HOCD – Homosexual OCD or the Fear of Beg Gay - Center for Treatment of Anxiety & Mood Disorrs

Contents:

• N YOU TURN GAY? HOCD?
• HOCD BUT GAY ANYWAY
• DO YOU HAVE HOCD OR ARE YOU JT NYG THAT YOU'RE GAY OR BI?
• YOU ARE NOT GAY, 'S HOCD, FOR ALL YOU SUFFERERS.
• YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
• MEET THE STRAIGHT MEN WHO ARE TERRIFIED THEY ARE GAY
• HOCD – GAY OR HOMOSEXUAL OCD AND REVERY
• HOCD – HOMOSEXUAL OCD OR THE FEAR OF BEG GAY
• HOCD; GAY OR STRAIGHT OR OCD?
• CAN YOU BEE GAY OM HOCD?

N YOU TURN GAY? HOCD?

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HOCD BUT GAY ANYWAY

Gays ually have feme rat which is what I I get terrible anxiety around girls and on Empty Closets they say s bee 'you are feelg prsure to feel what you are SUPPOSED to feel and nt bee you are gay' so lled groal rpons are so strong for me.

To ask gay people their experienc and see if they are siiar to groasl feel like sudn jolt of aroal, blood flow to ballsack, sexual tgl, tighteng, fast heartbeat, nervons etc..

The qutn is right at the heart of HOCD feelgs, sce this particular type of OCD foc on an obssn wh gay, lbian, or bisexual activy and the patient's uncertaty about his or her own sexualy. If you have been or have experienc om beg straight and you fear that you're gay, 's very likely that you're straight and the "gay feelg" is jt a symptom of your unrlyg OCD.

DO YOU HAVE HOCD OR ARE YOU JT NYG THAT YOU'RE GAY OR BI?

One thg that sr me bee seems different than what I read about HOCD is that people talk about beg aaid they uld be gay or uld turn gay, but n HOCD make you thk youre ACTUALLY gay? After i purchased thoughts me up, you are gay, e out of the closet also gay imag and such which i'm also part , the thoughts said to me you should buy aga to remove the gayns.

Not buyg aga( y i also got ocd sometim when buyg thgs)After that was hard, my thoughts had basilly epic battl between the gay crap my head which i know a't real and the real thgs that i know i'm straight. I don't really re about how people would treat me even as a straight person if you don't like me there's the door, but even if i really was gay i wouldn't give 2 shs about what people thk aswell.

Another thg is that when your thoughts sayg your gay and you try to fight off bee ofurse you don't feel right wh , and you say NO IM HETERO, and also keep checkg and repeatg thought about the straight thgs you did the past etc, that's somethg you shouldn't do anymore, nfirmg that you're straight.

YOU ARE NOT GAY, 'S HOCD, FOR ALL YOU SUFFERERS.

Simply by the fact that you would have felt emotnally and physilly attracted to men and fd perfectly normal and loved havg gay thoughts, imag and that you have read the above, uld be like me that you still have unwanted thoughts. It is distguished by beg overly ncerned and vol to others about not beg gay, as well as reag om participatg otherwise normal activi so that others do not associate you wh the possibily of beg gay. However, bee most gay men start out thkg of themselv as straight, many gay men beg wh the same set of fears and valu due to which they don’t reveal their inti and bee the on nial or beg the closet.

YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD

It will still be s before the general public is fortable wh the entire suatn, and even longer before homosexualy is treated as jt another genr, equal to beg straight. We all have male and female parts of ourselv, both physilly and mentally; In my childhood, I observed that any genr dysmorphia was heavily nmned, and I have several iends who would turn out gay if they uld. We now see that human sexualy is very malleable; there is jail gayns, which people are gay si and straight outsi; and we see straight men havg sex wh trans girls and payg for when they uld have girls.

MEET THE STRAIGHT MEN WHO ARE TERRIFIED THEY ARE GAY

The 19th centuryPerversnDenialThe Mid 20thHomosexualyLiberal rearchThe Mid 1960s-1980sGa and lbian livRise of genr theoryThe 1980sHIV and AIDSDisurse theoryThe late 1980sQueerPoststcturalismAn troductory and terdisciplary approach to gay studi. As of this wrg I have been bombard by threads, private msag, e-mail, and stant msag by straight folks terrified that they are gay (and a very small number of gay and bisexual folks terrified that they, too, are not their real sexual orientatn). Neverthels, is sufficiently wispread to warrant more specialists the field, more media exposure, and more unrstandg among therapists relativ, iends, and, pecially, gay people who give the wrong advice.

