Navy's first openly gay SEAL builds his life anew - Los Angel Tim

Contents:

• NAVY’S FIRST OPENLY GAY SEAL BUILDS HIS LIFE ANEW
• ACCINTAL 'I LOVE YOU' DERAILED GAY NAVY SEAL'S CAREER
• EXCLIVE: MY NAME IS BRETT JON, I AM A NAVY SEAL, AND I AM GAY
• BRETT JON: FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL SLAMS TMP’S BIGOTRY
• BRETT JON, FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL, TO SPEAK HUNTSVILLE
• PRI: THE STORY OF THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL – A BOOK REVIEW
• CIA HEAD INDIT SWIFT ACTN AFTER WARZONE GAY HARASSMENT CLAIMS
• MEET BRETT JON, A GAY NAVY SEAL
• TALKG WH BRETT JON, THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL
• HUFFPOST LIVE TALKS WH BRETT JON, THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL
• FATHER, HBAND AND FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL: 6 QUTNS WH ALABAMIAN BRETT JON
• GAY CIA CONTRACTOR, HARASSED WAR ZONE, SAYS ISSU 'ROLVED' WH SPY AGENCY
• GAY CIA CONTRACTOR CLAIMS DANGERO HARASSMENT WAR ZONE
• PRI: THE STORY OF THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL

NAVY’S FIRST OPENLY GAY SEAL BUILDS HIS LIFE ANEW

The two men are parents to Ethan, a prec 13-year-old known the flat, clay and pe untry as the only kid school wh two gay first openly gay SEAL has built a new life here at age 41 wh a fay that has replaced the two fai he lost — the one that raised him and the one he built wh fellow SEALs. Both his parents and the Navy banished him bee he’s this steamy night, the two gay parents and their straight son are sweatg and shovg as they fight to w a roughhoe driveway basketball game lled Cheater Ball.

They are close, and necsarily so, sce a gay marriage — not to mentn gay parentg — is viewed wh ep spicn and outright hostily perhaps the most anti-gay state the Jon and Whe attend Ethan’s baseball gam, they say, ach and other parents barely speak to them. When he was high school, his mother, a vout Christian, overheard his phone nversatn wh a gay next day, Jon says, his parents nonted him.

ACCINTAL 'I LOVE YOU' DERAILED GAY NAVY SEAL'S CAREER

He asked his son, “Brett, are you a homosexual?

“My mom told me homosexuals go straight to hell, ” Jon says.

EXCLIVE: MY NAME IS BRETT JON, I AM A NAVY SEAL, AND I AM GAY

He had served for six years and two ployments on mandg, secretive missns when his homosexualy was was the “don’t ask, don’t tell” era. He was terrogated by a ary lawyer who mand he nfs to beg gay. They gossiped about him, ridiculg gays and sayg a homosexual SEAL would stroy un Navy dropped s vtigatn after Jon enlisted a natnal group that advot for gays the ary, and after members of Congrs tervened.

Last December, they drove to Indiana to be married by a urt, 37, had lived his own secret, tormented life growg up Athens, where gays were ridiculed and monized.

BRETT JON: FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL SLAMS TMP’S BIGOTRY

His father cracked jok about homos and day Whe cid to e out, he says, “I told my dad and he stood up and I was bracg for a punch. ” His father apologized for all his gay slurs over the and his brother, Matt, helped nvce Jon to self-publish a memoir, “Pri: The Story of the First Openly Gay Navy SEAL, ” released October. ”Jon and Whe want to sell the hoe and move Ethan to a public school nearby Huntsville, which they ll “a progrsive island” a state so hostile to gay marriage that s chief Supreme Court jtice orred unti to disobey a feral urt orr Febary permtg gay fay feels fortable Huntsville, home to scientists and engeers om across the untry who work fense and aerospace.

“We have the only tornado shelter on the street, ” Whe, they don’t expect a gay pri para Toney anytime soon. “Of urse, every day I take a drive is a gay pri para, ’’ Whe clients of their secury pany don’t particularly re that ’s owned and managed by two gay men, Whe says. The two are a former SEAL and former p, after all, and Jon served for years as a secury ntractor Afghanistan and Iraq after leavg the, Jon is active the Trevor Project, which operat 24-hour suici hotl for troubled lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr young people.

He gets several msag a week om young gays, some the ary, who are battlg prsn and discrimatn.

BRETT JON, FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL, TO SPEAK HUNTSVILLE

A young, gay ary officer recently wrote him om Sgapore, where homosexualy is illegal. They never discs Christiany or “the gay thg, ” Jon Jon, who liv At, Texas, says she lov and admir her son for his honty and urage.

