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Contents:
- WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
- THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
- THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
- YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
- OUR SEVEN-YEAR-OLD SON TOLD HE WAS GAY
- MY SON THKS HE’S GAY
- I NNOT AL WH FACT MY SON IS GAY
- MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
- IS MY SON GAY OR IS A PHASE?
- IS MY SON GAY?
- MY SON IS GAY
- HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
When my son told he was gay, I wanted to protect him om the meanns of the world, but I also uldn’t image askg him to hi who he really is. * my son says he is gay *
When parents learn that their child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, they n experience a range of emotns. As a matter of fact, you might someday look back and fd that you are grateful for the experience of havg a gay or lbian child.
Well, my study of 65 fai of gay and lbian youth for the book, Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child, I found that some parents get to the pot where they believe that the experience of havg a gay child actually ma them a better person—more open-md and sensive to the needs of others, particularly those other mory groups. If you jt found out your child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, you may be thkg that such ias are prepostero.
The tstworthy nfidants let them vent but also rrected some of the misperceptns they absorbed om society, such as that gay people are lonely, unhappy, promiscuo, not fay-oriented, unable to have children, or sted for an unhappy life. Contact Parents, Fay, and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG). List of Helpful Books for Parents of Gay and Lbian Children.
THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
* my son says he is gay *
Straight Parents Gay Children: Keepg Fai Together (revised edn).
THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
Qutn: TWO months ago my son Gav, 29, announced that he is gay. He me home one weekend to expla to me and my hband that he has been livg wh his partner for three months and has known he was gay sce he was 17. * my son says he is gay *
Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lbians, and Gays Talk About Their Experienc.
YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
There's a new Android app out (here's the English versn) lled "Is My Son Gay?" which one n answer an easy seri of qutns ("Are you divorced?") that will tell you if, fact, your son is a gay person. * my son says he is gay *
Somethg to Tell You: The Road Fai Travel when a Child is Gay.
OUR SEVEN-YEAR-OLD SON TOLD HE WAS GAY
What to do when your son tells you he's gay. * my son says he is gay *
Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child.
Fortunate Fai: Catholic fai wh lbian dghters and gay sons.
MY SON THKS HE’S GAY
Mom, Dad, I'm Gay: How Fai Negotiate Comg Out.
“I’m gay.
I have had gay iends (and been eply hurt and disappoted when beme obv. He never wanted to be gay.
I NNOT AL WH FACT MY SON IS GAY
To iends of me who may have gay children, or be gay themselv, please five me for my ignorance.
I don’t know if I’ll ever be “okay” wh the gay liftyle, but right now, I am okay wh my son beg gay, and right now, that is all that matters.
MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
What would you do if your child told you they were gay?
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
If you’d like to jo the Fom, drop a le at do feel like to fd out that your son is gay?
IS MY SON GAY OR IS A PHASE?
So my 19-year-old son told me he is gay last night. He don’t “act gay, ” but ’s not a huge leap to image him beg still put me to shock.
”“Don’t get stuck on thkg about the mechanics of gay sex. Bee I’m obvly the person who is gog to have trouble unrstandg that he’s gay.
For straight parents, havg a child reveal that he is gay n be a jolt. You might ask how long he or she has known, and why he feels he is gay, bi, or trans, suggts Jonathan Tobk, M. D., a psychiatrist private practice New York Cy and the -thor of When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need to Know.
IS MY SON GAY?
You n fd one through the Associatn of Gay and Lbian Psychiatrists. Take the extra step and show your child that you are terted beg the parent of a gay child.
Edute yourself on what means to be gay, lbian, bisexual or transgenr. PFLAG, or Parents for Lbians and Gays, which now has a group for transgenr youth, and holds natnwi chapters and meetgs;. They immediately clocked as gay, while we immediately clocked them as we warmed up to another, one mom anxly said: "I have a qutn: I am pretty sure my son is gay, but I don't know what to do.
MY SON IS GAY
"For example, if someone the word "gay" place of "stupid, " remd them that the two are not terchangeable, and suggt they should say what they actually mean stead. "The rourc n help:PFLAG: The untry’s largt anizatn ung parents, fai, and alli wh people who are lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, and Spectm: Offers groups, trag, and rourc promotg genr sensivy and cln for all youthGLBT Natnal Rource Database: LGBTQ+ digal directory of rourcNatnal Queer and Trans Therapists of Color Network: Directory of therapists/unselors who are people of lorNatnal LGBTQ Task Force: The progrsive advocy arm of the LGBTQ+ movementDurg LGBTQ Pri Month, TODAY is sharg the muny’s history, pa, joy and what’s next for the movement.
HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?
He took a be of chicken and announced, his matter-of-fact way, “I hope you know I’m gay.