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More than 10 years ago, Joseph Prever found himself surg the ter for anythg that might help him: he was gay, Catholic, and nfed. Rourc were srce for a man stgglg wh homosexualy and tryg to rema fahful to the Church’s teachg.

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WHAT DO LOOK LIKE TO BE GAY – AND A PRACTICG CATHOLIC?

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It was hard the sense that I'd actually always said that people shouldn't be public about beg gay, bee was not anybody's bs and I felt that would lend legimacy to this ia that beg gay is a sort of a sgle way to intify yourself: I actually still sort of hold that posn – kd of.

WHAT SHOULD A GAY CATHOLIC DO?

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' I ed to joke that the only reason I ed the word 'gay' was so that I would tend to show up more on Google, which is only partially a joke, bee you know if you're gog to e the tools of technology to evangelize, then you have to be savvy about what Google is gog to fd and what isn't.

But I gus the shift maly happened as I began to approach beg more public about , bee as I beme more public I also me to ntact more openly wh people who intified as gay or who stggled wh same-sex attractn, or whatever.

[TWO PRONGED] GAY, CATHOLIC, AND FEELG GUILTY

More than 10 years ago, Steve Gershom found himself surg the ter for anythg that might help him: he was gay, Catholic, and nfed. Rourc were srce for a man stgglg wh homosexualy and tryg to rema fahful to the Church's teachg. * gay catholic and feeling fine *

It's the sort of thg where people feel, and I thk rightly, that they have been nstraed to keep silent for most of their liv – and a lot of people have, whether 's nstraed by actual explic homophobia among the people that they love and/or are related to, or whether 's jt sort of a general culture unrstandg that you don't talk about this sort of thg. ' This is tratg and across as very patronizg bee the are people who don't have any sight to the experience of what is to be gay tellg you what is or is not ok to talk about, and what is and is not ok to ll yourself.

I'm grateful for them not bee they 'ma me straight' or somethg, but bee they gave me a space which to work out some of my issu, many of which turned out not to be related precisely to homosexualy particular, but were jt sort of emotnal issu that need alg wh. But on the other hand, this is dangero bee you have a lot of Christian people already assumg om the get-go that if somebody is homosexual, then they mt have var and many emotnal issu that need workg on, and that's not necsarily the se. If the unrstandg the Christian world is that homosexualy is a "disorr, " and homosexual activy is a s, then logilly would seem like as Christians, we would want to help our fellow Christians who are "dis-orred" to be "orred.

MY CATHOLIC KID IS GAY! NOW WHAT??

C., that would pull out of social servic the cy rather than acce to a bill that would afford benefs to same-sex spo, a qutn, too long neglected, aris for the whole church: What is a gay Catholic supposed to do life?

WHY CHOOSE CELIBACY? A GAY CATHOLIC SPEAKS OUT

A gay layman I know who serv an important role a dce (and even wr some of his bishop's statements on social jtice) has a solid theologil tn and sir to serve the church, but fds impossible to be open the face of the bishop's repeated disparagg remarks about gays. Religns and homosexualy have been uneasy bedfellows for lennia, but followg the relatively recent liberalizatn of attus towards homosexualy many untri, a number of religns have eher accepted gay marriage or at least are willg to bls gay partnerships.

LIVG S? HOW GAY CATHOLICS MANAGE THEIR CONFLICTG SEXUAL AND RELIG INTI

At prent seems as though attus towards homosexualy among major religns fall to three mps: Baptists, Catholics, Evangelils, Mormons, Mlims, and Orthodox Jews fd patible wh the Bible; Epispalians, Reform and Conservative Jews, Lutherans, and Prbyterians accept gay marriage or bls gay unns; Buddhists and Hd have no official view; while Methodists are divid (and there are many other religns wh differg stanc). This document mak fascatg readg as lambasts “facile theologil argument” to jtify homosexual acts (paragraph 11) and supports a posn where “homosexual persons…are lled to enact the will of God their life by jog whatever suffergs and difficulti they experience virtue of their ndn to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross (paragraph 12).

If you and your nscience are nvced that your god do not nmn homosexual acts, you n pos the view that the Catholic Church will eventually e round to your unrstandg, though let hope for the sake of all gay men and women that don’t take more than three centuri to do so. Rourc were srce for a man stgglg wh homosexualy and tryg to rema fahful to the Church’s the terveng years, Catholics experiencg same-sex attractn have bee a more vol prence the the words “gay Catholic” and one of the top s to appear will be Gershom’s own blog, a blog wh the tagle: “Catholic, Gay, and Feelg Fe.

GAY, CATHOLIC, AND DOG FE

” There, the 30-somethg wrer nsirs his own experienc as a man stgglg wh same-sex attractn and tryg to live out the virtue of follows is an eded versn of a nversatn about everythg om homosexualy and Batman to poetry and football.

I thk ’s immoral, for one reason, bee is trsilly closed to life and thereby distorts what the sexual act is meant to gets tricky is where we talk about the emotnal realy of homosexualy, bee some people ask me, ‘well, that’s fe if you thk that gay sex is wrong, but what about gay romance? And the specific problem of silence is that if you grow up Catholic and gay, or at least if you did a few years ago when I was growg up, or before that, then the overwhelmg imprsn you get is not so much that you’re bad or evil, but ’s that you’re absolutely not allowed to talk about this.

They should start by tellg somebody about , preferably a prit who is willg to talk wh them and help you thk pastors and others should do a better job of beg aware of what people are gog through regards to homosexualy?

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