This was 2002, nearly a before the end of Don't Ask Don't Tell, and a time when servg openly any service as homosexual was forbidn. Jon said he had known he was gay sce he was 6-years-old and had jt cid to risk keepg the secret orr to serve wh one of the most ele ary forc the those three words jt about did him . ""Brett Jon served his untry honorably, " Navy spokperson Greg Raelson told ABC News rponse to a requt for ment for this ' SEAL team quickly found out, and though Jon said the special operatns world is "ultra-mascule" and apt to pat the gay muny a negative light, actually most of his teammat were supportive.

"RELATED: Gay NFL Prospect Michael Sam Gets Whe Hoe Shout-OutsJon eventually nnected wh SLDN, the associatn for actively servg LGBT ary personnel, who lled on the help of a Washgton, D. Brandon Webb, managg edor at and a former SEAL om the same Basic Unrwater Demoln/SEAL class as Jon, wrote on the webse that he had no ia Jon was gay at the time, but didn't matter. "And while policians and relig fanatics ma a fs about gays servg the ary, the men and women proudly served their untry silence, and earned the rpect of their peers until DADT was eventually repealed… I am proud to ll [Jon] my iend.

PRI: THE STORY OF THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL – A BOOK REVIEW

Gays Special Operatns existed long before the ceptn and eventual ath of Don’t-Ask-Don’t-Tell (DADT). And while policians and relig fanatics ma a fs about gays servg the ary, the men and women proudly served their untry silence, and earned the rpect of their peers until DADT was eventually repealed. I was a BUD/S 215 classmate of Brett Jon, had no ia he was gay at the time, and I am proud to ll him my iend.

CIA HEAD INDIT SWIFT ACTN AFTER WARZONE GAY HARASSMENT CLAIMS

My Name is Brett Jon, I Am A Navy SEAL, And I Am Gay. I had met Mike at a gay bar Virgia Beach the week prr.

The Navy had a Don’t-ask Don’t-tell policy (DADT), and I had met a number of people at gay bars the area who still had been dishonorably discharged for . Beg a Navy SEAL and gay proposed s own set of problems.

Fortunately for me, was not obv to people that I was gay. Beg gay is not a choice.

MEET BRETT JON, A GAY NAVY SEAL

It n be very difficult to accept who you are, pecially an environment that has a history of treatg LBGT (Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgenr) people negatively. It was bee of that support, om my brothers, that I uld proudly say, “My name is Brett Jon, I am a Navy SEAL, and I am gay. However, he hid for years that he was also gay and a long term relatnship.

Jon’ SEAL team found out, and even though at tim the special operatns world had negative views towards the gay muny his team was actually supportive. My gut today is Brett Jon, who was the first openly gay Navy SEAL. At tim seems like, well, we n't even see the top of that mounta, and then seemgly overnight, granted, wh a ton of work by mted advot and a ton of sacrifice by a lot of people, but what seems like overnight, there's a mental shift, and somethg that would've seemed unthkable to my parents' generatn, legalized gay marriage, my kids jt take for granted.

TALKG WH BRETT JON, THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL

" And that rulted Obergefell makg before the Supreme Court and makg legalized gay marriage the law of the land, not jt a state by state thg. And remds me of a very old YouTube vio of yours that we dug up where you're talkg about your feelgs after Obergefell, and you ma some ment about the se of the bakery that refed to serve a gay uple. You said, "I wonred if a gay uple me to J and asked him to make them a chair for their weddg, you know what J would do?

Our bras work that way, and 's easier to tegorize thgs and file them away as, "Oh, that's gay, " or, "Oh, that's far right, " or, "Oh, that's far left, " or whatever. And growg up a very relig environment as a gay person, man, 's hard.

Gay people, bad, " or whatever. " And when I e across people that rent me jt bee of me beg gay or whatever, my first thought is like, "Oh, man.

HUFFPOST LIVE TALKS WH BRETT JON, THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL

How do your lleagu feel about the fact that you're a gay ex-Navy SEAL? He is also gay, and has been his whole life.

Beg a gay Navy SEAL, morn society, is still a novel ncept, spe the recent stanc of others g out a highly public way. Pri: The Story of the First Openly Gay Navy SEAL (Dog Ear Publishg, 160 p., 2014) is Brett’s story of arrivg at that place. — -- The Director of the CIA today addrsed recent allegatns by a gay CIA ntractor who said he was harassed while on a dangero ployment by other CIA ntractors and staff officers, sayg his spy agency has “zero tolerance” for such behavr and ditg the agency is movg swiftly rponse.

