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Contents:
- HOW CAN CHRISTIAN PARENTS RPOND TO THEIR GAY CHILD?
- HOW SHOULD CHRISTIAN PARENTS RPOND IF ONE OF THEIR CHILDREN OUT AS GAY?
- HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS
- A CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE ON PARENTG A GAY CHILD
- “MOM, DAD… I’M GAY.” A CHRISTIAN PARENT’S RPONSE
- RPONDG LOVE TO AN ADULT GAY CHILD
- SHOULD CHRISTIANS “DISOWN” GAY SONS AND DGHTERS?
- RPONDG TO A “GAY CHRISTIAN” THE FAY
HOW CAN CHRISTIAN PARENTS RPOND TO THEIR GAY CHILD?
The Bible is not silent on parentg, and that clus when a child out as gay or lbian. Learn how to bt handle this hot topic God's way. * christian parents dealing with gay children *
A Hot Topic Requirg Patience and LoveOf all of the trendg topics seen the media today, none is more emotnally charged or ntroversial than the topic of homosexualy or same-sex attractn.
Christians are havg a difficult time articulatg a posn that is both biblilly fahful and grac/lovg to those wh a homosexual part of this discsn has to do wh should Christian parents do if their son or dghter “ out” and clar themselv to be gay? How n Christian parents rpond to their gay child? Thankfully, Christians have a rich text that giv the words and heart of the Creator of the me give three practil prcipl that n help Christian parents rpond to their gay child.
HOW SHOULD CHRISTIAN PARENTS RPOND IF ONE OF THEIR CHILDREN OUT AS GAY?
How should Christian parents rpond if one of their children out as gay? How n Christian parents show love towards a homosexual son or dghter? * christian parents dealing with gay children *
Reject Gay Therapy as an End GoalOver the past or longer, this seems to have been the prevalent Christian parental rponse for havg a gay child.
The goal of “gay therapy” is to reorient the sexual orientatn om homosexual feelgs to heterosexual feelgs. Parents should not have the goal of nvertg their child om homosexualy to heterosexualy.
HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS
* christian parents dealing with gay children *
Parents of gay children mt pot their child here everyday! We also need to extend grace to those children who have been abandoned or abed by their parents or fay who have mishandled the 1:16 – For om his fullns we have all received, grace upon is how parents should rpond to their gay child; grace upon grace. If a child reveals his or her homosexualy, the first thg for Christian parents to do is let their child know that, no matter what, love and grace will w the day.
Parents should also enurage a child who has “e out” not to fe himself as a “homosexual. Parents n e alongsi a stgglg child and help him see that he is not “gay” simply bee he has homosexual thoughts.
Rather, he is stgglg wh homosexual sir or same-sex attractn.
A CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE ON PARENTG A GAY CHILD
For a now, Christian parents have been askg my wife and me for help parentg their gay kids. As a Christian dad of a gay son, I wish there had been someone to talk me through the issu raised by my son’s disclosure of his sexualy. But the evangelil church has until very recently said very ltle about homosexualy, except that is a s and that those who * christian parents dealing with gay children *
The difference between stgglg wh homosexualy and intifyg onelf as gay may seem subtle, but is a huge distctn, and here’s why.
“MOM, DAD… I’M GAY.” A CHRISTIAN PARENT’S RPONSE
God never created to be homosexual. Christians may stggle wh same-sex attractn, but that do not make them homosexuals. Y, homosexualy is sful, but not to a level above that of heterosexual lt or lyg or pri.
And the Bible says that homosexualy is unter to God’s tend purpose for human begs. If a child says, “I am homosexual.
RPONDG LOVE TO AN ADULT GAY CHILD
How should Christian parents rpond if one of their children out as gay? When a child first out to their parents as eher beg gay or havg same-sex attractn, their ial rpons are ually the wrong on, says Chris Doyle, a psychotherapist who specializ York Cy gay pri para crowd this undated photo. "Sce homosexualy is beg more wily accepted Amerin society, an creasg number of teens who experience SSA are intifyg as gay.
They believe that if you experience same-sex attractns, then you're gay, " Doyle told the negative rpons parents have, acrdg to Doyle, are avoidg the issue by barrg their child om talkg about SSA or their gay inty; believg that 's a passg phase; or threateng to kick their olr teen or 20-somethg child out of the hoe. He also emphasized that parents nnot talk their child out of beg gay or havg SSA.
"We know, our clil rearch over the last 25 years, that fay culture, environment and other non-blogil factors play a signifint role the velopment of same-sex attractn, " he asserted, addg that parents shouldn't seek therapy as an attempt to change their the book, Gay Children, Straight Parents: A Plan for Fay Healg, wrten by Richard Cohen, executive director of IHF, Doyle said 12 prcipl are discsed to help fai navigate through SSA and s .
SHOULD CHRISTIANS “DISOWN” GAY SONS AND DGHTERS?
"Regardg sleepovers and big life events such as parents' attendg a child's same-sex weddg ceremony, Doyle suggted that parents treat their homosexual child the same as they would their heterosexual the se of sleepovers, parents should mata the same standards for every child and not allow their gay intified or SSA child to have somone they're attracted to spend the night wh them. "The same l should apply to heterosexual upl and homosexual upl, " he when down to attendg a child's gay weddg ceremony, Doyle suggted that attendg the ceremony don't necsarily reflect that the parents agree wh same-sex marriage, their prence merely shows their love for their child. Your child is gay.
RPONDG TO A “GAY CHRISTIAN” THE FAY
But for many Christian parents, nothg n prepare them to hear that their beloved child is gay.