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Contents:

• GAY SURROGACY COSTS FOR LGBTQ PARENTS
• EVIL: GAY MEN REPORTEDLY HAVE THEIR BABY KILLED AFTER SURROGATE GETS BREAST CANCER
• CALIFORNIA MOV TO PROVI SURROGAT TO GAY MALE UPL THE NAME OF 'FERTILY EQUALY'
• GAY COUPLE DEMANDS SURROGATE MOTHER WH CANCER ABORT BABY
• THE SURROGACY OPTN: A GENERAL OVERVIEW FOR GAY COUPL
• DISVER ABOUTTHE GLANCEPRT EDNSUBSCRIBELOGNEWSCALIFORNIA INTRODUC NEW BILL THAT WOULD PROVI GAY COUPL A SURROGATE TO ACHIEVE "FERTILY EQUALY"
• GAY SURROGACY: EMPOWERG LGBTQ+ COUPL TO BUILD FAI
• SURROGACY FOR GAY COUPL MA EASY AND AFFORDABLE
• FDG THE PERFECT GAY-FRIENDLY SURROGACY AGENCY
• ‘WE ARE EXPECTED TO BE OK WH NOT HAVG CHILDREN’: HOW GAY PARENTHOOD THROUGH SURROGACY BEME A BATTLEGROUND
• GAY MEN AND SURROGACY

GAY SURROGACY COSTS FOR LGBTQ PARENTS

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EVIL: GAY MEN REPORTEDLY HAVE THEIR BABY KILLED AFTER SURROGATE GETS BREAST CANCER

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CALIFORNIA MOV TO PROVI SURROGAT TO GAY MALE UPL THE NAME OF 'FERTILY EQUALY'

” Wh marriage equaly won years ago, they expected to be able to have a nventnal married months before their weddg, a targeted ad om an anisatn lled Gay Parents to Be land Maggipto’s Instagram feed, offerg ee nsultatns wh a fertily doctor who’d give them “the whole ndown” on how they uld start a fay. In England and Wal, the number of parents g a surrogate has quadpled over the past 10 years, but is always ntroversial: high-profile gay men om Brian Dowlg to Tom Daley have been acced of exploatn, “womb rental” and even “child abe” when they go public about creatg their fai wh a surrogate.

GAY COUPLE DEMANDS SURROGATE MOTHER WH CANCER ABORT BABY

“If you balance the women who uld die pregnancy, the women who uld bee fertile bee of their eggs beg harvted, who mt endure pa and loss of time a way not mensurate to what they are beg paid, agast this new sire of a gay male uple to e surrogacy as their first optn, I thk the balance of sufferg is more on the female si. The clu, but are not necsarily limed to, recent velopments reproductive technology, changg legali the adoptn system, greater acceptance of lbians and gay men, and broar chang the diversy of Amerin fai (Gamson, 2015; Goldberg, 2010a, 2012; Goldberg, Downg, & Moyer, 2012; Stacey, 2006). Alongsi their creasg visibily is a burgeong body of rearch on gay fathers, specifilly on the hort of gay men who beme parents after g out rather than the ntext of a prev heterosexual relatnship (see Berkowz & Marsigl, 2007; Carone, Bac, & Lgiardi, 2017; Goldberg, 2010a; Greenfeld & Seli, 2011; Lew, 2009; Petersen, 2018; Stacey, 2006).

However, scholars are jt begng to unrstand the diversy of stctur, arrangements, and practic wh gay father-head fay nstellatns, as there are several paths to parenthood for this emergg hort—cludg domtic and ternatnal adoptn, fosterg, surrogacy arrangements, and creative kship ti that often entail sharg parentg wh a LGBQ woman or women. Developg a more nuanced unrstandg of gay fathers is necsary to better unrstand the unique fay experienc embedd wh each of the fay chapter provis an overview of the scholarship on one particularly unrstudied group of this new hort of gay fathers—gay men who have bee parents through the assistance of a surrogate mother.

THE SURROGACY OPTN: A GENERAL OVERVIEW FOR GAY COUPL

I review the studi on gay fathers and surrogacy, explorg the ratnal behd men’s choice to nstct their fay g this pathway; the relatnships that velop between expectant fathers, surrogate mothers, and their children; and, fally, the nsequenc for fay formatn.

