What do I wish I had known about raisg a gay child? It’s a pretty short list and, had I known, I may have stunted my own growth. Bee raisg a gay child has not been much different than raisg a child who is not gay. After all, she’s a child. Well, not any more. But, Pearl once was, and I would like to thk our fay navigated her g out such a manner that she is now a flouris
Contents:
- PARENTG A GAY CHILD
- 5 THGS I WISH I HAD KNOWN ABOUT RAISG A GAY CHILD
- HOW TO SUPPORT YOUR GAY CHILD
- COMG OUT: A PARENTS GUI TO SUPPORTG YOUR GAY TEEN
- HOW TO RAISE YOUR CHILD TO BE GAY
- GAY PARENTS RAISG KIDS: HOW WILL THEY FARE?
- MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
- A FATHER ASKED A GAY MAN HE MET VEGAS FOR ADVICE ABOUT RAISG HIS SON, AND THE TER N'T GET ENOUGH
- HOW CAN I LEARN TO ACCEPT MY GAY SON
PARENTG A GAY CHILD
* how to raise a gay son *
'" says Sung Tse, parent to a transgenr young adult and print of the San Gabriel Valley chapter of PFLAG, the first and largt anizatn for lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, and queer (LGBTQ+) people, their parents and fai, and alli.
5 THGS I WISH I HAD KNOWN ABOUT RAISG A GAY CHILD
"Mom, Dad, I'm gay!" Your brave, wonrful, betiful child has spoken the words out loud that somewhere the back of your md you already spected. This moment of honty is the begng of a journey that n be challengg for both you and your child. * how to raise a gay son *
I grew up outsi of New York Cy, the meltg pot, attend llege and worked New York, yet when I found out my son, Jam, age 13, was gay, I reverted to "not my backyard.
HOW TO SUPPORT YOUR GAY CHILD
The days, gay parents are no novelty. * how to raise a gay son *
Although he didn't particularly like ntact sports, he didn't exhib the gay stereotypil image: lisp, rabow lors.
How would he know he's gay, if he never had sex wh a girl? Acrdg to -thor of When Your Child Is Gay, Jonathan L.
D., nial is the most mon ial reactn of parents to the joltg news that their child is gay. When I terviewed straight parents for When Your Child Is Gay, they ed words such as fear, shock, helplsns, strs, and extreme sadns to scribe their experienc wh nial. Why do parents who are normally acceptg of their children go to the nial zone upon learng that their child is gay, bisexual, even transgenr?
COMG OUT: A PARENTS GUI TO SUPPORTG YOUR GAY TEEN
Jack Remmgton was playg the slots when a man asked him, "Are you gay?" Turns out, he was lookg for advice on how to raise his son. * how to raise a gay son *
Beg gay was not part of that plan and this fact was hard to rencile.
Tobk, who is private practice Manhattan, do not expect their child to be gay. However, be sure you pick a gay-iendly one om an anizatn such as the Amerin Associatn of Psychiatrists that has a divisn of gay therapists om which to choose. They will be empathetic and unrstandg and turn will ntribute to your unrstandg of what means to be the parent of a gay child.
HOW TO RAISE YOUR CHILD TO BE GAY
Advice for parents wh LGBTQ kids to help support and show them love. What to do when your kids e out to you as lbian, gay, bisexual, trans and queer. * how to raise a gay son *
At PFLAG, you will fd parents who have siar feelgs, thoughts, and reactns to havg a gay child. I uldn't be around people who judged me, thought beg gay was a "liftyle" that uld be changed or thought that homosexualy was wrong.
This book tak a parent through a day the life of a gay child.
GAY PARENTS RAISG KIDS: HOW WILL THEY FARE?
As a parent wh no role mols for havg a gay child, I didn't expect to know how to parent a gay child. You may say that parentg is parentg, but the straight parent of a gay child has to al wh addnal issu such as bullyg, possible low self-teem of their child, discrimatn, to name a few.
The gay child has most likely gone through the same issu that you are now experiencg: nial, fear, guilt, shame, anger, loss, to arrive at acceptance.
MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
In future blogs, we will tackle those subjects, jt as When Your Child Is Gay (Sterlg, 2016) do.
A FATHER ASKED A GAY MAN HE MET VEGAS FOR ADVICE ABOUT RAISG HIS SON, AND THE TER N'T GET ENOUGH
But providg support isn't always easy — pecially if you are the parent of a lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr or qutng (LGBTQ) child. Advote for a gay-straight alliance (GSA), which has been shown to make schools safer and boost amic performance among LGBTQ stunts. Team up wh a pediatrician, a unselor at school, close fay members and even muny anizatns — for example, Parents, Fai and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG) — if you’re havg trouble gog alone.
HOW CAN I LEARN TO ACCEPT MY GAY SON
Parents, Fai and Friends of Lbian and Gays (PFLAG).
What do I wish I had known about raisg a gay child? Bee raisg a gay child has not been much different than raisg a child who is not gay.