31 year old male and recently i've been stgglg wh gay/bi thoughts please keep me prayer feels like I don't have anyone to really talk to about this
Contents:
- YOU ARE NOT GAY, 'S HOCD, FOR ALL YOU SUFFERERS.
- 'HOMOSEXUAL OCD': STRAIGHT MEN WHO SPECT THEY ARE GAY
- HOCD: IF YOU FEAR BEG GAY OR BI, YOU'RE NOT!
- HOCD; AM I GAY OR STRAIGHT?
- STGGLG WH GAY THOUGHTS
- YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
YOU ARE NOT GAY, 'S HOCD, FOR ALL YOU SUFFERERS.
* i have unwanted gay thoughts *
After i purchased thoughts me up, you are gay, e out of the closet also gay imag and such which i'm also part , the thoughts said to me you should buy aga to remove the gayns. Not buyg aga( y i also got ocd sometim when buyg thgs)After that was hard, my thoughts had basilly epic battl between the gay crap my head which i know a't real and the real thgs that i know i'm straight.
Today hocd started aga, thkg about i didn't repurchase and i mt be gay now bee i purchased onle had gay thoughts and imag after, so i mt be gay now.
'HOMOSEXUAL OCD': STRAIGHT MEN WHO SPECT THEY ARE GAY
Hi guy....20 year old male sufferg wh hocd(I hope) anyone else have unwanted urg to acted out a homosexual grabbg genals and etc.I've never had a sgle gay thought befor... * i have unwanted gay thoughts *
I don't really re about how people would treat me even as a straight person if you don't like me there's the door, but even if i really was gay i wouldn't give 2 shs about what people thk aswell. Another thg is that when your thoughts sayg your gay and you try to fight off bee ofurse you don't feel right wh , and you say NO IM HETERO, and also keep checkg and repeatg thought about the straight thgs you did the past etc, that's somethg you shouldn't do anymore, nfirmg that you're straight.
That means you are not gay, 's jt Hocd tryg to ntrol you domate you, make you secure while there's nothg to be aaid of, bee a't real. You wouldn't be aaid of beg gay self, but be more aaid of the fact how people for stance iends, fay, people at work would treat you the future.
You wouldn't have battl your head which your thoughts sayg you're gay and you keep nfirmg you are not when lookg at your straight past. Really gay people love those thoughts and accept them bee that's who they really are, they don't fear beg gay, they aren't anx, fearg or disgted.
HOCD: IF YOU FEAR BEG GAY OR BI, YOU'RE NOT!
As a straight person you want to fight off, you're digted, anx, feared and keep nfirmg yourself and lookg for ways to show yourself you aren't gay.
Simply by the fact that you would have felt emotnally and physilly attracted to men and fd perfectly normal and loved havg gay thoughts, imag and that you have read the above, uld be like me that you still have unwanted thoughts. 24, 2014— -- Steven Brodsky, a psychologist who specializ obssive-pulsive disorr, says that at any one time he has a "handful" of clients who are straight and spect that they are gay. J., said he had one adult patient who was so crippled by obssive thoughts about beg gay that he was unable to live penntly and had to move back wh his parents to pe.
Brodsky said a prev therapist had misdiagnosed his patient as gay, and at the patient's requt, sent him off to reparative therapy, a ntroversial method that has not been proven to be effective and n be harmful.
HOCD; AM I GAY OR STRAIGHT?
"Brodsky argu that today's open acceptance of homosexualy and gay liftyl n bld therapists to this kd of anxiety disorr straight men. Jack Drcher, a noted New York Cy psychiatrist who is nsired an expert gay and lbian mental health and treats patients for OCD, agreed that "beg worried that one might be gay is not the same thg as beg gay. ""A person wh OCD who has is havg tsive thoughts about whether or not he is gay, is not gay, the sense that he has not rporated a homosexual orientatn any mimally affirmg way to his inty, " said Drcher.
"Also, if he is not actually attracted to people of the same sex, do not masturbate to fantasi of people of the same sex, is not really aroed by same sex pornography, then is hard to make the se that he has a homosexual orientatn. Another was heterosexual and feared he had agreed wh Brodsky that some therapists may miss an OCD diagnosis, but "the most likely e of that is not that they are too gay-affirmg but that they lack trag regnizg the symptoms of OCD. "Repeatedly, anxly, reviewg past suatns, ttg themselv, askg for reassurance, pulsively rearchg the Inter for gay tts, ttg themselv wh gay porn or gay people.
STGGLG WH GAY THOUGHTS
"As for treatment, Brodsky said he would help a patient who was tly gay validate their feelgs and atta self-acceptance, "achievg lm and peace of md. But there is a the DIFFERENCE between HOCD and people who are TRULY GAY or BI:Contrary to people who suffer om HOCD, "tly gay or bi" people aren't AFRAID of , don't have INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS about , agonize over for hours and hours, get prsed about , or feel like "they're losg their md".
This is, people who are TRULY GAY or BI are more worried about OTHER PEOPLE'S REACTIONS to , e they LIKE , WANT , and FANTASIZE about , and fear beg REJECTED or CRITICIZED by others. It is part of "who they are" and somethg they realizatn was nfirmed when readg people's posts about beg gay or bisexual.
I qutned for awhile before I stopped nyg , and do sometim feel like torture before you accept that beg gay is alright. Usually by the time someone is an adult at the latt, they realize that they are much more to the same genr sexually if they are gay. They ually try to thk of possibili that the attractns aren't really te, or maybe they are jt a HOCD, ually the thoughts e after much time of beg heterosexual, and beg to qutn what would be like if they were gay, then the OCD someone is gay, they ually will never have had sexual attractn to the oppose sex.
YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
For me, I thought for awhile that I simply uld have been asexual, simply bee I never was attracted to women, but I didn't really fd all that many men attractive and f a lot of stereotyp to nclu that I was gay. My feelgs about beg wh the same sex were actually "the plete oppose" (ma me sick) and somethg "I didn't want", and that's why bothered me so what I was tryg to say is that if someone is "tly gay" then they will "enjoy the thoughts" and "want a relatnship wh the same sex", but will fear the "nsequenc" of those feelgs such as rejectn om others..
I've been aaid of beg gay sce I was a teenager, but started wh ments om iends and fay that ma me feel like they were "accg me of beg gay. How do you know if those thoughts your head that you nnot tell anyone about mean that you really are gay or has somethg happened to your mental health? If you have thoughts that make you doubt your long-standg sexual preferenc, and the thoughts go agast your te sexual inty, and you have no genue sire to start a same-sex relatnship, You uld have a form of Obssive-pulsive disorr lled Homosexual you have arrived on this page, you have no doubt been googlg your thoughts as somewhere ep down, you know that your sexualy has not changed, but you do not unrstand the thoughts your is not an article about g out.