Gay 101: Four typ of fag hags - OutVoic

Contents:

• GAY HAG
• JAGUARS ASSISTANT KEV MAXEN IS FIRST MALE NFL ACH TO E OUT AS GAY
• FAG HAG: WHY SHOULD GAY MEN HAVE A WOMAN BT FRIEND?
• JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT STRENGTH ACH KEV MAXEN OUT PUBLICLY AS GAY
• LADI: I'M NOT YOUR GAY BOYIEND
• WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY MEN

GAY HAG

For some gay men, the word “faggot” should never be spoken outsi of gay circl, and straight, cisgenr women shouldn’t be allowed to say – much the same way that a lot of women would fd misogynistic for a cisgenr man to ll women “hags”.

And while a study did fd posive associatns between women’s feelgs of sexual attractivens and their iendships wh gay men, ’s hard to say whether that’s the sole or biggt reason for the formatn of the iendships. For the longt time, gay men have been picted as eher sexually praved characters or nonsexual, non-threateng men who have no agency or liv outsi of the women they’re meant to please. For some self-scribed fag hags, one huge thg that draws them to gay men (and vice versa) is this natural monaly of feelg like an outst a misogynistic heteropatriarchal system.

And so, for women who are brash, who celebrate sexualy, who are reee, who are glamoro, there is fort fdg refuge gay men, who unrstand what feels like to be labeled as “different”.

JAGUARS ASSISTANT KEV MAXEN IS FIRST MALE NFL ACH TO E OUT AS GAY

Fackler and Salvato wre, “[T]he ugly rhyme njured up the stereotype of an often overweight, sexually dysfunctnal woman who chose to surround herself wh gdggly welg gay men and was th emed a tragic terloper. Fackler and Salvato nsir the ways the two parallel relatnships celebrate and plite the role of the “fag hag, ” as Grace is tragilly love wh her gay bt iend, while Karen nsirs Jack a tillatg playthg. Siarly, Carrie Bradshaw’s relatnship wh her “gay bt iend” Stanford celebrat a playful and long-lastg bond, yet is also ght wh plitns, as Fackler and Salvato pot out: “If Sex and the Cy had s viewers vetg a fabulo sgle life filled wh Manolos and Fendi baguett, also begot another sire among the generatn of women who watched: one for a gay bt iend wh whom to shop.

Her gays give her the attentn and support she needs while lendg her a male perspective on why her date never lled after she broke out her daily food log on date two.

FAG HAG: WHY SHOULD GAY MEN HAVE A WOMAN BT FRIEND?

She is a dited iend, and bt of all, she n take a Devotee r eply about her BFF's stggl as a gay man and will even don a pk tee and mount a float durg a pri ftival to show her support. The Fair Weather HagEvery gay man the history of beg gay is gog to e to my office wh a silver Tiffany’s pchfork and an Apple Cnamon scented torch to murr me for what I am about to say. The marriage of two rogatory terms, fag and hag, symbolizg the unn of the world's most popular objects of srn, homosexual and woman, creat a moniker that most of those who wear fd offensive, possibly bee smacks of sLg Febary 1, 2004Get the fag-hag mug.

Most often the gay men she hangs out wh ecspcially if she is betiful are attracted to her, but the attractn is only them admierg her bety and the drag queens want to be her. She spends a lot of time wh him, they go out to gay bars together, he do her hair, she tak re of him, and they even spe out guys for eachother, and even go out drag together. This woman appreciat the fact that gay men know how to drill down to the btersweet re of an issue and make light of where necsary, and simultaneoly make dark humor of where otherwise necsary.

