Here's One Btal Tth Every Whe Gay Man Needs to Hear

Contents:

• HERE'S ONE BTAL TTH EVERY WHE GAY MAN NEEDS TO HEAR
• WHE GAY MEN ARE HRG OUR PROGRS AS A QUEER COMMUNY
• NO ASIANS, NO BLACK PEOPLE. WHY DO GAY PEOPLE TOLERATE BLATANT RACISM?
• VERY FEW PEOPLE SAY “NO WH”: GAY MEN OF COLOR AND THE RACIAL POLICS OF DIRE

HERE'S ONE BTAL TTH EVERY WHE GAY MAN NEEDS TO HEAR

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WHE GAY MEN ARE HRG OUR PROGRS AS A QUEER COMMUNY

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NO ASIANS, NO BLACK PEOPLE. WHY DO GAY PEOPLE TOLERATE BLATANT RACISM?

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VERY FEW PEOPLE SAY “NO WH”: GAY MEN OF COLOR AND THE RACIAL POLICS OF DIRE

”Sims said seemed obv to him that sexism, racism, transphobia, ableism, and homophobia e om the same place, and said that the far-right polics of the Tmp admistratn have ma tersectnaly all the more important. To do this, gay whe cisgenr men have to not only let their guard down and listen but also acknowledge the relative power they wield and e to elevate those lower down who have been historilly margalized.

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