First of all, is important to note that the current versn (5th Edn) of the DSM — Diagnostic and Statistil Manual of Mental Disorrs, published by the Amerin Psychologil Associatn (APA, 2013) — do not regnise homosexual obssive-pulsive disorr (HOCD) as a mental health ndn (Smh, 2021). He rried out the same tt almost every night for the next three weeks, always wh the same searchg Inter mental health foms for answers to his private impasse, Darren beme nvced that he was sufferg om 'HOCD': a not officially regnised form of Obssive Compulsive Disorr fed by the fear of beg or beg homosexual. While he asserts that 'HOCD', an acronym ed by sufferers sharg their stori onle, isn't officially classified the Diagnostic and Statistil Manual of Mental Disorrs (DSM), he says that the irratnal fear of beg or beg gay falls firmly wh the umbrella of Obssive Compulsive Disorr.

Darren says he grew up a "liberal-ish" hoehold and believ that homosexualy would have been accepted by his fay and iends, but 's easy to see how a ls tolerant upbrgg uld turn homosexualy to a e for anxiety.

HOCD – GAY OR HOMOSEXUAL OCD AND REVERY

Nowadays, the majory of tablished OCD chari – cludg OCDUK, OCDActn and Md - addrs tsive sexual thoughts as a mon trope of the disorr, but that has done ltle to stem a backlash om some high-profile skeptics wh the psychologil muny, who believe that HOCD is at bt misguid, and at worst homophobia s most pernic guise.

"My psychologist jt looked bored and hand me a leaflet"In November 2015, BuzzFeed UK's LGBT edor Patrick Stdwick published an article tled '"World's Leadg Anxiety Expert" Offers Treatment For People Who Worry That They're Gay' that heavily cricised the practice of a Harley Street therapist named Charl Ln who, acrdg to the se, boasted of a "100% succs rate" the treatment of "HOCD" the time the article was wrten, Ln's publishers were dubbg him as "the world's leadg thory on anxiety", and his webse ma hefty promis to sexually-nfed OCD sufferers. "If you are experiencg HOCD … and the thoughts , " the se read, "you are not gay and when you do my Method to elimate this and your other anxieti you'll fd out why you thk you might be and why you certaly are NOT!

HOCD – HOMOSEXUAL OCD OR THE FEAR OF BEG GAY

They terviewed a number of proment mental health profsnals on the matter, who echoed the argument that the ncept of 'HOCD' was seeped homophobia and psdo psychology. Elizabeth Peel, chair of the Brish Psychologil Society's 'Psychology of Sexuali' sectn and a profsor of Communitn & Social Interactn at Loughborough Universy, stat wh the piece that: "The term 'Homosexual OCD' is simply nversn therapy unr another guise and somethg we strongly nmn as damagg. And an age where even the Vice Print of the Uned Stat has exprsed tac support for the practice, 's unrstandable that high profile figur the psychologil muny would nmn anythg that uld fuel the rhetoric of homophobic 'therapists', or provi party-le approval of their methods.

HOCD; GAY OR STRAIGHT OR OCD?

After all, spe recent headways by LGBT groups and nunciatn om former Print Barrack Obama, gay nversn therapy is still legal across the US and only six stat have banned the practice relatn to mors. "If a client who is gay but anx about the nsequenc of acceptg themselv or g out go to a therapist who has an agenda about homosexualy, then of urse that therapist isn't workg the bt tert of their clients. "Rose Bretécher believ the accatn HOCD is jt 'ternalised homophobia' is rrect, but don't blame anyone for leapg to such a ncln: "People's unrstandg is only as good as the rmatn available out there – and awarens is still pretty poor.

"Joseph tells me that he has never had a gay person e to him wh tsive thoughts about heterosexualy, but ttimony exists on Inter foms, and the OCD Center of Los Angel stat that do happen.

"Over the years, therapists here […] have treated many homosexuals (male and female) who are plagued by obssive fears of beg "straight", and who suffer equally when OCD attacks their sexual inty, " stat their webse, which also offers an onle HOCD tt. "If someone is fearful of beg gay bee beg gay reprents to them abandonment by their fay, or rejectn, or experiencg vlence or abe, then you would help them to accept themselv unndnally as a gay man. What 's like to attend a 'pick up artist' class n by a womanIt's time to nont porn's biggt tattooMeet the straight men who are terrified they are gayWhy n't men stop sendg dick pics?

CAN YOU BEE GAY OM HOCD?

If you are experiencg HOCD, often lled Gay OCD and the thoughts … you are not gay and when you do TLM to rever om this and your other anxieti, EVERYTHING will make perfect sense. ALL of the above and, ed, any other thoughts about beg attracted to the same sex as yourself or beg ‘gay’, or beg gay and havg the same anxieti about beg ‘straight’, are 100% NORMAL the prence of anxiety. HOCD has nothg to do wh sexualy – A person’s sexualy isn’t a choice, ’s a geic pret – what this means is that where you fall on the the long le between total heterosexualy and homosexualy isn’t a matter of nsc choice… ’s geic.