Bee this type of woman is generally spoiled by the general lightfulns of gay men, she may srn straight men for their lack of personaly and overall had a borg but blogilly necsary momentary sexual enunter wh a straight man named "Todd, " but she soon grew bored of his attentn and longed to be encircled the warm and safe womb of the gay bar. Englishman's Conrdancehag·gay — 1 OccurrenceNehemiah 2:13 HEB: וָאֵצְאָ֨ה בְשַֽׁעַר־ הַגַּ֜יא לַ֗יְלָה וְאֶל־NAS: out at night by the Valley GateKJV: by the gate of the valley, even beforeINT: went Gate the Valley night Interlear Greek • Interlear Hebrew • Strong's Numbers • Englishman's Greek Conrdance • Englishman's Hebrew Conrdance • Parallel Texts. Englishman's Conrdancehag·gay — 5 OccurrencNumbers 21:20 HEB: וּמִבָּמ֗וֹת הַגַּיְא֙ אֲשֶׁר֙ בִּשְׂדֵ֣הNAS: and om Bamoth to the valley that is the landKJV: And om Bamoth [] the valley, that [is] the untryINT: Bamoth to the valley is land.

JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT STRENGTH ACH KEV MAXEN OUT PUBLICLY AS GAY

Strong's Conrdancegay: a valleyOrigal Word: גַּיְאPart of Speech: NounTransleratn: gayPhoic Spellg: (gah'-ee)Defn: a valleyNAS Exhstive ConrdanceWord Origof uncerta rivatnDefna valleyNASB TranslatnGe-harashim* (1), Valley (8), valley (43), valleys (7) גַּיְא noun masculeIsaiah 40:4 (femeZechariah 14:4) valley — absolute גַּיְא Numbers 21:20 8t. Most equently Strong's Exhstive Conrdancevalley Or (shortened) gay {gah'-ee}; probably (by transmutatn) om the same root as gevah (abbreviated); a ge (om s lofty sis; hence, narrow, but not a gully or wter-torrent) -- valley. See HEBREW gevah Forms and Transleratnsבְּגֵ֣י בְּגֵ֣יא בְּגֵ֥יא בְּגֵ֪יא בְּגֵיא־ בַּגַּ֔יְא בַּגַּ֗יְא בַּגָּ֔יְא בַגַּיְ֙ בגי בגיא בגיא־ גֵּ֖י גֵּ֖יא גֵּ֣י גֵּ֣יא גֵּ֤י גֵּ֥י גֵּ֥יא גֵּ֨אָי֜וֹת גֵּ֨י גֵּֽיא־ גֵּי־ גֵֽי־ גֶּיא֙ גַ֔יְא גאיות גי גי־ גיא גיא־ הַגֵּאָי֖וֹת הַגֵּאָי֛וֹת הַגַּ֖יְא הַגַּ֜יְא הַגַּ֜יא הַגַּיְא֙ הַגָּ֑יְא הַגֵּאָיֹ֑ות הגאיות הגיא וְגֵ֣יא וְגֵאוֹתֶ֙יךָ֙ וְהַגַּ֖י וְהַגַּ֖יְא וְלַגֵּאָי֗וֹת וְלַגֵּאָי֜וֹת וְלַגֵּאָיֹ֗ות וּבְגֵ֨י ובגי וגאותיך וגיא והגי והגיא ולגאיות לַגַּי֙ לגי bag·gay bag·gāy ḇag·gay baggay baggāy ḇaggay bə·ḡê bə·ḡê- bəḡê bəḡê- begei Gay ḡay ge gê gê- ḡê- gê’āyōwṯ gê·’ā·yō·wṯ geaYot gei hag·gay hag·gāy hag·gê·’ā·yō·wṯ hagGai haggay haggāy haggê’āyōwṯ haggeaYot lag·gay lagGai laggay ū·ḇə·ḡê ūḇəḡê uveGei vaggaY veGei vegeoTeicha vehagGai vehagGay velaggeaYot wə·ḡê wə·ḡê·’ō·w·ṯe·ḵā wə·hag·gay wə·lag·gê·’ā·yō·wṯ wəḡê wəḡê’ōwṯeḵā wəhaggay wəlaggê’āyōwṯLksInterlear Greek • Interlear Hebrew • Strong's Numbers • Englishman's Greek Conrdance • Englishman's Hebrew Conrdance • Parallel TextsEnglishman's ConrdanceNumbers 21:20 HEB: וּמִבָּמ֗וֹת הַגַּיְא֙ אֲשֶׁר֙ בִּשְׂדֵ֣הNAS: and om Bamoth to the valley that is the landKJV: And om Bamoth [] the valley, that [is] the untryINT: Bamoth to the valley is landDteronomy 3:29 HEB: וַנֵּ֣שֶׁב בַּגָּ֔יְא מ֖וּל בֵּ֥יתNAS: So we remaed the valley opposeKJV: So we abo the valley over agastINT: remaed the valley oppose Beth-peorDteronomy 4:46 HEB: בְּעֵ֨בֶר הַיַּרְדֵּ֜ן בַּגַּ֗יְא מ֚וּל בֵּ֣יתNAS: the Jordan, the valley opposeKJV: Jordan, the valley over agastINT: across the Jordan the valley oppose Beth-peorDteronomy 34:6 HEB: וַיִּקְבֹּ֨ר אֹת֤וֹ בַגַּיְ֙ בְּאֶ֣רֶץ מוֹאָ֔בNAS: And He buried him the valley the landKJV: And he buried him a valley the landINT: buried the valley the land of MoabJoshua 8:11 HEB: מִצְּפ֣וֹן לָעַ֔י וְהַגַּ֖י [בֵּינֹו כ]NAS: of Ai.

