blog post entled "If I Have Gay Children: Four Promis From a Christian Pastor/Parent," which he issued statements of support for his two children should they be homosexual.
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- FOR GAY MEN, HAVG A BLOGIL CHILD N BE PLITED
- PASTOR JOHN PAVLOVZ'S BLOG ENTRY 'IF I HAVE GAY CHILDREN, I'LL LOVE THEM' SPARKS DEBATE AMONG CHRISTIANS
- WHEN YOUR CHILD IS GAY
- PARENTS OF GAY CHILDREN AND THE ISSU THEY FACE
- MANY PARENTS STGGLE TO ADJT AFTER LEARNG CHILD IS GAY, STUDY FDS
- A PASTOR'S PROMIS TO HIS KIDS, GAY OR STRAIGHT
- IS YOUR CHILD GAY?
- FORMER CHARLOTTE PASTOR'S 'IF I HAVE GAY CHILDREN' BLOG GO VIRAL
- WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
- LGBTQ+ PARENTS FEAR THEIR CHILDREN WILL HAVE TO HI THEIR FAI AT SCHOOL UNR FLORIDA’S ‘DON’T SAY GAY’ BILL
FOR GAY MEN, HAVG A BLOGIL CHILD N BE PLITED
Stanford physicians have published the first study of gay men's experienc wh g assisted reproductive technology to have children. * if i have gay children *
But for gay men, this procs is plited and expensive.
PASTOR JOHN PAVLOVZ'S BLOG ENTRY 'IF I HAVE GAY CHILDREN, I'LL LOVE THEM' SPARKS DEBATE AMONG CHRISTIANS
* if i have gay children *
The procs tak about two years and sts around $200, 000 per child - and prospective gay fathers don't meet eligibily creria for most health surance plans' fertily benefs, although this is begng to change.
WHEN YOUR CHILD IS GAY
Parents of gay children may go through an adjtment perd when they fd out their child is gay, but there is support for parents of gay children. * if i have gay children *
Brent Monsr, MD, recently helped lead a study to document tails of how gay men e assisted reproductive technology to build their fai, cludg qutns such as how many children they wish to have and how often their efforts succeed.
As a gay person growg up a nservative environment, this was a challenge I thought about.
I asked them how I uld start a fay as a gay man. We don't take re of gay men...
PARENTS OF GAY CHILDREN AND THE ISSU THEY FACE
Many parents stggle for years to adjt after learng child is gay, acrdg to a new study om Gee Washgton Universy public health rearchers. * if i have gay children *
Your paper giv historil ntext for how shiftg attus toward LGBTQ fai have changed the climate for gay men who want to bee fathers. There has been a lot of foc the scientific lerature on whether children turn out OK if they have gay parents.
MANY PARENTS STGGLE TO ADJT AFTER LEARNG CHILD IS GAY, STUDY FDS
John Pavlovz talks about his 'If I have gay children' blog post that gaed ternatnal attentn * if i have gay children *
A gay uple New York State recently sued, sayg those creria are discrimatory.
A PASTOR'S PROMIS TO HIS KIDS, GAY OR STRAIGHT
Ten narrative studi volvg fay histori of 262 children of gay fathers and lbian mothers were evaluated statistilly rponse to Morrison's (2007) ncerns about Cameron's (2006) rearch that had volved three narrative studi. Dpe numero attempts to bias the rults favou … * if i have gay children *
Why is important for the experienc of gay men seekg fertily re to be reflected the scientific lerature? Cisgenr gay men are almost never clud this rearch, so as physicians we don't know anythg about their characteristics as reproductive health patients, even basic rmatn such as their mographics, clil cisn-makg patterns or out.
IS YOUR CHILD GAY?
Our paper ed data om one of the very few fertily benef pani that do offer fertily verage to gay men.
That gave a wdow to a natnal group of 119 cisgenr men, cludg five sgle men and 57 gay upl, who uniquely had fertily benefs.
It's important to keep md that our data reflect the experienc of dividuals who n afford reproductive medil re bee their employer-sponsored fertily benefs ver , and that is still an unual suatn for gay men. This data served as the foundatn for a grant applitn we've jt had approved to nduct a much larger populatn study that will give accs to rmatn on about 2, 000 embryo transfers annually gay men. A lot of people see a fertily doctor bee they have an unrlyg medil issue, whereas gay male upl ually have two possible sperm sourc, a young egg donor and a gtatnal rrier who has already had succsful pregnanci.
FORMER CHARLOTTE PASTOR'S 'IF I HAVE GAY CHILDREN' BLOG GO VIRAL
I thk that, bee of the medil factors, birth rat for gay upl uld serve as a morn standard for evaluatg the succs of IVF labs. We regnize that this may be bee a lot of gay men requt tws or may ultimately want two children, and fertily doctors may be transferrg two embryos to try to save their patients money so they only have to go through the fertily treatment procs once.
But we need to ask: Are we puttg gtatnal rriers at unnecsary risk om tw pregnanci, and puttg gay upl at unnecsary risk of havg babi the NICU? Before I was an OB/GYN, I thought, "This is a health accs issue, and if gay men want tws we should rpect their tonomy.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
What do add to have physician-scientists like you, who are gay, answerg rearch qutns about this populatn of prospective parents?
I'm currently a fellow, and I have patients g specifilly to see me, not bee I'm the most amazg doctor but bee I'm gay, and they want a gay doctor.
But providg support isn't always easy — pecially if you are the parent of a lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr or qutng (LGBTQ) child. Advote for a gay-straight alliance (GSA), which has been shown to make schools safer and boost amic performance among LGBTQ stunts.
LGBTQ+ PARENTS FEAR THEIR CHILDREN WILL HAVE TO HI THEIR FAI AT SCHOOL UNR FLORIDA’S ‘DON’T SAY GAY’ BILL
Team up wh a pediatrician, a unselor at school, close fay members and even muny anizatns — for example, Parents, Fai and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG) — if you’re havg trouble gog alone. Parents, Fai and Friends of Lbian and Gays (PFLAG). Pastor John Pavlovz | (Photo: Courty John Pavlovz)Pastor John Pavlovz recently ed a stir wh a blog post entled "If I Have Gay Children: Four Promis From a Christian Pastor/Parent, " which he issued statements of support for his two children should they be homosexual.
Pavlovz's four promis are the followg: "If I have gay children, you'll all know . If I have gay children, I'll pray for them, I'll love them, and if I have gay children, most likely; I have gay children.