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Contents:

• 'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
• MARRIED, BUT GAY: THE COMPLETE COLLECTN (MM & MMF EROTIC STORI‪)‬
• I MARRIED A GAY MAN
• ONE OF N.L.'S FIRST MARRIED GAY UPL LOOK BACK WH PRI
• ‘HONEY, I’VE GOT A SECRET’ : WHEN GAY MEN E OUT TO THEIR WIV
• GAY PEOPLE WHO WERE IN HETEROSEXUAL MARRIAG ARE SHARG THEIR STORI, AND THEY WERE INCREDIBLY HONT

'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN

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MARRIED, BUT GAY: THE COMPLETE COLLECTN (MM & MMF EROTIC STORI‪)‬

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I MARRIED A GAY MAN

Lucy, now 24, hid at school the fact her dad was gay.

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ONE OF N.L.'S FIRST MARRIED GAY UPL LOOK BACK WH PRI

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‘HONEY, I’VE GOT A SECRET’ : WHEN GAY MEN E OUT TO THEIR WIV

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GAY PEOPLE WHO WERE IN HETEROSEXUAL MARRIAG ARE SHARG THEIR STORI, AND THEY WERE INCREDIBLY HONT

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