LADI: I'M NOT YOUR GAY BOYIEND

” So I was cur to learn more about the unflatterg stereotyp lyg at the etymologil root of this moniker, which scrib straight women who tend to gravate toward gay men.

There are plenty of other lorful exprsns that pture this distct mographic rather vividly, some ls sultgly so than others, cludg:• F fly• Queen bee• Queer ar• Fairy godmother• Fag shagger• Queen mag• Hag along• Swish dish• Faggota • Homo honey• Fairy llector• Fairy prcs• Fag But ’s “fag hag” that ronat the public nscns. The rearchers note that both popular media and everyday exprsn, the term njur up the image of an unattractive, overweight, sperate woman who seeks out the pany of gay men to pensate for her lack of romantic attentn om straight guys. ” The French refer to such women as sorett (“Ltle Sisters”), the German brand them as Schwulen-Muttis (“Gay Moms”), and the Mexins know them as joteras (“jota” is monly ed for “fag”).

” Acrdg to the vtigators, the “hag” ponent is sentially the mon belief that the women “do not feel good about their bodi, and as a rult, take refuge the ‘gay world’ to avoid the harsher judgment and emphasis on female physil attractivens herent the heterosexual social scene. She’s also apparently never heard of blogist John Maynard Smh’s “sneaky f*cker” evolutnary hypothis for male homosexualy, which poss that gay men the anctral past had unique accs to the reproductive niche bee femal let their guards down around them and other mal didn't view them as sexual petors.

WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY MEN

If this were te, the thors reason, then there should be a meangful statistil associatn between a woman’s number of gay male iends and her body teem and relatnship succs— other words, the more pathetic a woman’s romantic life and the more she se herself as beg unsirable to straight men, the more she should seek out gay men as iends. In fact, wh this sample at least, there was absolutely no lk between a woman’s relatnship stat, the number of tim she’d been on the receivg end of a breakup, or her body teem and the number of gay male iends her life.

On terpretg this unexpected fdg, the thors suggt that this may actually reflect some re, but nuanced tth of the “fag hag” stereotype: “Perhaps women who perceive themselv as ls sexually attractive velop closer relatnships wh gay men. A heterosexual woman who seeks out or particularly enjoys the pany of gay of fag hag1First rerd 1965–70age note For fag hagThe term fag hag is rogatory for several reasons.

It uld imply that such a woman is unattractive to heterosexual men, is secure about herself regard to heterosexual datg and sex, is nrotic or needy, or is hidg her sexual attractn to gay men or to the particular gay man wh whom she is spendg time. 2023Brish Dictnary fns for fag hagnounslang, ually rogatory a heterosexual woman who prefers the pany of homosexual menColls English Dictnary - Complete & Unabridged 2012 Digal Edn. They n be portrayed as boy-crazy women happy to have a non-sexual male iend, or as smopolan women already a hetero relatnship that simply enjoy the pany of gay men.

