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Contents:
- THE GAY MEN RISKG THEIR HEALTH FOR THE PERFECT BODY
- ALL STEREOTYP ARE TE, EXCEPT ... V: 'ALL EXTREMELY HANDSOME MEN ARE GAY'
- WHEN TO PROSTATE NCER, 'GAY MEN ARE ERASED,' PATIENTS SAY
- BT GAY DATG APPS FOR HOOKUPS, RELATNSHIPS, AND EVERYTHG BETWEEN
THE GAY MEN RISKG THEIR HEALTH FOR THE PERFECT BODY
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ALL STEREOTYP ARE TE, EXCEPT ... V: 'ALL EXTREMELY HANDSOME MEN ARE GAY'
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WHEN TO PROSTATE NCER, 'GAY MEN ARE ERASED,' PATIENTS SAY
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"The rult has been that gay men are unr more prsure than straight men to have the perfect body, Matthew says.
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'"Jeff Ingold, om LGBT chary Stonewall says is "ccial" that we see more diverse reprentatns of gay and bisexual men wh different body typ the media.
"Not only would this help gay and bi men see themselv reflected what they watch, would also help break down harmful stereotyp that affect gay and bi men's body image and self-teem. Another mon stereotype about physil appearance is that extremely handsome men are likely to be homosexual.