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HOW LONG DO GAY PHAS LAST?
Sometim we're "jt sexual" and not specifilly Bisexual, Homosexual, or Heterosexual. Gay. There's nothg wrong wh sayg "I'm still tryg to work out, but I thk I'm on the gay si of bisexual" until you're sure.
So I'd give 11 years, and after that feel ee to ll yourself gay/bi. Therefore, if I took only the last year of my experience, I'd be gay, but if I took the last 5 years, I'd be bi. I thk that 's entirely up to you, and a lot of pends upon whether you want to clu your whole life (ie om puberty onwards) and every sgle attractn or csh you've ever had - which is what I do - to ci whether you're bi/straight/gay, or whether you want to only clu, say, the last so many years or your csh as an olr person (if, say, you want to dismiss earlier feelgs as beg a phase).
Only you n really know whether or not you are gay or bi or somewhere between, but give yourself time to figure out. If you're thkg of g out, now is as good a time as any, but may be easier for other people to unrstand if you say 'i'm gay or bi' rather than 'i'm not sure' bee then they'll be able to say 'oh, you'll grow out of , 's jt a phase'. person is gay, or they are not.