DISVER ABOUTTHE GLANCEPRT EDNSUBSCRIBELOGNEWSCALIFORNIA INTRODUC NEW BILL THAT WOULD PROVI GAY COUPL A SURROGATE TO ACHIEVE "FERTILY EQUALY"

Th, viewg gay fathers’ volvement wh their children through the lens illumat the fluidy of fay, genr, and of the work on sexual mory parentg has been spearhead by femist scholars who have long challenged “the iology of the monolhic fay and the notn that any one fay arrangement is natural, blogil, or functnal a timels way” (Goldberg & Allen, 2007, p.

Takg serly the terlockg systems of privilege and opprsn the lived experienc of gay fathers who e surrogacy illumat how the men’s class, race, and Wtern privilege allows them to buy their way out of discrimatory adoptive polici and stake out a 9-month lease on a surrogate mother’s womb orr to nstct a geilly related, and sometim a geilly engeered, child (Dillaway, 2008) newer terdisciplary rearch has ground analys munitn, fay strs, and child velopment theori to nceptualize how gay men make cisns about surrogacy and to better unrstand the experience of surrogate fai for gay fathers and their children.

For example, one study ed uncertaty rctn theory (URT), a amework that theoriz how munitn patterns among partners n be ed to rce uncertaty as they form imprsns wh one another and to explore how gay-tend fathers munited wh potential surrogate mothers and egg donors on an onle fom (May & Tenzek, 2016) of this new lerature has even moved beyond theorizg the surrogacy procs to clu thoughtful analys about the experienc of raisg children gay surrogate fai. Another study that explored the adjtment of children born to gay fathers through surrogacy ground their rearch a velopmental ntextual systems approach (Overton, 2015), whereby they examed children’s velopment terms of the bidirectnal relatns between the children, the fay, and the wir social world (Golombok et al., 2018) Fathers Usg SurrogacySurrogacy is an assisted reproductive technology (ART) which the prospective parent(s) fe a ntract wh a woman to rry their child (Bergman, Rub, Green, & Padron, 2010).

GAY SURROGACY: EMPOWERG LGBTQ+ COUPL TO BUILD FAI

Moreover, g gtatnal surrogacy allows gay men to bypass fears that surrogat who are geilly related to the baby will be more attached to their baby and th more likely to change their mds about the arrangement—although of note is that there is no evince to support this. In a study of terviews wh gay fathers about their motivatns to pursue surrogacy, the overwhelmg majory (36 out of 40) opted for a gtatnal over geic surrogacy arrangement, and half of the men chose to do so bee they felt that there was a greater risk that the arrangement would fail if the surrogate had a geic lk to the baby (Blake et al., 2017). The other most popular reason gay men mentned for this choice was that gtatnal surrogacy was remend to them by their agency, a fdg that expos how the stutnalized attus of agenci n profoundly fluence gay men’s dividual cisn-makg around surrogacy (Blake et al., 2017) men’s experience wh the surrogacy procs is mediated by other stutns as well.

G., the Amerin Psychologil Associatn, the Amerin Amy of Pediatrics, and others), the legal and terpersonal barriers that gay men and lbians face adoptg have been well documented by scholars (Brodzsky, Patterson, & Vaziri, 2002; see chapters “LGBTQ Adoptive Parents and Their Children” and “LGBTQ Foster Parents”).

SURROGACY FOR GAY COUPL MA EASY AND AFFORDABLE

In addn, the Chigo Tribune recently missned and reported on an rmal survey of fertily clics nducted by FertilyIQ (a webse where patients asss their fertily physicians), which revealed that 10–20% of donor eggs are gog to gay men havg babi via gtatnal surrogacy (Schoenberg, 2016). Furthermore, the recent study that explored how gay-tend fathers ed classified ads on an onle muny created and mataed by surrogate mothers and tend parents, the thors noted that the number of gay men seekg the servic of surrogat on webs is on the rise (May & Tenzek, 2016). Nohels, the body of rearch on gay fathers and surrogacy has documented a wi range of dimensns, cludg gay men’s motivatns for havg a child through surrogacy (Blake et al., 2017), the cisn-makg procs volved their path to parenthood (Blake et al., 2017), the transn to parenthood (Bergman et al., 2010; Greenfeld & Seli, 2011), relatnships wh potential and actual surrogat and egg donors (Carone et al., 2018; Greenfeld & Seli, 2011; May & Tenzek, 2016), cisns about disclosg rmatn about surrogat and donors to their children (Carone et al., 2018), the divisn of hoehold labor among bgeic and non-bgeic fathers (Tornello et al., 2015), parental adjtment (Van Rijn-van Gelren et al., 2018), children’s psychologil adjtment (Bac et al., 2015; Golombok et al., 2018; Green et al., 2015), sgle gay men and surrogacy (Carone et al., 2017), and gay men’s experienc wh transnatnal mercial surrogacy (Petersen, 2018).

