Boys Gone Wild - Gay Men Who Want to Get Hazed - Nymag

Contents:

• LARRY HAWORTH'S LIST: GAY PORN TUBE
• I WAS A GAY AT BOY. THE “HORRIFIC CINT” AT BUCKNELL UNIVERSY’S FRAN’S HOE WAS NOT AN ANTI-LGBT ATTACK
• THE SECRET GAY HISTORY OF AN AMERIN FRATERNY
• THE 'GAY' SI OF HAZG
• GAY AND GREEK: THE EXPERIENCE OF BEG GAY AND A ATERNY
• KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY
• THUNR WAIVE RUDY GAY, VETERAN BE FREE AGENT
• IS RUDY GAY A GOOD F?

LARRY HAWORTH'S LIST: GAY PORN TUBE

Gay Erotic Stori. Wh theater doors bolted shut for the next…foreeable future, we’re thrilled to see some Broadway talent pop up the pilot episo of Boy•Friends, a new edy based off the My Gay Boyiend web-seri. The show centers around two llege roommat, one gay and one straight, and their “journey through llege and to adulthood to bee the homo-hetero power uple of the ag.

The Syrace Universy chapter of Theta T was spend this week after the school’s newspaper, the Daily Orange, published shockg vios of at boys makg racist, homophobic, anti-semic oaths and engagg tly plorable behavr. Related: Rich Frat Boy Says He’s The Real Victim In Antigay Tira Agast Uber Driver, Plans To File Lawsu Agast The “Mimum Wage F*ggot”. The vios also clu simulatns of oral sex, masturbatn, glory hol, and dg e, and crackg homophobic jok: “Get together and [talk] about their signifint others while drkg different w and talkg gay girly accents!

Related: Frat Boy Dish On What It’s Like To Be Gay And Greek. That the ps would act so blasé towards a mardg group of homophobic thugs was gallg. That distctn matters, bee I do not want LGBT stunts feelg any ls safe than they need to my llege years the mid-00s, I straddled two worlds I lled “gay world” and “Greek world.

I WAS A GAY AT BOY. THE “HORRIFIC CINT” AT BUCKNELL UNIVERSY’S FRAN’S HOE WAS NOT AN ANTI-LGBT ATTACK

I mpaigned agast the Kentucky amendment banng gay marriage that year, and 2006 helped anize a prott when the Universy of the Cumberlands expelled a stunt for beg gay.

This might be a faiar scene at Ole Miss or UVA, but ’s somewhat exotic a Manhattan gay bar. Guys baseball ps aren’t exactly new to the gay scene, of urse. Whether ’s the rult of five years of livg unr the manly Gee Bh atocracy, or jt Abercrombie & Fch, gay “at” parti have also spng up Chigo and L.

“A lot of gay boys were all about hidg llege, ” says Marlon Gobel, one of the party’s “pledge masters.

THE SECRET GAY HISTORY OF AN AMERIN FRATERNY

This is not a gay g of age story.

THE 'GAY' SI OF HAZG

No, this is a story about thgs I saw and heard and experienced, but don’t end wh me steppg bravely forward and proudly clarg my homosexualy to the world and fdg my place .

Some of the iends did turn out to be gay, though I had no ia at the time, as they, I thk, had srcely any ia about me. Afterward, my broad-shoulred stoner iend sually told Jason that “What we did was okay, bee I heard you have to do three tim wh a guy to make you gay.

In the aterny which I belonged, a small subset of iends began referrg to the annual fall visatn of alumni as “Homog Weekend. ) he was homosexual.

GAY AND GREEK: THE EXPERIENCE OF BEG GAY AND A ATERNY

By the time I graduated 1987, I had been through a few Homog Weekends and taken the long walk wh several of my olr aterny brothers, who would awkwardly nfs to beg gay.

I was too uptight about my own sexualy and this sort of thg h entirely too close to home (homo? But he left no doubt that he was totally gay, and ma me unfortable when he looked to my ey wh that perceptive visn of his.

“But the guy’s a homosexual, and there are guys who say they’re gog blackball him to prevent him om gettg a bid, ” I was told. And after all, if I took a strong posn on the matter, someone might assume I was gay, and I was not gog to let that happen!

KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY

Marc was about as openly gay as one uld safely be Lock Haven, Pennsylvania the early 1980s. Much later Marc would fd out I was gay too, spe my self-protective measur, and he would be very supportive, god bls him. But 1984 I was not ready to be tthful about my sexualy wh anyone, even other gay people.

If we we’re gog to blackball a gay guy jt bee he’s gay, then we’re not really about diversy at all, are we? Stori of the “gay murr” Lock Haven, Pennsylvania appeared everywhere, and were read by lns the big cy newspapers Philalphia and Ptsburgh.

Well, I don’t want to overstate , but ’s clear that Mike – like most gay people – had been eply and adversely effected by the closet s and homophob that surround him. The same year I belatedly disvered that soon after Mike Hoeknecht was found ad on mp, a gay and lbian support group was formed at LHU. It stands to reason, however, that such a high-profile tragedy would galvanize the gay muny and lead to the formatn of such a group.

THUNR WAIVE RUDY GAY, VETERAN BE FREE AGENT

In 1992, when I found out about LHU’s gay and lbian group, I told myself that if such a group were loted near my home New Jersey, I would jo right away.

IS RUDY GAY A GOOD F?

It was lled the Gay Activists Alliance Morris County, NJ (GAAMC). The day after I heard about the Mike Hoeknecht-spired gay support group at LHU, I joed GAAMC.

In the mid-1990s, the aterny elected s first openly gay print. The guys that elected their first openly gay print would have had no ia about the experienc of Mike Hoeknecht four or five years before that.

And the guys the aterny today would probably be surprised to hear that they were once prid over by one of only two openly gay men on mp at that time. What isn't beg talked about much is the elephant the room, the issue that most people are thkg about when they hear about stori of what sports teams are dog to one another ually at night behd those closed doors: Both latent homosexualy and homophobia are playg a huge role the hazg abe our kids are experiencg, and our societal standards that dictate what a "real man" is are to blame. Whether 's sodomizg them or makg them wear women's panti, the notn of forcg younger players to subm to team veterans right out of the handbook of anti-gay stereotyp.