Dear Pnce: I’m a straight woman who married a gay man.

Contents:

• CAN A GAY MAN BE ATTRACTED TO A SPECIFIC GIRL, BUT NOT WOMEN GENERAL, AND STI
• "WE DO HAVE A VERY GOOD SEX LIFE": GAY MEN WH STRAIGHT WIV ARE G OUT -- AS HAPPILY MARRIED
• I WAS SURE I WAS GAY – UNTIL I FELL LOVE WH MY BT FEMALE IEND
• I AM GAY BUT I AM MARRIED TO A WOMAN AND WH KIDS
• JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU
• ‘I FELL LOVE WH A GAY MAN AND NEARLY BROKE ME’
• GAY MEN HAVG SEX WH WOMEN?
• ‘HE BROKE MY HEART TO A BILLN PIEC’: WHEN A STRAIGHT WOMAN FALLS LOVE WH A GAY MAN
• SEND HUNTER BIN IRS WHISTLEBLOWER INTIFIED AS GAY DEMOCRAT
• I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
• STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS
• DO YOU KNOW OF A GAY MAN WHO FELL LOVE WH A WOMAN, AND TURNED TO LTR?
• CAN A GAY PERSON HAVE SEX WH A FEMALE?

CAN A GAY MAN BE ATTRACTED TO A SPECIFIC GIRL, BUT NOT WOMEN GENERAL, AND STI

64posted 12 years agoCan a gay man be attracted to a specific girl, but not women general, and still be gay, not bi? As a wrer, i'm wonrg if 's possible for a gay or straight character to be attracted to a person of the genr that oppos their typil sexualy?

Like, a gay person to be love wh a specific female, but not women general?

"WE DO HAVE A VERY GOOD SEX LIFE": GAY MEN WH STRAIGHT WIV ARE G OUT -- AS HAPPILY MARRIED

(maybe g Sanrda Bullock's character and her gay iend "My Bt Friend's Weddg" as an example) Or this se would simply be that the "gay" or "straight" person is fact bisexual? While the general sexual urg tend to fall very specific tegori (gay, straight, bi, etc.

I have seen and known several pletely gay men be " love" wh a woman, but 's the iendship that they love. As a label fn, where cross the le of no longer beg gay, but beg bi, is when a guy enjoys havg sexual relatns wh both men and women. I've known men who intify as beg gay, but they also had a long marriage (and even children) wh one specific female.

It might give you some ia of what kd of emotns might go to what you are talkg is very possible for a gay man to be love wh a woman. I'm not gog to speak for women, bee I wouldn't know how they, I know plenty of married and formerly married gay men.

I WAS SURE I WAS GAY – UNTIL I FELL LOVE WH MY BT FEMALE IEND

It is not unmon for a man to realize that he is gay after he cis to marry. And, some marry bee they don't want anyone to know that they are gay, and really don't even want to adm to gay is more plited then people, this was kda along the l of what i was thkg. 1 would reprent the extreme of heterosexualy and 10 would reprent the extreme of homosexualy.

5 on that sle om what you a gay man married now 21+ years to a woman; my answer would be "y" apsolutlely.

I am not offend as some people are by gay people of any genr. If I am attracted to 1 particular man, do that mean I'm gay?

I AM GAY BUT I AM MARRIED TO A WOMAN AND WH KIDS

If I am emotnally attracted to 1 man, and not physilly attracted to that man, am I gay?

Possibly but not necsarily sce give the opportuny they would choose a woman over a same suatn uld be te if a gay man found himself strand on an island wh only women. He might experiment or even love a woman but once off the island return to his homosexual liftyle. If a male character was gay, I'd say he was only terted men, as "bi" impli both/multiple genrs.

But there are gay men who have loved and been attracted to women, had children, and then disvered their to answer your qutn, I'd say that a gay man n like a woman and not women general, if 's before he realiz that he is "gay". I'm not 100% "straight", so I mata the label "bisexual", which I would nsir your character, as character may mata that he is gay, although he has feelgs/attractn for a woman, though.

JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU

75Ranziposted 9 years agoIt all pends on the person as when to love the ey don't see what the heart se and a gay man/women's heart uld sire the oppose sex.

‘I FELL LOVE WH A GAY MAN AND NEARLY BROKE ME’

I believe although rare, a gay man uld fall love wh a women.

Maybe I jt haven't met the right man is off the why is that we are seeg more and more "gay" "lbian" and "bi" persons nowadays? I believe that n, jt bee they are gay, don't mean that they fd women repulsive.

