What to Do When Your Child Says: "I'm Gay" | Psychology Today

Contents:

• EXPLAG IT TO YOUR KIDS: WHAT DO 'BEG GAY' MEAN?
• HERE'S A GREAT WAY TO EXPLA WHAT IT MEANS TO BE GAY TO KIDS
• HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?
• MY CATHOLIC KID IS GAY! NOW WHAT??
• HOW TO EXPLA GAYS TO YOUR CHILD
• HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS
• WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"

EXPLAG IT TO YOUR KIDS: WHAT DO 'BEG GAY' MEAN?

As I relayed When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need To Know (Sterlg, 2016), I found out that my son was gay om a note wh our son's name entwed wh another boy's, surround by a heart. I had spected at tim that he was gay. Had I asked him if he were gay when he was 13, he probably would have fensively said "No!

San Berland, the mother of a gay son who ach parents of LGBTQ kids, utn, "It's not a good ia to ask.

Acrdg to my -thor, psychiatrist Jonathan Tobk, "Gay children feel credibly vulnerable when g out to their parents, and tak time to work up the urage to do this.

HERE'S A GREAT WAY TO EXPLA WHAT IT MEANS TO BE GAY TO KIDS

Mol acceptance by not g gay slurs and never tellg gay jok. Watch gay-themed shows together such as "The Fosters" and "Will and Grace.

HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?

" How do they pict gay people?

React kdly to gay people the news or on televisn. In a way, you have an advantage by not knowg; giv you more time to prepare for the day (if ever) when he do reveal he's gay.

"Mommy, what do ‘beg gay' mean? Therefore, I mt say that I would probably fer - or at least do everythg I uld to fer - a discsn of homosexualy and gay behavr wh a child 10 years old and unr.

MY CATHOLIC KID IS GAY! NOW WHAT??

Even more, homosexual knowledge entails unrstandg thgs I would hope to put off young children as long as possible. But I also regnize that younger and younger children are beg exposed to homosexual persons, them, and issu and are naturally nfed and cur about .

HOW TO EXPLA GAYS TO YOUR CHILD

Whether om school, by social and public teractns, or through televisn and movi, homosexualy is beg thst upon and is challengg a heterosexual world.

HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS

Any munitns wh children this age, seekg to unrstand homosexualy, should rpect the le of 'the ls said the better. Followg is an overview of the biblil, scientific, and clil knowledge we have about homosexualy.

You will want to know if and how homosexualy was fed to the child, and whether or not was prented a posive or negative light.

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"

Qutn your child matter-of-factly about how the qutn arose, and what the child unrstands, if anythg, about homosexualy. Clarify what ‘beg gay' means.

At s root, homosexualy means the ‘same sex' or ‘like sexualy.