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Contents:
- “GAY, CATHOLIC AND DOG FE”
- WHAT DO LOOK LIKE TO BE GAY – AND A PRACTICG CATHOLIC?
- WHAT SHOULD A GAY CATHOLIC DO?
- WHY CHOOSE CELIBACY? A GAY CATHOLIC SPEAKS OUT
- [TWO PRONGED] GAY, CATHOLIC, AND FEELG GUILTY
- CATHOLIC, GAY AND FEELG FE (ARTICLE)
- GAY, CATHOLIC, AND DOG FE
“GAY, CATHOLIC AND DOG FE”
More than 10 years ago, Joseph Prever found himself surg the ter for anythg that might help him: he was gay, Catholic, and nfed. Rourc were srce for a man stgglg wh homosexualy and tryg to rema fahful to the Church’s teachg. * catholic gay and feeling fine *
Steve Gershom ( a psdonym), is the man behd a blog tled “Gay, Catholic and Dog Fe”. More than 10 years ago, Joseph Prever found himself surg the ter for anythg that might help him: he was gay, Catholic, and nfed. Rourc were srce for a man stgglg wh homosexualy and tryg to rema fahful to the Church's teachg.
WHAT DO LOOK LIKE TO BE GAY – AND A PRACTICG CATHOLIC?
* catholic gay and feeling fine *
Google the words "gay Catholic" and one of the top s to appear will be Prever's own blog, a blog wh the tagle: "Catholic, Gay, and Feelg Fe. What follows is an eded versn of a nversatn about everythg om homosexualy and Batman to poetry and football.
The blog is about what 's like to be a gay Catholic – a gay Catholic who is of urse, celibate – and I say 'of urse' bee that seems to me like the only optn if you're gog to be both gay and Catholic. My iends and I joke that there's a gay Catholic renaissance on, or actually a gay Christian renaissance on, and we're proud to be at the foreont of – or at least we tell ourselv that we're at the foreont. It was hard the sense that I'd actually always said that people shouldn't be public about beg gay, bee was not anybody's bs and I felt that would lend legimacy to this ia that beg gay is a sort of a sgle way to intify yourself: I actually still sort of hold that posn – kd of.
It's hard to scribe: I don't thk that beg gay is as sential of a way to intify yourself as say, beg male is, or beg Catholic, or beg human. When people began to associate you wh this gay guy who wr a blog?
WHAT SHOULD A GAY CATHOLIC DO?
More than 10 years ago, Steve Gershom found himself surg the ter for anythg that might help him: he was gay, Catholic, and nfed. Rourc were srce for a man stgglg wh homosexualy and tryg to rema fahful to the Church's teachg. * catholic gay and feeling fine *
Your blog hear is, 'Catholic, Gay, and Feelg Fe, ' and you've been g the word 'gay' throughout our nversatn so far.
' I ed to joke that the only reason I ed the word 'gay' was so that I would tend to show up more on Google, which is only partially a joke, bee you know if you're gog to e the tools of technology to evangelize, then you have to be savvy about what Google is gog to fd and what isn't. But I gus the shift maly happened as I began to approach beg more public about , bee as I beme more public I also me to ntact more openly wh people who intified as gay or who stggled wh same-sex attractn, or whatever.
And what I found was that a lot of them had a lot of rentment towards people who sisted on not g the word gay.
WHY CHOOSE CELIBACY? A GAY CATHOLIC SPEAKS OUT
And fact, I rarely feel strongly about whether I should e the word gay or not, but the one time I do feel strongly about is when somebody starts upbraidg me for .
It's the sort of thg where people feel, and I thk rightly, that they have been nstraed to keep silent for most of their liv – and a lot of people have, whether 's nstraed by actual explic homophobia among the people that they love and/or are related to, or whether 's jt sort of a general culture unrstandg that you don't talk about this sort of thg. ' This is tratg and across as very patronizg bee the are people who don't have any sight to the experience of what is to be gay tellg you what is or is not ok to talk about, and what is and is not ok to ll yourself. Would you also apply that cricism to the Church who never the word 'gay' her documents?
[TWO PRONGED] GAY, CATHOLIC, AND FEELG GUILTY
This is reason that I haven't yet e to a solid opn on this qutn – bee the problem is that secular people and Christian people mean two different thgs by the word 'gay.
When I told my roommate I was gay, the first thg that he said to me was, 'do you mean same-sex attracted? Now I thk that one reason Christians tend to dislike the word 'gay' is bee if somebody says that they are gay, then they are ually implyg that is an unchangeable aspect of their personaly.
CATHOLIC, GAY AND FEELG FE (ARTICLE)
Whereas the sort of flt posn among a lot of Christians is that homosexualy is changeable.
The unspoken implitn is that if you intify yourself as 'gay, ' then you're probably not tryg hard enough to be straight.
And I believe that this why is so offensive to be told that they shouldn't e the word gay. What do you thk we should be dog as a Church, as a Christian muny, to be helpg people who stggle wh homosexualy? I'll start first by sayg that I'm extremely grateful for the anizatn People Can Change, which is an anizatn found precisely on the ia that radil change wh rpect to homosexualy is possible.
GAY, CATHOLIC, AND DOG FE
I'm grateful for them not bee they 'ma me straight' or somethg, but bee they gave me a space which to work out some of my issu, many of which turned out not to be related precisely to homosexualy particular, but were jt sort of emotnal issu that need alg wh.