FATHER, HBAND AND FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL: 6 QUTNS WH ALABAMIAN BRETT JON

”Brennan ma the ments rponse to ABC News' qutns about Brett Jon, a gay former Navy SEAL and 13-year CIA ntractor. In an exclive televisn terview late last month, Jon alleged that on his most recent ployment to Afghanistan this summer, he enuntered a disturbg pattern of harassment and wnsed blatant homophobic, racist and sexist behavr om his own teammat -- both ntractors and CIA officials.

Jon said he’s been ntact wh a CIA reprentative and is workg wh them on their vtigatn -- an vtigatn the CIA won't nfirm is Jon on one of dozens of ployments as a ntractor for the JonOverall, Brennan said today he’s “very, very proud of what the agency’s rerd has been on LGBT [the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr issu].

”“As someone who me at a time when dividuals were prevented om jog the agency for sexual preference, we, I thk, have been leadg some rpects of the last two s, ” Brennan said, cg the work done by the CIA’s ternal LGBT support anizatn, the Agency Network of Gay, Lbian, Bisexual, and Transgenr Employe (ANGLE). ”In his terview wh ABC News, Jon agreed and said that the CIA hired him back the early 2000s well aware that he was gay.

GAY CIA CONTRACTOR, HARASSED WAR ZONE, SAYS ISSU 'ROLVED' WH SPY AGENCY

A gay Navy SEAL has shared his story of secrecy and g out durg the era of "don't ask, don't tell. "Brett Jon reunts memori of beg a closeted special operatns member statned at the Naval Amphib Base Norfolk, Va., a first-person acunt posted to, a news source for ary the article, Jon shar a specific cint which a man named Mike, whom he met at a gay bar Virgia Beach, leav a voice mail askg him to go on a date.

"I had met a number of people at gay bars the area who still had been dishonorably discharged for , " he wr. "Beg a Navy SEAL and gay proposed s own set of problems.

"He reunts how he would have to ceive both his SEAL team and Mike orr to protect himself om expulsn unr the ary policy, which prohibed gay, lbian, and bisexual service members om beg open about their sexual orientatn until s repeal 2011. "Beg gay is not a choice, " Jon ntu. "It was bee of that support, om my brothers, that I uld proudly say, 'My name is Brett Jon, I am a Navy SEAL, and I am gay, '" he Brandon Webb, a fellow Navy SEAL and the edor chief of, not his troductn to Jon's acunt: "The people wh whom I've worked the Special Operatns muny are more ncerned wh an dividual's ntributn to the team, and their abily to do their job exceptnally well, than their race or sexual preferenc.

GAY CIA CONTRACTOR CLAIMS DANGERO HARASSMENT WAR ZONE

Brett Jon, the first openly gay Navy SEAL, was outed while servg when a voicemail to his boyiend, who was also a member of the Uned Stat ary, leaked.

PRI: THE STORY OF THE FIRST OPENLY GAY NAVY SEAL

"I've known that I've been gay sce I was probably about six years old, " Jon told HuffPost Live. "Jon prevly wrote a blog for HuffPost Gay Voic about his missn to ph for equaly Ameri's red stat. — -- Gay CIA ntractor Brett Jon said today that he and the spy agency have “rolved” their issu, four months after Jon went public wh a harrowg story of harassment durg a recent ployment that Jon said grew so bad he feared for his life.

“All the issu have been rolved to our mutual satisfactn, ” Jon told ABC News, apparently referrg to the rults of an Equal Employment Opportuny plat filed wh the Agency this summer, around the time ABC News aired an exclive televisn terview wh the veteran said today he uld not ment further on how the issu were rolved, but the former Navy SEAL prevly told ABC News that his goals clud fosterg a cultural shift the Agency’s paraary Global Rponse Staff (GRS), for which he worked, and assuranc om the CIA that steps were beg taken to ensure that no one else would be subjected to the kd of harassment he says he, who said he’s been ntractg wh the CIA for 13 years after nearly a the Navy, me out publicly last Febary on the special operatns news webse The CIA already knew he was gay, as did many the special operatns and ntractg muny, and Jon said that other than route, relatively smaller bsh he had wh homophobia downrange, the CIA and the men he worked wh had no problem wh his Jon, right of center, pos wh CIA GRS troops on a recent JonBut durg one recent ployment to Afghanistan this summer, everythg changed. His rad ll sign had been changed to “Gay Gay” and a sli meant to discs medil emergenci, said, “Esrts go to NEVERLAND RANCH and GRS go to GAYBAR medic.

”Brett Jon said this sli is supposed to rm operators what to do if they e unr JonSlis a pre-missn briefg were swched out for those filled wh vulgar racist, homophobic and sexual referenc, acrdg to Brett Jon.