Is Your Man Gay, Straight, or Bisexual? | Psychology Today

Contents:

• WHEN STRAIGHT MEN ARE ADDICTED TO GAY SEX
• AM I GAY?
• CAN SCTN MAKE STRAIGHT MEN GAY?
• SOME GAYS CAN GO STRAIGHT, STUDY SAYS
• ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?
• THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT
• IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
• HOW TO LEAD A HETEROSEXUAL LIFTYLE IF YOU ARE GAY
• IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?

WHEN STRAIGHT MEN ARE ADDICTED TO GAY SEX

” Many people, cludg sex rearchers and scientists, believe that sexual orientatn is like a sle wh entirely gay on one end and entirely straight on the other.

Sexual inty is how you label yourself (for example, g labels such as queer, gay, lbian, straight, or bisexual). Some people may engage same genr sexual behavr but not intify themselv as bisexual, lbian, or gay. ' His buddi got all homophobic on him, so he asked, 'You guys have never msed around wh another guy?

In the end, they're still straight, and I'm still gay and happily married to my hband of 12 years.

AM I GAY?

If you’re a young man, you might assume that eher you’re straight or you’re not, meang you’re likely gay and maybe bisexual. Yet the evince suggts that more young men intify or scribe themselv as mostly straight than intify as eher bisexual or gay bed. Yet when the men were forced to choose between straight, bisexual or gay, about three-quarters marked straight bee for them bisexual, even if is unrstood as “bisexual-leang straight, ” is too gay to accurately scribe their inty.

Tradnally, our unrstandg has been that if you’re male and have even a slight attractn to the same sex, then you mt be gay. He’s not a closeted gay man who fears beg gay yet wants to keep a slight, perhaps secretive, gay si by danglg his potential for guy sex. He may retreat om a full intifitn wh heterosexualy, but rarely do he gravate toward bisexualy, and almost never do he move toward homosexualy of any sort.

CAN SCTN MAKE STRAIGHT MEN GAY?

• Could a straight guy get dnk enough to fool around wh another guy jt bee “felt good”, or is more likely that he has some gay/bi/cur feelgs that perhaps he’s been reprsg?

SOME GAYS CAN GO STRAIGHT, STUDY SAYS

Even acuntg for the fact that he might remember some of what happened, don't mean he's bisexual, secretly gay, or that you're his magil "exceptn. I don't know many gay men (myself clud) who hasn't veloped a csh or had feelgs for a straight guy - cludg straight iends.

ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?

I've seen other gay guys that fell for a straight guy (typilly a iend) and wanted to lu themselv to believg that a relatnship was possible. It don't bother me that I fooled around wh another guy (other than the fact I enabled him to cheat); I'm gay after all. Ok, you experienced your straight csh g te, so now back off and al wh the 100 percent gays or bis that are sgle.

THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT

You know your iend is gay, so your bra now se that as an opportuny to have that physil need fulfilled. I’ve told you that I don’t thk this mak you gay or even bi, but ’s not like you n jt prt off this post and show to your girliend as proof.

So until they fd themselv a siar suatn, they don’t see how n be possible for a straight person to have a sexual experience wh a person of the same sex and not be gay or at least bisexual. I read this thread earlier and told one of my very few gay iends about and he said the same thg had happened to him.

Rearch nducted by found that 13% of straight men have had gay sexual experienc and another 5% have not but would like to.

IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?

Their report maps out the ncentratns of gay cur men across the Uned Stat and Canada showg some tertg there are a number of ways clicians n thk about this type of believe that the fact that the man is havg sexual experienc wh men dit the possibily that he is vertly gay and is need of help to overe his shame and e I believe is impossible to nclu that a man is or is not gay or bisexual simply based on his actg out sexually wh men.

In such a se, the man may jt be sexually adventuro and terted any sirable sexual opportuny wherever prents some s the man qutn is very addicted to real or virtual experienc of gay sex. He uld be a gay or bisexual man who is a sex addict or he uld be a straight man whose actg out behavr scenar is wh gay sex addictn therapists we are often unable to answer the qutn of orientatn until the addictn has been addrsed.

You uld say that some suatns addictn tmps orientatn, and is only after the person has worked through the unnsc issu drivg the addictn and e to some level of sobriety om the dg of his actg out behavr that we n beg to see whether he actually has a gay or bi or straight orientatn. Gay - While this adjective has historilly scribed men who are attracted to other men, the term now is ed to refer to anyone who experienc romantic, emotnal, or physil attractn to people of the same genr.

HOW TO LEAD A HETEROSEXUAL LIFTYLE IF YOU ARE GAY

Sce genr inty and sexual orientatn are separate, transgenr people n intify as straight, gay, lbian, bisexual, etc.

For starters, the ia fli the face of false narrativ that have been promulgated by gay activists sce the 1950s, which claim that sexual orientatn is geilly fixed and therefore unchangeable. The big secret that the public is not supposed to know is that gay people n fd healg for the of their homosexual nfn and velop some gree of heterosexual attractn.

IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?

This is a well-tablished fact, proven study after study and the liv of untls former homosexuals.

Sce young, attractive femal no longer found them attractive, they rorted to the only sexual activy left to them – young, homosexual boys.

That is why activist attempts to get young people to experiment wh homosexual experienc should ighten all. A third group of formerly straight, now gay clients was men who had grown up as broken, suggtible adolcents wh ltle ego strength.