FDG THE PERFECT GAY-FRIENDLY SURROGACY AGENCY

It is worth notg that a signifint strength of this rearch is that is beg produced by a diverse group of ternatnal scholars, cludg but not limed to the USA, the UK, the Netherlands, Spa, and addn to the studi is a handful of empiril qualative studi on gay fathers that have clud men who beme fathers through surrogacy their sampl (Berkowz, 2007; Berkowz & Marsigl, 2007; Mchell & Green, 2007; Ryan & Berkowz, 2009; Stacey, 2006). Fally, although not empiril studi per se, Joshua Gamson, a soclogist, wrote about his own experience wh surrogacy his book, Morn Fai (2015), and Arlene Istar Lev (2006), a social worker, chronicled her experienc meetg and teractg wh gay fathers who have ed surrogacy. Prr to the recent rise of agenci like Growg Generatns () and Creative Fay Connectns () which are willg to work wh sgle gay men and gay upl, gay men were forced to fd surrogate mothers through placg ads newspapers or through other rmal channels like vg iends or fay members to serve as surrogat (Lev, 2006).

‘WE ARE EXPECTED TO BE OK WH NOT HAVG CHILDREN’: HOW GAY PARENTHOOD THROUGH SURROGACY BEME A BATTLEGROUND

This requir fancg the participatn of the egg donor, the servic of both an egg donor agency and a surrogate agency, IVF physician servic, and health surance to ver all high sts of surrogacy mean that is only an optn for a small number of relatively affluent gay men, a fact that is illtrated by the mographic posn of the participants any of the empiril studi that clud rmatn about e.

In Petersen’s (2018) study of gay men Denmark who had ed transnatnal surrogacy, all were Whe, and a multatnal study nducted the UK, Denmark, and France, 96% of the Brish and Dutch parents were Whe (no race rmatn was llected on French parents) (Van Rijn-van Gelren et al., 2018) gay fathers the sampl are also different om gay men who bee parents through adoptn terms of their racial and ethnic diversy. Thkg About Parentg: Surrogacy as an OptnRearch has documented that gay men bee parents for many of the same reasons as heterosexual men: Both ce the sire for nurturg children, the nstancy of children their liv, the achievement of some sense of immortaly via children, and the sense of fay that children help to provi (Berkowz & Marsigl, 2007; Goldberg et al., 2012; Mallon, 2004). However, the social and psychologil dimensns of gay men’s reproductive cisn-makg are addnally plited by ternalized homophobia, anxieti about raisg properly genred (and heterosexual) children, and stctural obstacl such as lack of rmatn and navigatg legal barriers (Berkowz & Marsigl, 2007; Bramen & Mchell, 2008; Goldberg, 2010a).

GAY MEN AND SURROGACY

Oftentim, those gay men who choose surrogacy are motivated by the higher gree of ntrol they have the procs when pared wh adoptn, feel that the prence of a geic lk to their child is an important factor for the creatn of fay ti, and worry about the psychologil strs a child may experience as a rult of beg adopted (Blake et al., 2017; Carone et al., 2017; Goldberg, 2010a; Lev, 2006). It is th not surprisg that the prence of a geic relatnship is an oft-ced reason that gay men choose surrogacy (Lev, 2006) Fay Tree: Gay Fathers, Surrogate Mothers, Egg Donors, and Their ChildrenSurrogacy is siar to donor sematn (DI) that allows for one parent to be geilly related to the child, and volv a blogil “other” to provi the other half of the geic material.