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Contents:
- HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS
- WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
- COMG OUT: A PARENTS GUI TO SUPPORTG YOUR GAY TEEN
- WHAT WE KNOW ABOUT GAY TEENAGERS
- WHAT'S LIFE LIKE FOR GAY KIDS IN PUBLIC SCHOOLS?
HOW CHRISTIAN PARENTS SHOULD RPOND TO THEIR CHILD'S GAY INTY CRISIS
* being gay as a teenager *
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
"Mom, Dad, I'm gay!" Your brave, wonrful, betiful child has spoken the words out loud that somewhere the back of your md you already spected. This moment of honty is the begng of a journey that n be challengg for both you and your child. * being gay as a teenager *
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COMG OUT: A PARENTS GUI TO SUPPORTG YOUR GAY TEEN
Young people are also affected by the culture at large, rearchers say, as anti-trans legislatn and what crics ll “Don’t Say Gay” bills reverberate across the untry. The prence of a gay-straight alliance improv the school climate as a whole, studi show, even for people who don’t participate. It’s not pletely known what someone to be lbian, gay, straight, or bisexual, but your sexual orientatn probably started at a very young age.
The phrase “ the closet” may be ed to refer to someone who is gay, lbian, or bisexual, but hasn’t told iends and fay members yet.
People who are homosexual are romantilly and physilly attracted to people of the same sex: Femal who are attracted to other femal are lbian; mal who are attracted to other mal are often known as gay.
WHAT WE KNOW ABOUT GAY TEENAGERS
Beg terted someone of the same sex do not necsarily mean that a person is gay — jt as beg terted someone of the oppose sex don't mean a person is straight.
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WHAT'S LIFE LIKE FOR GAY KIDS IN PUBLIC SCHOOLS?
A 2012 survey by the Human Rights Campaign found that 92% of LGBT teens had heard negative thgs about beg lbian, gay, bisexual, or transgenr. Whether gay, straight, bisexual, or jt not sure, almost everyone has qutns about physilly maturg and about sexual health — like if certa body chang are "normal, " what's the right way to behave, or how to avoid sexually transmted fectns (STIs).
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If your parents ntue to have a hard time acceptg your homosexualy or genr inty, anizatns such as Parents, Fai, and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG) are available to the past, people today are more acceptg of differenc, particularly homosexualy. Jt the Facts provis rmatn and rourc for prcipals, tors and school personnel who nont sensive issu volvg gay, lbian, and bisexual stunts.