GAY MEN HAVG SEX WH WOMEN?

There are bound to be certa women around that n tch a gay man's, labels, labels.

A gay male may advertently fall pletely -love wh a woman, and vice-versa. There was one time that I pletely nsired myself as gay, and I still loved a great pear of breasts! I thk someone uld nsir themselv gay and be love wh s SPECIFIC girl.

Don't fet, gay and straight is often unfortunately fed by who we are attracted to romantilly, not who massag our bra In simplt terms, I'd say that if he wants to have sex wh her as an exprsn of his love, he's bisexual.

‘HE BROKE MY HEART TO A BILLN PIEC’: WHEN A STRAIGHT WOMAN FALLS LOVE WH A GAY MAN

If he don't re about sex, but would gladly die for her, he's gay. Although I am heterosexual, I work wh a largely homosexual populatn my role as an HIV preventn unselor. I have worked wh many men and women who are strictly attracted to people of the same sex, however there are also people I work wh that claim to be homosexual yet have sexual experienc wh people of the oppose sex.

I would say that there is no one that is tly gay or tly straight. If a "gay" person fds the oppose sex attractive he has found his unter part. I image that if a pletely heterosexual person n have a bi sexual experience than a gay person uld have a heterosexual one jt as well.

I have a very gay iend and he even gets sick at the mentn of the word vaga, but he has always told me that if he was to ever be wh a woman would be me, he's love wh his boyiend and they want to get married but at the same time he is love wh me secretly but has never acted on , 's nice to be someone's fantasy! I love him wh all my heart and we would never be together bee he is gay but I am his female of choice so I feel great about that. I personally know of a plete gay man, flamboyant speech and drs clud, whom spised women general.

SEND HUNTER BIN IRS WHISTLEBLOWER INTIFIED AS GAY DEMOCRAT

Ocsnally gay men bee attracted to specific women and are still gay. Bisexual persons on the other hand, have sexual enunters wh any genr at will as a matter of bls everyone wh the abily to have iends, don't matter whether 'straight' or 'gay'.

"Gay" and "bi" are simply labels ed to differentiate between one group and another.

I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN

I like the Ksey ia that we all have a different place on a le between totally gay and totally straight. I absolutely do thk possible for a gay man to be attracted to a specific woman, but not women general. So I told him, that even if he were gay, even if we had e om different relig backgrounds, if he were black, whe or yellow, or severly disfigured....

He told me that although he knows that he's gay, fortable his body, and is fely attracted to men, he lov me, and affirmed he wants to grow old wh me. He himself uldn't unrstand how a gay man, who knows he's 100% gay is love wh a woman... Weed is a practicg Mormon and the Church’s current stance on the topic of homosexualy n be summed up like so: “The attractn self is not a s, but actg on is.

” While Weed says he do not pass judgment on gay relatnships general, when me to his own life, he says, “I didn’t feel was right.

STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS

In fact, the term “same-sex attracted, ” or SSA, has taken off as the notn of “ex-gays” has fallen out of favor. There are some key differenc between the two groups: “Ex-gays” believe that they have succsfully “cured” themselv of homosexualy.

DO YOU KNOW OF A GAY MAN WHO FELL LOVE WH A WOMAN, AND TURNED TO LTR?

“Ex-gays” have a rightful reputatn for beg bigoted, whereas SSAs are not necsarily opposed to homosexualy. “He didn't thk would ever happen, he had rigned himself to beg gay.

(Note that Ksey’s “Sexual Behavr the Human Male” found that only 10 percent of men were "more or ls exclively homosexual. Although he once supported nversn therapy, about a ago he me out agast and do not believe that gay people n be ma straight. ” This n mean that a client cis to embrace a gay inty over their relig inty.

CAN A GAY PERSON HAVE SEX WH A FEMALE?

But there are plenty of SSA men who believe that homosexual behavrs are a relig s -- and, as the recent amic brief shows, some are willg to go so far as to policize their inty orr to fight equal rights for gays. There was even a recent TLC documentary, "My Hband's Not Gay, " about Mormon hoeholds Utah posed of same-sex attracted men married to women.

"In some ways, a very relig, exclively gay man married to an asexual woman, they n have a very nice iendship, a very wonrful relatnship many ways, and wouldn't be a fay therapist's dream, but would be fe for them. When I was my twenti, I had a homosexual relatnship wh a man, who was a iend of me.