Emergg data suggts that as children, gay mal have an creased risk for physil and sexual abe. Anecdotal evince suggts that a signifint subset of children abed by clergy intify as gay as adults. However, we know very ltle about the impact of clergy-perpetrated sexual abe c …
Contents:
- THE V-SPOT: AM I GAY/QUEER BEE OF SEXUAL TRMA?
- THE IMPACT OF SEXUAL ABE ON SEXUAL INTY FORMATN GAY MEN
- AM I GAY BEE OF THE ABE?
- PREVALENCE OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABE AMONG LBIAN, GAY, AND BISEXUAL PEOPLE: A META-ANALYSIS
THE V-SPOT: AM I GAY/QUEER BEE OF SEXUAL TRMA?
* gay because of abuse *
Sadly, this is an extremely mon occurrence, as there is equently a nnectn between childhood sexual abe and adult homosexualy. Pl, there are plenty of gay men who were never abed and plenty of straight men who were abed as boys and never turned gay.
Not all gay men were molted as boys (sce there are multiple for homosexualy) and not all boys who are molted turn out gay (probably bee they were ls predisposed towards homosexualy).
THE IMPACT OF SEXUAL ABE ON SEXUAL INTY FORMATN GAY MEN
In orr to terme the prevalence of childhood sexual abe among gay, lbian, and bisexual dividuals, we nducted a meta-analysis that piled the rults of 65 articl across 9 untri. The rults revealed no signifint difference the prevalence of child sexual abe between homose … * gay because of abuse *
Still, nnot be nied that a disproportnately high number of gay men were abed as boys, and that certaly ntributed to their sexual and emotnal velopment.
Robert Epste, the pro-gay edor--chief of Psychology Today, noted that gay rears who were upset wh an ad that ran his publitn 2002 sent him letters assertg “that gays have a right to be or abive bee they themselv have been abed” (this obvly clud beg sexually abed).
As for the notn that people are born gay, not only would that suggt that fants n relate to the ncepts of sexual and romantic attractn (which they obvly nnot), but would also ignore the fact that our upbrgg and environment have profound effects on . Yet when to homosexualy, is taboo to nnect childhood sexual abe wh subsequent gay inty sce: 1) this would ntradict the “born gay” myth; and 2) would unrsre the fact that homosexual attractns are not natural and posive. As explaed ndidly by the lbian femist and amic Cale Paglia, “Every sgle gay person I know has some sort of drama gog on, back childhood.
AM I GAY BEE OF THE ABE?
In keepg wh this, all the profsnal unselors I have spoken wh (cludg traed pastors and psychologists or psychiatrists) have told me that the vast number of gays they have unseled were sexually abed as mors (some told me this was the se every stance they enuntered).
PREVALENCE OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABE AMONG LBIAN, GAY, AND BISEXUAL PEOPLE: A META-ANALYSIS
More disturbgly, gay circl, such relatnships are often looked at as posive and nurturg, sce, is surmised, the boy was already aware of his same-sex attractn and the olr man served as a mentor of sorts. If the parents and iends of gays are tly iends of gays, they would know om their gay kids that the relatnship wh an olr man is precisely what thirteen-, fourteen-, and fifteen-year-old kids need more than anythg else the world.
You n be assured that such relatnships would often bee sexual, thereby providg the entry pot to the larger homosexual “liftyle. In those s where children do have sex wh their homosexual elrs … I subm that often, very often, the child sir the activy, and perhaps even solics , eher bee of a natural cursy … or bee he or she is homosexual and nately knows .