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Contents:

• BT GAY DATG APPS FOR HOOKUPS, RELATNSHIPS, AND EVERYTHG BETWEEN
• MEET THE GAYBROS
• AFTER CRAIGSLIST AND MANHUNT, HERE IS WHERE GAYS WILL GET THEIR CLICKS
• GAY DATG IOWA

BT GAY DATG APPS FOR HOOKUPS, RELATNSHIPS, AND EVERYTHG BETWEEN

TL;DR - I thought I was straight, got cur, started chattg wh a guy 3 hours away, met up, did everythg together, talked everyday sce we met, velopg feelgs for each other, need to take slow, not sure how but termed to figure out, never been happier, both closet bi/gay. After a ltle over a year existence, Gaybros now fds self at a promisg but uncerta crossroads. As members of Gaybros—a Redd-based muny for gay guys wh tradnally manly terts like sports, huntg, and beer—the large majory of their bondg tak place through ment threads unr topics like “Ron Swanson vs.

” someone I’m too ld to look toward explas, referencg the cy’s premiere gay sports bar. If the Gaybro’s missn statement is “a place for guys to get together and talk about, well, guy stuff. The r is classic pub, all dark woods and vtage trophi, but wh a cidly gay twist: Look even briefly at the hoe-ma baseball and football player posters ratg the walls, and more than sportsmanlike appreciatn for the athletic male form quickly be apparent.

From my perch by the rner at pile, I survey the scene: Gay men of an imprsive range of age, race, attractivens, body type, and ball-p embroiry shake hands and strike up nversatns. He has brought along a solidly built and more maturely handsome AIDS rearcher wh whom I spend a nsirable amount of time discsg the cle of gay social spac like the one we’re . Given that the few gay spac that do rema are almost always segregated by race, age, and sexual type (twk, bear, leather, etc.

MEET THE GAYBROS

Also worthy of note was the lack of excsive ciss wh the group; though gay men almost never stop flirtg entirely, this was clearly not, as multiple bros would tell me, a “datg service. After the first round had been draed, I overhear my iend Jake—who I only found out was a Gaybro sympathizer after startg on this story and whose hband, Tim Ka, is one of the group’s morators—rpond scily to a ment about football players’ jock straps: “Now that’s a game I uld get to! Pl, I thought I’d earned a break om the prsure of all those firm handshak: The uple I was crashg wh had ved me to a gay hoe party promisg more faiar acutrements like cdés and Robyn mic, so I Google-mapped my way across Boston om bro to ‘mo.

But as I glanced around at the Crate & Barrel brand of gayns on display this open-ncept, Hdu y-studd livg room, I felt, not relief, but a twge of doubt. So read an stant msage om a lleague when he learned that I was gog to be chillg wh the Gaybros. My terlocutor was mostly jokg, of urse, but the kernel of tth h home: I was probably gog to have to butch-up my vobulary a b if I wanted to hang wh, much ls hope to unrstand, a group of fellow gay men who would willgly ll themselv “bros.

AFTER CRAIGSLIST AND MANHUNT, HERE IS WHERE GAYS WILL GET THEIR CLICKS

When you look up the term Gaybro on Urban Dictnary, two extremely tellg fns appear. The first—“a gay man who acts mascule and is terted guy stuff like sports, vio gam, ary issu, grillg, kniv, gear, workg out, gadgets, tech, etc …”—seems to have been lifted om the Gaybros missn statement.

The send is ls ntral: “Young mascule homosexual mal who exhib no effemate characteristics or terts and make a pot of gog on about how ‘normal’ they are. Before meetg the Gaybros, the send fn was the only one I knew, and I am not at all alone. Many gays I’ve spoken wh share a visceral and somewhat histrnic revulsn toward the very ia of Gaybrodom that, ironilly, is not dissiar to the reactn many straights have to gays before they know one.

When Buzzfeed terviewed the group’s founr, Alex Delu, on the ocsn of their one-year anniversary this past January, the ments sectn immediately filled wh screeds about “mascule privilege” and “femmephobia” wh the gay muny.

GAY DATG IOWA

Delu, 23, spoke the Q-and-A about his dismay at enunterg a “very narrow fn of what means to be gay” mastream culture, one that apparently don’t make room for guys wh terts like “vio gam, patball, and sports. “[A place for them] to gather and talk about shared terts and to break down stereotyp and promote the ia that you uld be a gay man and still be exactly who you’ve always been.

Eli Fox, a menter om New Orleans, ptured the general plat of those who took issue wh Delu’s treatg the gay “stereotype” like an unwanted rdboard box: “This is such bullsh and jt perpetuat the ia that femy is fake or that people put on […] He mak sound like mascule gay guys are somehow OPPRESSED. No, they’re the most sired, bee mascule tras are prized the gay male muny jt like practilly every other social group […] Masc guys aren’t the on who need to spend time promotg some agenda of masculy and “regular guy” culture crap. Likely anticipatg this kd of ph-back, Buzzfeed had asked Delu to rpond to charg of “shamg effemate gays.

Everyone is wele to e to Gaybros to shoot the sh, grab a beer at a Gaybros meet up, and participate the different activi and events we schle.