Savage Love: Is there any tactful way to ask someone if they’re gay?

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HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY

Someone's sexualy is personal, so 's important to rpect their privacy. However, you might want to know if a person is gay bee you're terted datg them or want to support them as a iend. Beg open wh them n be... * how to ask someone if they re gay *

Should you re if your celebry csh is gay? The awkward moment when Barbara Walters once phed Ricky Mart to say he’s gay is bt left back 2000. Ten years later, Walters said publicly, “Unls someone is openly gay and happy to talk about , ’s nobody’s bs—cludg me.

” In a recent terview wh Out magaze, Jack Falahee, an actor om How To Get Away Wh Murr, was asked if he’s gay. It is not jt the nventnally forbidn “gay” qutn, but the media’s approach to privacy general, s ambiguy over how to appropriately e social media as a reportg tool, and s vague ame for evaluatg what the standard for “objective” ought to be.

WHAT’S THE RIGHT WAY TO ASK WHETHER SOMEONE IS GAY?

There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * how to ask someone if they re gay *

Steven Petrow, a lumnist for The Washgton Post and former print of the Natnal Lbian and Gay Journalist Associatn, says, “For all too long, journalists have thought that qutns about someone’s sexual orientatn were off the grid—not to do so renrs LGBT people visible, which has other nsequenc, too. Sce Falahee plays a gay character, fans speculate about his sexualy real life. Both of them seem as gay as possible but they are diehard relig fanatics.

HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY

I n list 50 signs the two are gay, and once you pot out to someone who isn’t a bible thumper, they go, “Yeah, that mak so much sense.

In fact, reag om heterosexual terurse until that age only seems realistic if someone is gay or asexual. I fear they’ll live for s awkwardns bee my niece’s mister father is beyond judgmental and sists love (and marriage) n only exist between one MAN and one there any tactful way to ask someone if they’re gay? Recently my nephew rmed the whole fay that he is gay.

Do this make me gay? Also, I haven’t told anyone else but my iends thk trans women are men and dog anythg wh them sexually is gay.

ASK A HOMO: ARE YOU GAY?

- Qutn submted by Anonymo and answered by Erika Lynn as a part of Everyone Is Gay: Send Opns. "Pardon me my ar sir, are you a homosexual? Tip-toeg around the qutn (treatg like a social embarassment) might actually offend someone who was actually gay (I suppose).

Even if they say they're gay or straight, you should still double check by askg how many male and female sexual partners they've had. Say you are a man, and you're tersted a woman, but you thk she might be gay... There's no le that says if you're straight you n't ask somebody that's gay out for a date.

People who are gay and out know and are very happy to tell you. People who are not gay are equally happy to reassure (as they see ) you that they are not. People who are gay and not out, or gay-ish.

CAN I ASK IF YOU'RE GAY?

I really have no problem wh askg someone straight up are they gay. Exce me mrs/mr do not take this offensively but i jt wanted to know if you were gay.

If that person feels like tellg you are they are gay, that is there optn. If you are wonrg bee you are homosexual and you are not sure if the person you are terted is also homosexual or not you uld jt strike up a nversatn and see how thgs go.

Someone who is gay probably wouldn't be offend by the qutn.

LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, TRANSGENR, QUEER, & INTERSEX LIFE

Unls of urse, I was close on a personal level wh someone, but the thg is that I do have several iends who are gay and I have never had to ask... If he answers no, than the fact he's gay is nfirmed. " (The rabow is a symbol of gay pri.

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