There's More Than One Way for Gay Men to Have Sex | GQ

Contents:

• THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
• PENIS SIZE AND PREFERRED SEXUAL ROL AMONG GAY MEN
• THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON

THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX

While anal sex is typilly practised by cis gay men (hey! Here, I’ve bed my own rearch and experience as a gay man to 10 easy steps – learn how to bottom wh ease.

Any self-rpectg gay man keeps wet wip or toilet wip around for this very reason.

PENIS SIZE AND PREFERRED SEXUAL ROL AMONG GAY MEN

Pre-exposure prophylaxis (or PrEP) is also a dg that many gay men take for their sex liv. Legend would have you believe that once you’ve earned your gay rd, a Harry Potter–like ceremony occurs where, stead of the Sortg Hat, a giant magil butt plug divis all gay men to two ho: tops or is clearly not the se, pecially for those people who nsir themselv versatile (HIYA). The two subdivisns have their own l, stereotyp, and -jok, and n sometim seem as if they’re at war wh each other, rather than both workg together for mutual sexual of this n make tryg different thgs dntg, pecially if you’re a baby gay venturg to this world for the first time.

”Miller argu that gay men should exame their relatnship wh power. But I believe that many gay men pick one si, stick to , and that some of those dividuals choose toppg—you’ll have seen their profil markg them as “masc dom tops” on the apps—bee of s ti to tradnal Miller explas, there are outsi forc that, datg back to the ancient Greeks, have prevented gay men om tly diggg to what sexual behavrs we might actually enjoy. “What I mean by that, ” he says, “is that cultural forc wh the gay muny prize toppg over bottomg.

THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON

“Wh bottomg there is the perceptn that you're givg up your masculy bee receivg a penis is somethg that women do, ” Miller Chris Whe, an expert health promotn and the director and prcipal vtigator of the Safe and Supportive Schools Project at the Gay-Straight Alliance Network San Francis, tak this one step further.