There's More Than One Way for Gay Men to Have Sex | GQ

Contents:

• I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?
• THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
• 5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX
• RAW EMOTN: THOUGHTS ON WHY GAY MEN BAREBACK
• GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?

I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?

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If someone got the ia mt suck to be gay om people who have bias agast gay people who say do, that's not sound.

THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX

But if when you talk about beg gay beg somethg "worth nsirg, " you mean you thk 's somethg you need to nsir jt bee you're terted anal sex, or jt bee you thk you're supposed to, then know you certaly don't have to. Unls that chang for you, or you fd that while you n be attracted to girls, but are ually, if not almost always, attracted to men, homosexualy, as 's ually fed, is probably not where you're at. When someone is homosexual (gay or lbian), that ually means they are only or mostly attracted to people of the same or siar sex or genr as theirs.

I like gay male porn, but gay men real life eak me out.

5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX

Lucky for gay/bi men, there are que a number of who know exactly how that feels. It seems like every gay guy out there is a bottom, and when you thk you've met someone who's fely a He too is a bottom.

RAW EMOTN: THOUGHTS ON WHY GAY MEN BAREBACK

About 80% of people intified as gay/homosexual. It’s what Wtern culture would have you believe, too; ass-play has long been associated wh gayns, and wh good reason.

Datg back to the ancient Greece, anal sex played a role the exprsn of same-sex sexualy (albe, wh fewer varieti of lube) art of anal sex is the thg that, both posively and negatively, has e to reprent gay men. In other words: There’s more than one way for gays to ’s not all about basMeghan Traor was wrong; ’s not all about that base.

That’s bee the ncept of first, send, and third base don’t really apply to gay men bee our endgame is different.

GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?

Rather, gay sex is more like firg up your PlayStatn and playg Fallout 4. For the non-gaymers the hoe, I’m tryg to say that gay sex is an open world. Of urse, culturally and historilly, gay men have been narrowed down where the act of sex self f .

Instead, I’m attemptg to myth-bt prumptns about gay sex.

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