In many s, the Hag started hangg out wh her gay iend bee she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for obv reasons (wishful thkg will ignore even the most Flamboyant Gay characteristics).

Gays who enjoy the pany of the ladi do so for siar reasons, but isn't unmon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, pecially if she's olr than him and/or if his own mother rejected him.

And lastly, by no means do all gay men enjoy female pany; at bt, some simply get along better wh other men, and at worst they n be as misogynistic as a stereotypil straight male misogynist. Some women rent the name "Fag Hag" for multiple reasons cludg the misogyny that along wh the term and are rather referred to as "F Fli", "Mo Hos", "Gay Boy Bunni", "Alternative Liftyle Assistants" or somethg along those l. The Japane equivalent of this phrase, Okoge, lerally means "the rice stuck to the bottom of a pot", playg off of Okama (lerally, a type of pot for okg rice), the slang term for homosexual men and drag queens.

Some people, cludg gay and straight, chew termology altogether and simply enjoy their iendships for what they are whout the need to put each other down or classify each other a rogatory way. Ed Bbaker's superhero/spy seri Sleeper (WildStorm) has a character named Fag Hag, bee she's an energy vampire that n only dra the lifeforce of homosexuals (plete wh Gaydar! She's both good iends wh Wicn and Hulklg of said team (and the three of them are the three longt-servg members of the team), and she beme somethg of a surrogate dghter to a gay uple she met when she moved to the Wt Coast after she saved their weddg, while also t-stg for a lbian uple.

In Ask Hoops and Dumbbell, Dumbbell meets a lbian who adms that she seeks out iendships wh gay stallns bee she fds iendship easier when Inpatible Orientatn isn't a risk.

It's subverted when she hangs out wh Kurt and his csh Blae and is bored out of her md as the boys chat about theatre, fashn, and polil issu relevant to them as gays. Jane also clar herself a "total hag" to Max sce "the gays love me", but next to her Derrick doubtfully shak his head, eventually llg her "a top, pla and simple" due to her mandg personaly. Gimme, Gimme, Gimme subverts Will & Grace a very Brish way; throws together an appallg gay man and a socpathic straight woman, possibly bee nobody else would re to share a grotty rented flat wh them.

In the mil productn lled Fairy Tal, the song "The Gay Guys" is about a woman bemoang how every iend, every boyiend, every hband, and even her father are gay, and warns the man askg her out that before the night is over, she'll probably wd up turng him gay too. Condie Lg of Rick & Steve: The Happit Gay Couple All the World, who mak up for her abily to fd a date (by Rick's own word, she turned him gay high school) by hangg out wh homosexuals (who are ls prone to reject her, or at least, reject her ls vlently) and has a ser disgt of heterosexualy. Comedienne Margaret Cho is a self-scribed fag hag, which she claims stems om growg up San Francis and beg raised almost exclively by gay men; she bond wh the gay kids at her school bee they were outsts jt as much as she was for beg overweight and Asian.

A disguised versn of her helped the Depraved Homosexual characters based on Wil and his lover Aled "Bosie" Douglas worm their way to society orr to rpt the Wil-bashg roman a cléf The Green Carnatn. Cicisbei were more tolerated if they were known to be homosexuals and therefore were only around to be iends wh the lady, and not to have adultero relatnships wh her.

Estelle Getty, bt known for her role as Sophia on The Goln Girls, was famed for her relatnship wh gay men; she herself joked that she felt most fortable when she had her "five-fag mimum" around her. No NFL ach had ever publicly e out as gay, so Maxen, an assistant strength and ndng ach for the Jacksonville Jaguars, kept quiet about his sexual that ma him angry — at himself. Acrdg to the article, Maxen ma his cisn to do so last year and reached out for advice om Carl Nassib, who 2021 beme the NFL’s first out gay active player as a member of the Las Vegas was Nassib who put Maxen ntact wh Outsports.

They are the bt dance partners; nothg n be better than lechg at those hot men of sexual tensns and partner-petive behavur, straight women and gay men are ed the greatt iends ever! For the straight woman, he is a male iend that don’t expect more, a nfidante, and jt possibly the reason to bee more volved lbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT) activism.