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• AGBR/ASKGAYBROSJOPOSTSWIKIWELE TO /R/ASKGAYBROS, WHERE A BUNCH OF MANLY (ACTUALLY MOST OF ARE PRETTY FEM) MEN ANSWER YOUR QUTNS!QUICK LKSWELE TO /R/ASKGAYBROS, WHERE A BUNCH OF MANLY (ACTUALLY MOST OF ARE PRETTY FEM) MEN ANSWER YOUR QUTNS!
• STRAIGHT MEN ARE ASKG GAY MEN THE QUTNS THEY’RE TOO AAID TO ASK, AND THE RPONS ARE HONT AND JUDGEMENT FREE
• MEET THE GAYBROS
• DAD ACCINTALLY DISVERS HIS TEENAGE SON IS GAY, CONSULTS REDD ON HOW TO RPOND
• R/ASKGAYBROS
• AM I GAY?
• R/ASKGAYBROSOVER30

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It’s absolutely no secret that many, many ways, gay men and straight men live pletely different worlds. While gay men grow up and live a primarily heteronormative world that giv them a firm unrstandg of what life is like for straight men, the oppose tends to be the se for straight men — who eher might not know any gay men, or if they do, know better than to ask qutns that uld e across as dumb and/or vasive. Naturally, this leads them to have lots of qutns about gay culture.

NBCAnd several months go, Redd er handsome_jack123 cid he wanted to answer some qutns straight men might have — judgement ee — askg: "Straight men of Redd, what are qutns you’ve always had for gay men, but been too aaid to ask? " NetflixWell, needls to say, the thread received LOTS of qutns that handsome_jack123 and other gay Redd members did their bt to answer (and y, I realize the answers don't/ won't apply to every gay man).

STRAIGHT MEN ARE ASKG GAY MEN THE QUTNS THEY’RE TOO AAID TO ASK, AND THE RPONS ARE HONT AND JUDGEMENT FREE

"Are there any stggl or hurdl a gay relatnship that you thk people a hetero relatnship are unlikely to experience? "How do you feel about straight men/women plac like gay bars, drag shows, etc.?

There are some gay men who refe to have any anal sex at all. So this stereotype is based on back the '70s and early '80s when lbians and gays didn’t support each other like they should and would sult each other equently. Durg the AIDS panmic, when gay men were droppg like fli, was lbians who stepped up and started prottg and gog and stg wh the sick and dyg, bee even nurs didn’t want to touch them, and their fai had disowned them long ago.

MEET THE GAYBROS

"How sred is the gay populatn of HIV/AIDS still? I didn’t know what AIDS was until 1999, and I didn’t unrstand the nnectn to beg gay until maybe middle school (so around 2005 or so). "Is problematic or bothersome to you that straight women seem to love the 'gay stereotype' of a man?

DAD ACCINTALLY DISVERS HIS TEENAGE SON IS GAY, CONSULTS REDD ON HOW TO RPOND

But I wonr if gay men who spent their formative years an environment where beg iends wh girls was the only safe optn are more likely to exprs feme quali? '"—Thr0waway0864213579"I was raised by a sgle mother, surround by four other olr sisters, no male fluence, and female bt iends, and I me out very mascule as a gay guy. I somewhat blame mercial media g a stereotype that young gay guys grow up believg 'this is what beg a gay guy means.

' And some straight women tend to lose over a man who is 'manly enough' to be iends wh a gay du.

R/ASKGAYBROS

"—handsome_jack123"Another gay guy here. For gay people, that’s totally normal.

It mak sense bee we’re bound together by society’s rejectn of our datg and sexual practic, so our muny spac strive to facilate the eedom to fully experience those means that you n pick pretty much any hobby and fd a 'gay (your hobby) group. ' Wanna go hike wh gay people?

Wanna kn wh gay people? Want to talk about your rare geic disease wh other gay people wh your diagnosis? There’s a group for implic almost all 'gay' spac is the unrstandg that flirtatn is normal and that you may fd yourself surround by potential partners wh shared terts.

AM I GAY?

"Hetero male teenagers are the absolute worst when to treatment of young gay men, who are already havg trouble acceptg who they are. Based on your experienc, what is somethg you remend I n do as an adult male figure that’ll protect that young gay man and help them accept them for who they are and be proud of ? One thg that helps wh people who are unfortable around gay people is to remd them that you don't have to 'get ' to still be able to treat a person wh kdns and rpect, bee everyone serv that.

"—appllululu"I didn't even know I was gay when I was 13 or 14, but at that pot my life, if I had somebody I uld reliably talk to about my problems that wasn't my parents, I thk I would have loved said, don't feel like you have to say too much or give the 'right answer' for every suatn. If a young gay person is g to you for help, try your bt to dite that you're prent and listeng, and that you re. "What gay stereotyp do you spise?

" Netflix—ThoolishThker"That all gays thk alike, have the same polil views, or are all feme. There really aren’t a lot of good gay stereotyp. "—handsome_jack123"That gays are eher mascule or feme.

R/ASKGAYBROSOVER30

"–mw407"Most gay men don't want to sleep wh each other, and most of have a type. Like you might well be bisexual or gay.

If the only gay timacy I ever had was a group like this, or what you experienced, I uld fortably say I was pretty straight. Whout some sort of bond gay sex, or any sex, n be pretty mechanil. He als mostly wh issu the gay muny.

Gay.